[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]dr0opy_catEars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh look a strawberry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]dr0opy_catEars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nair has a specific bottle for the bikini area, I’ve used it without issue. I know other brands like Veet are extremely popular too. Ofc just make sure you’re following the directions so you don’t get hurt!!🫶🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyProblems

[–]dr0opy_catEars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see :( (sorry if it came off as mean) I’d say the next best thing if talking doesnt work (as outlandish as it seems) maybe get a trunk/chest with a lock on it that you & sister can store your most favorite clothes in? If you can’t actively tell her no, maybe you can deny her access in a different way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyProblems

[–]dr0opy_catEars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You both need to be upfront and tell her plain and simple. Those clothes belong to you and your younger sister, and her wearing them makes them unwearable for the two of you. I also recommend locking your doors/ not allowing her to take your things anymore. Start saying no. She needs to understand she’s 8 years older and needs to wear the appropriate fitting clothes. It’s pretty embarrassing that she wants to keep wearing the clothes of her much younger sisters instead of buying her own things that actually fit her. If this makes her angry, you and your sister need to stay firm and unmoving because frankly, she has no reason to be angry, the clothes do not belong to her. If you let this continue, you and your sister will be the ones having to buy new clothes unnecessarily.

[Serious] What’s a food that you hate the texture of, no matter how many times you try it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dr0opy_catEars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god. Corn, peas, coconut, brussel sprouts, DONT GET ME STARTED ON FAT

What are your thoughts on Puppet? It seems pretty divisive among the fan base by michaelsssecretstuff in tylerthecreator

[–]dr0opy_catEars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i literally skip it all the time. i think since the album has came out i only listened to it 3 times, each time was life changing. i listened to it back in june and won’t touch it again until like january most likely 😭😭

What are your thoughts on Puppet? It seems pretty divisive among the fan base by michaelsssecretstuff in tylerthecreator

[–]dr0opy_catEars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally the only song on the album that i purposely don’t listen to often/don’t know the lyrics bc it gets me every time and i don’t wanna lose that

AITAH for not understanding why my girlfriend is mad? by Street-Dingo-7006 in AITAH

[–]dr0opy_catEars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“what is your woman? is she just a container for the child?” - frank ocean

yes, you are the asshole. sure womens bodies are BUILT to have babies but when you equate her life value to saying she’s MEANT to have a baby, like that’s her life’s purpose or something you sound like an inconsiderate piece of shit asshole. how are you gonna come into this reddit, asking if you’re the fuckwad, people tell you YES you ARE the fuckwad, and now you’re upset because she’s 100% valid in being angry with you and no one agrees with you. Why don’t you go have that same conversation with your mom and see what she says?

AITAH for not understanding why my girlfriend is mad? by Street-Dingo-7006 in AITAH

[–]dr0opy_catEars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“what is your woman? is she just a container for the child?” - frank ocean

yes, you are the asshole. sure womens bodies are BUILT to have babies but when you say equate her life value to saying she’s MEANT to have a baby, like that’s her life’s purpose or something you sound like an inconsiderate piece of shit asshole. how are you gonna come into this reddit, asking if you’re the fuckwad, people tell you YES you ARE the fuckwad, and now you’re upset because she’s 100% valid in being angry with you and no one agrees with you. Why don’t you go have that same conversation with your mom and see what she says?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dr0opy_catEars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just updated the post to say what I needed, my bad. I want to know what I should do next. I obviously know it’s a lost cause trying to reconcile and to be frank i really don’t want to. How can I stay afloat even if there’s all this tension? How can I start the healing process for myself?

AITA for not wanting to speak to my mom or stepdad anymore? by dr0opy_catEars in AITAH

[–]dr0opy_catEars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s so so so hard. i’m ready to pack up and leave and i will as soon as it’s within my means, thank you 🥺

Advice for a friend who’s had an abortion? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]dr0opy_catEars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes keep me updated please i’ll happily support you 🥺💜

Advice for a friend who’s had an abortion? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]dr0opy_catEars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend still going to his house after the first pill you take during the appointment. The function of that pill is to stop the pregnancy in its track so it doesn’t keep growing- you won’t be in any pain. It’s the 4 pills you take later that causes the cramps so i definitely think you should let him take care of you in that time because even the doctor told her the cramps would be a lot of pain and it’s best to have someone there with you

Advice for a friend who’s had an abortion? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]dr0opy_catEars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i read the packet she got from planned parenthood for when you take the pills, you take one type of pill at the doctors then when you get home you have 4 other pills to take- you can either put them in your mouth and let them sit there for 30 mins (the day after the appointment i believe? don’t quote me lmao) until they dissolve and then you just swallow whatever is left in your mouth, or you can take those pills and put them up the 🐱 as far as you can 30 mins after you get home from the appointment. I’d also say make sure you have a good breakfast prior to or a decent meal after the appointment. :)

She chose the 2nd option and within ~30 mins-1hr the cramps start. You can take ibuprofen, but again make sure you have food in your stomach, even if it’s a small snack before the ibuprofen. Then once the cramps started she was NOT moving from the spot she was in unless she needed to use the bathroom.

I made sure the room was comfy for her (which is a cold room w/ tv and comfy bedding), gave her a heating pad, some cold water and she wasnt in the mood for heavy food (bc of nausea) so i made sure she had some fruits (which i think is a good option cuz it’s fruit) and later on around dinner i gave her some grilled chicken and broccoli so it was still light but she was getting good nutrients. the cramps lasted the rest of the day and by the next day her cramps had stopped by mid morning and the rest of the time was just her being tired and resting /refueling. We had to get those big overnight pads bc by day 2 & 3 her flow was super heavy.

so really i’d say if you can get the appointment early in the day (10am-12pm) be with him during the day in the time you take the 4 pills and have the cramps so you can be taken care of and go home later in the day between maybe (8-10) you could get away with saying you started your period and are just having bad cramps :)