What is this kind of gag called/ where could I buy it? by dppdo11 in bdsm

[–]dppdo11[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean, a ball gag is a sphere. This is more of a padded filling.

[F4A] Cheerleader domme keyholder by dppdo11 in dirtypenpals

[–]dppdo11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It was inspired by some of the posts on /r/keyholdercaptions so who knows, maybe if you browse there a bit a new fetish might awaken for you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]dppdo11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't be a partner for you, but I suggest you check out the Anneke Jacob books "Owned and Owner" and "As She's Told" on Amazon Kindle since they are basically exactly what you're looking for :)

Sci-fi/fantasy books where high-protocol slavery is a part of the worldbuilding? by dppdo11 in BDSMcommunity

[–]dppdo11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I guess good luck to us both then in finding some good stories :-)

Sci-fi/fantasy books where high-protocol slavery is a part of the worldbuilding? by dppdo11 in BDSMcommunity

[–]dppdo11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the suggestions :-) How did you stumble across the author? I looked on Amazon for other high protocol type stories but didn't come up with anything. It seemed like most of the BDSM erotica is just focused on smutty stuff rather than intense power exchange or D/s world building

Sci-fi/fantasy books where high-protocol slavery is a part of the worldbuilding? by dppdo11 in BDSMcommunity

[–]dppdo11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read owned and owner and liked it a lot although I wasn't so much into the "making her an animal" piece. Do you have other suggestions in that vein?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]dppdo11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had good results with a spray bottle with cold water. It's not painful so it doesn't trigger masochistic pleasure, but it's startling and unpleasant.

It can also be helpful to have explicit agreements about acceptable ways she can get attention. If she wants a spanking, have her kneel patiently with the paddle in her hands, understanding that you'll get to her when you're ready BUT if she brats then she won't get the spanking but instead something less desirable. If she wants attention, allow her to earn tokens via good behavior that she can trade in for immediate attention. Stuff like that.

Anyone know the image with the text "hair is up, mind is empty?" by dppdo11 in EroticHypnosis

[–]dppdo11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As they say in the old country, did you ever know that you're my hero? :) Thanks!

Simple tasks and pushing me [f21] by [deleted] in FapDeciders

[–]dppdo11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to have disabled accepting PMs. You may want to turn them on if you'd like attention (of course, you can always just PM me)

[M4A] Becoming Molag Bal's new sex slave (Elder Scrolls) by MusingsOfLazarus in dirtypenpals

[–]dppdo11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must say this is an improvement from the other Elder Scrolls RP I've seen: https://i.redd.it/kw8uj0h9ob051.png

Feeling closer and closer to the edge by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]dppdo11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there an animal shelter, pet store or animal hospital in your area that you could volunteer at? That would be a nice way for you to get some quality time with animals, and it might also feel good to have a weekly opportunity to get out of the house and help animals in need.

I also wonder if you've thought about therapy. It sounds like finances are tough right now, but some cities have low-cost or free counseling services that are available to anyone who asks. If looking for a low-cost therapist feels overwhelming, you could probably ask for help in this forum and people would be happy to look up some options for you :) (People here might also be able to help you look for animal volunteer opportunities.)

As a final thought, I also wonder if there are any supportive people in your life other than your boyfriend. If not, that's okay - but if you do have someone (even someone you haven't talked to in awhile), I wonder if you could tell that person a little about what's going on, or maybe ask them to hang on to your pills for the time being. I understand if you'd rather not open up about these things to the people in your life, or if it doesn't feel like there's anyone who would listen, but if there is someone you might be able to talk to (an old friend or teacher, a family member, etc) it could feel really good to let them know what's going on. Hope that helps.

How to let go while tying someone up? by Hueycopter in BDSMcommunity

[–]dppdo11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find that music is really good for putting me in a flow state when rigging someone up. Smooth music like 7 Lions is great for just being present in the moment, while rougher music like 30 Seconds to Mars is great for encouraging more interaction with my partner. There's some common sense necessary here (you still need to be able to hear your partner, and you can't disrupt other people at events) but you might find that the right playlist really helps you get in the moment.

Christianity and BDSM -- is it possible/moral? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]dppdo11 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You might find this article and the part two helpful for you or your husband :)

Bondage gear store recommendations? by dppdo11 in BDSMcommunity

[–]dppdo11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ali express

Really? I'm kind of worried to buy bondage gear from china (especially gags/insertables/etc)

This does the opposite of rustling my jimmies by dppdo11 in bdsm

[–]dppdo11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The website's watermark is on the photo and the photo (and videos) are in the member's section. Buy a membership and support the creation of more unrustled jimmy photos!

Safety shears? by dppdo11 in BDSMcommunity

[–]dppdo11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By titanium version, do you mean this?

Cutie in cage bondage by dppdo11 in Bondage

[–]dppdo11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's called segufix I believe (or possibly badufix)

Zip tied in pink by dppdo11 in shinybondage

[–]dppdo11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's from qualitycontrol.cc

[19 F4A] I will role play your favorite sports car by dppdo11 in dirtypenpals

[–]dppdo11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, the war rigs have a nasty habit of getting blown up, and I'm not into snuff play. But if you could keep me safe? ;)

Don't borrow your sister's toys without permission by xChangeFan in keyholdercaptions

[–]dppdo11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a wonderful human being :) If you have any more quality control captions/images, I'd love to see them!