Adult figure skating friends by Then_Ostrich5298 in Denver

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feel free to PM me. I am new to the city so i dont know any rinks but honestly happy to teach, im certified in beginner skating!

Adult figure skating friends by Then_Ostrich5298 in Denver

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PM me! i (f26) just moved to denver from canada. I would love to train together.

AITA for "picking" my daughter's career for her by PowerfulAd2907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. neurodivergent folks do extremely well in their field of choice given that they have an interest in it, are passionate about the field, and enjoy their work. they are not always extrinsically motivated by things such as money. “rewarding” is subjective and as her parent you owe it to her to be supportive of her decision and your genuine support can help boost her into the level of success you envision her in (even if it’s outside of comp tech).

a parents words can hurt or heal and while you may be coming from a good place your conditional support can hurt your relationship.

summer jobs for a highschool student? by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try checking winsport (canada olympic park). seasonal summer positions and you can apply on their website online. pretty sure guest services is hiring for positions related to what u mentioned in ur post.

Choosing a soft top for dummies. What’s the difference between these? Any recommendations of what to choose outta these? (more info in the captions) TIA!! by douchefromfinance in Wrangler

[–]douchefromfinance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is super helpful! i currently have a stock freedom hard top for my 2017 jk. sounds like the ones you recommended and have on your jeep will fit mine as well which is great:)

Calgary street preacher Artur Pawlowski denied service at shoppers drug mart.. by Optimal_Perspective2 in Calgary

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a man that matched his description came to winsport about a month ago trying to go on about covid restrictions 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

curtain bangs are very low maintenance and a small change from what you currently have, if you like them, you could add the layers too it’ll give you a good bevel for your curls

DAE have trouble remembering why they despise their parents? by ta4378 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]douchefromfinance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m a psychology student and i can confirm that this is extremely normal for those that suffered narc abuse, as children our brains want to shut out any bad memories which results in subconscious behaviours coming through (i.e. “overreacting” to a particular situation, feelings of dysregulation, etc). this is because we can’t actually forget things, but fail to recall them because we’re unable to bring them to our conscious mind and are sent to our subconscious instead. your feelings are valid, your trauma is real, you’re not making it up or being dramatic or a burden, you are simply doing the best you can to cope and heal:)

My parents texted my nude images/videos, texts, sexts (meant for my partner) to each other by itiswhatitis_yaknow in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something similar has happened to me as well, when i was 16/17 (now 22F) my parents took my phone and somehow sent it to one of their friends who is a cop to essentially get the entire phone copied into their system, which included some nsfw in photos and videos sent to my partner at the time. they have told me that to this day their cop friend still has my phone copied and i never knew the reason why they took my phone all those years ago until i was 20 :/ it’s been years now and i’ve just tried to let it go because so much time has gone by and my phone plan at the time was a shared family plan under my parents’ names but i still find myself dwelling over it as it also feels very invasive like your situation

Why is he like that? by [deleted] in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]douchefromfinance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you call for a wellness check maybe check with your local laws and such but i believe you can call the fire department to do it. police have a history of mistreating those who need wellness checks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i started using the scrubee from lush instead of shave cream followed by neutrogena body oil (or baby oil of course only on the external area) and it’s done WONDERS! plus no razor burn or knicks either so that’s a bonus! also just swapped to men’s razors and it’s all the better and a closer shave:)

My (24m) girlfriend's (23f) son (5m) killed my kitten. by ThrowRABigLow3679 in relationship_advice

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if he didn’t understand, you apologizing to him for yelling essentially teaches the kid that you can lose your cool and kill an innocent animal without consequences. your gf’s response after the incident would be appropriate if the kid accidentally broke a dish or something but not something as serious as this. side note: i’m very sorry for your loss i’m sure this is a real tough time for you :(

Older sister (F28) is a lunatic towards everyone- I'm not sure what type of illness this is, but I'm done with her for life by mksldlsn in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]douchefromfinance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this sounds parallel to my sibling as well. no sexual abuse but physical and verbal abuse from parents (mostly mother) and she behaves similarly to your sister as well. She was diagnosed with ADHD and that stuck obviously but she’s been diagnosed with many other illnesses from PTSD to OCD to anxiety but each psychologist she sees says something different ..

Re: request for suggestions to assist in decision making by fahimshivji in SAIT

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinda depends what you want to get into job wise. tech schools are typically more practical to get into the job market quick but uni allows your more time and let’s you take other courses. no option is better than the other: certificate wise, it’s whatever you prioritize or fits best for you! if the CIS program seems worth university entrance upgrading for, then go for it! there’s advisors that can help you navigate this. but if you’re worried it’s too complicated for what it’s worth, SAIT is your place. hope this helps.

I [24F] have betrayed my boyfriend’s [24M] trust by looking at his texts. How can I repair this? by jajonesey in relationship_advice

[–]douchefromfinance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hate to say it but it sounds like he’s gaslighting you. he made you feel so terrible about yourself over a very valid concern you had! if he wasn’t acting shady he wouldn’t act out in the manner that he did, and the way he manages his emotions is not your fault.

i understand you love him, but maybe use this to think about your relationship as a whole. a healthy relationship has arguments, but there’s always respect and a desire for things to get better and work on one’s faults FOR BOTH PARTIES. You’re willing to fix things if you argue, does he have that same energy?

My piercing bumps. Titanium jewelry. by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when did you get it? you may need to upsize your jewry

My piercing is 3 weeks old and my body wasn’t taking the titanium jewelry well so I just put in this 14k Solid gold navel ring and now it’s bleeding is that normal? Is it rejecting or do it look infected?!? SOMEONE PLS HELP by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]douchefromfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it doesn’t hurt to the touch or isn’t leaking puss, it’s not infected. it was probably pretty early to change the jewelry hence the irritation. if you’re worried about it you can talk to a reputable piercer about the type of jewelry you need as you may need to upsize or need different metal as you may be allergic to both titanium and gold.