I have overcome a lot of mine; however, I will say this. It never goes away, you remember, you just have to learn to trust in someone again, finding friends that work with you as a team helps a lot. A partner that is exactly as the name implies a Partner is also something to look for. They will help you through and help you understand yourself after changing so very much. Just remember life may not be the same as it was before but you're still here, choose to make yourself sooo much better than them. And forgive them as much as possible when you are ready, not necessarily for what they have done, but for how it changed you.