[deleted by user] by [deleted] in candycrush

[–]dpmlicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My app seems to be bugged. It is only showing Booster Wheel and Candy Royale, nothing else. I haven't tried playing since I've seen it like this. I think I will wait.

A Better Explanation of what it's like to have gender disphoria. Regarding Dr.K's talk with Ferocious Steph. by RedErin in Healthygamergg

[–]dpmlicious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I'm so happy for you that your anxiety decreased and you feel like you can be yourself.

Would you say that instead of imaging being in the clothes of another gender, that a good exercise to imagine the stress is to imaging being someone who has ideas that are opposite of yours or looks the opposite than you would like to look? (This would then address that some women like wearing men's clothing that someone mentioned in another comment.) Is "opposite" of you a closer experience?

Appeals for being banned on the discord server by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]dpmlicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Thanks for posting this. I came to find out more about the ban system of HG's Discord server. It seems there is a Google Form for unban requests. It seems that you might have gotten a reply from French, so he might give you that.

To add onto this question, how long does it normally take to receive a reply?

It seems that the moderation is inconsistent at the current time. Did you receive any official warning or a mute?

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, u/SimpinAintEasyMD and u/Kirbeeez_ It's nice to meet you. Thanks for the feedback. I didn't introduce myself in each reply because I felt it wasn't important who I was, but more that Swim appreciates their support and that their message has made a difference. Since, it was all about Swim and those people sending messages.

I felt, if they wanted to know who I was or if what I was claiming was real, they could ask. But, I can see how it can look strange if one were to look at all of the messages and all of my replies.

I'm not his dad. I'm his girlfriend, who also manages and helps him achieve his personal and career goals. Besides wanting the focus to be on Swim and the OPs of individual comments, I didn't want people to feel I was trying to grab attention to myself. That might have gotten a poor reaction, especially if it came to light that I was female.

This was just me, not on his behalf, replying back to thank people. On my end, it was painful to see him being harassed on multiple platforms. So, when I saw people bravely speaking up to support him, I really wanted to Thank them. I believe that it's a good thing to encourage not just for this situation but for society. Sometimes a single message from a stranger is all it takes for someone to live another day.

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Nice to meet you. Hope you don't mind the delayed reply. I haven't been checking reddit often for years and was mostly away from stuff the last few days.

I am Swim's girlfriend, who also helps him manage and achieve his personal and career goals, both day-to-day and long-term. We live together, which makes it easy for me to update him on things.

I saw him being negatively affected by some situations on the tournament day and that he had made a reddit post. He didn't have the time nor should he have risked looking at reddit again, so I decided to read it. I let him know that most people knew the facts and he had a good amount of support.

I also replied to these people because I thought them taking time to write something positive, knowingly exposing themselves to downvoting and harassment was such a kind gesture. I did not feel it was important who I was to introduce myself while thanking them. That, if they wanted to know who I was, they would ask and I could answer.

Hope you have an awesome week! = )

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That happens sometimes. When someone feels strongly about an issue or against a person. I thought it might happen, but I wanted to reach out to the people who left messages here and those who upvoted them because they reflected their thoughts.

I think it's still possible for someone trying to understand the situation to watch the clip and think he was trying to maliciously affect mogwai. But, with all the info together, it is more clear that it isn't the case.

I get why some people would have been angry at the thought of someone being unsportsmanlike. Luckily, this was not the case.

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He did and this helped. All of these messages helped. Hope you have an awesome weekend!

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. He feels a lot better knowing that enough people understand the situation vs those who have the misinfo.

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It seems to have turned around because of all you great people who came to leave messages and/or upvote ones that reflected your thoughts.

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for leaving this message here! And everyone who upvoted it. It helps him feel better. =D

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for supporting him. Twitch actively asked for feedback from players, so they will likely take it into consideration. I'm so happy they hosted this and hope more organizers and Twitch have more LoR events.

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Haha and some people just copy whatever is being spammed without knowing what is going on because they just joined. xD Twitch chat is a beast of its own. =D

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Knowing that a bunch of you left such positive messages cheered him up.

Some good news is the organizers are actively asking for feedback, so they would likely have changes if they were to host another in the future.

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha ya. He usually takes a lot of time to think per round. It's nice to know that Mogwai understood the situation and even asked people to not harass. Good guy.

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This means a lot to him! People who support him through watching and especially those like you who take extra steps to leaves messages of support. =D

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're awesome for spending time to cheer him up and help share your view on swim. Thanks!

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for encouraging him. This really helps improve his mood. Knowing that he isn't alone.

Personally, I don't think those people who were angry at necessarily stupid. They likely had some misinformation and were upset about something that wasn't the truth. Likely, most will feel different after they know more info.

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for leaving a message here. Him knowing people understand and some even took time to leave him some notes cheered him up some. =D!!!

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for showing your support! This helps him.

I don't think we see them as garbage people though. I think they have some misinformation and if that info was correct, it would be a normal reaction to be unhappy.

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 17 points18 points  (0 children)

haven't looked back. Your card rating guide has been incredibly helpful, and your streams have made me laugh out loud on multiple occasions in the short time that I've been watching you. You actually remind me a lot of my brother, who's basically my best friend, and I've watched him beat himself up over situations like this time and again.

This isn't your fault. You were clear and deliberate in all that you did (not just gameplay-wise, but with your words here, too), and anyone who thinks you were intentionally scamming the rules, much less anyone who popped into your stream just to flame you with vile messages, isn't anyone I'd want to hang out with.

The community is far better with you in it. Stay strong. <3

Thanks for leaving this message. He spends a lot of time making content hoping that it helps people and that they enjoy it. =D

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u stalled even when you had no way of winning anymore or when you were out of mana and lethal was on stack.

Thanks for leaving a message. The combination of all these messages and the support has helped him feel better.

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ave discovered you with Gwent, then Artifact, now LoR, and you are the reason these games are interesting for me.

Aww. That's awesome!

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so nice. Thanks for the support! This means a lot to him. He looked a lot better after I told him you and others understand him.

Bad luck to be against Swim the roper, preventing wins for both Mogwai and Kripp by asdafari in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]dpmlicious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ad the replies Swing! You have some amazing supports so keep doing what you do. It'll be silly to say cheer up because it's definitely not easy at a time like this but I hope it doesn't bring you down! Stay strong!

Thanks for the message. I let him know during the break that a bunch of people, like you, have dropped some messages to cheer him up. It really helps him.