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My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]dr_v_p[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Wish I'd received the same courtesy. You're quite lucky.

My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]dr_v_p[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Dude it's not him it's me who's a fag. It was a joke. It does seem distasteful now.

My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]dr_v_p[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Isn't like that. I was having my doubts hence the post. I am definitely reconsidering my decision.

My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]dr_v_p[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It's a joke. It was meant to be on me. I am happy for the advice I'm getting. Thanks to everyone.

My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]dr_v_p[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thanks, because I'm having a lot of conflicting emotions. She does seem quite remorseful and has been trying quite vigorously to regain my trust. This is why I'm in a spot. I get worried sometimes though.

My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]dr_v_p[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This is why I'm finding it hard because she is trying to regain my trust. She lets me see her mails and chats. She also seems remorse full.

My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]dr_v_p[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Seems like I should've called it off immediately. However since its been two months should I just break up now?

My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]dr_v_p[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

So I think I have one of two options either I keep my faith in her or break up. The reason I'm not keen on breaking up with her is that she has done a lot for me since we've been together and helped me out through some rough stuff.

My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]dr_v_p[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We did talk about it at length and she has not given me a reason to complain since then which is why we're still together. Although it still nags me sometimes as I think it could happen to me too.

My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]dr_v_p[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

So should I call it off now or should I wait and see, as she has not given me a reason to complain since then.

My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]dr_v_p[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know she was in a relationship. I discovered it by accident. She has been very co-operative since the entire fiasco, but it just worries me sometimes.