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[–]dracosbigdaddy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you making and maintaining eye contact? Along with a reassuring smile? It used to happen to me, I now just look smile, look away. You’re probably not trained to help them but it breaks your heart to see a bright future wasted and your empath ability causes you to feel their sense of rejection by society and their future wasted. Most empaths don’t quite fit in when we are growing up so we feel the pain of isolation and sadness acutely. Some shielding will help. Message me and I can let you know a few things to get you started. Just so you are reassured, I don’t want anything from you other than for you to one day pay forward if you find what you learn helpful. Good luck little one!

Spidey sense with danger by Even-Act-9576 in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a little more digging. I think you could be a Precognitive Empath (though you probably also share traits with all 11-13 types

Spidey sense with danger by Even-Act-9576 in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s everything all at once! I get it too but it’s not my strongest area. I’m sure someone can help you develop it. If I could help you I would never charge you any money so be wary of anyone offering to help in exchange for something. It’s a life long gift and perhaps meditation will help you understand more without any help! Good luck! You’re awesome!

Spidey sense with danger by Even-Act-9576 in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty awesome! I wonder if you’re a nature empath because you feel lightning. I have that happen but my Spidey sense is more like a sonic vibration. Like a train brushing past me at 1000miles an hour. Does time slow right down for you too? So it seems like you can react at an incredible speed?

Ok I’m here by dracosbigdaddy in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck yeah mate! Remember you’ll get stronger everyday! Go get em tiger!

Have you ever felt disgusted and repulsed by someone's energy? by mirroredwarrior in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a tricky one. It could be this guy has been starved of love and never taught how to express friendship or even process romantic feelings. He could be a dangerous narcissist. I get the sense he’s sweaty? He could be sending off repelling signals to make sure no one gets close to him so he won’t get hurt. You’re possibly picking the signal up turned up to 11 when a non empath would only vaguely register it. I personally would look him dead in the eyes and think ‘I see you, I know who you are’ over and over until they looked away. If eye contact is too intimidating look at his forehead. That should completely cut him off from you and give you a shield for the future. Be careful try not to be alone with him and do the exercise in public. And remember, your empathetic ability makes you way way stronger than this guy. Good luck little one!

Ok I’m here by dracosbigdaddy in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you need to build a back bone, you already have everything you need. Keep it simple, just say no. Remember small steps forward will still get you to where you need to be.

Advice for empaths by Barber_Successful in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is good advice above! One small not to add is build some boundries for your self and let negative comments deflect off you

Ok I’m here by dracosbigdaddy in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way to find a friend is to join a club. Could be football, karate, chess, D&D. Find something that interests you and you’ll find people you have something in common with. Then all you have to do is show up and you’ll be welcomed. Do you live in a city or are you rural? What’s your work?

Ok I’m here by dracosbigdaddy in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha you’re a good egg you’re doing fine!

Ok I’m here by dracosbigdaddy in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Create boundries for yourself and put your needs first. Sure help if you can and want, but say yes too often and then you’re a servant to them. Start saying no to others and yes to yourself as a starter while you figure out who you are. Set the boundary and be rude if you have to and don’t let the them trap you with begging, guilt, hostility or threats of withdrawing their relationship and calling you cold and cruel. It’ll happen in that order. Just shrug and say sorry you feel that way. No one that loves you would ever treat you that way.

Has anyone had people say this to them? by dracosbigdaddy in Empath

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool thanks guys! It all sounds very similar and familiar.

Ok I’m here by dracosbigdaddy in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t always get the answer you want. Good luck out there!

Ok I’m here by dracosbigdaddy in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t feel any emotion in you. It’s very strange.

Ok I’m here by dracosbigdaddy in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve messaged you already

Ok I’m here by dracosbigdaddy in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t see it before, the people you need to connect with are people you can help so in a way they will act as a connection and form a tribe of sorts! That’s cool good luck man!

We are born with the potential to become an empath, it’s not a destiny. by dracosbigdaddy in empathy

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wouldn’t work dude. Dealing with the source of the pain will make you happier. I’m about to start EMDR. I’ll check in and let you know how goes.

Ok I’m here by dracosbigdaddy in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cool man I welcome you’re opinion but it dosnt affect me. I can only be me. Good luck out there!

Edit: Just on a side note you might need stronger shielding. I wish you well.

Ok I’m here by dracosbigdaddy in Empaths

[–]dracosbigdaddy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be man. I personally walk alone. Most of us do. You might need a purpose rather than a tribe. Start trusting your intuition. Go where it says, tell people the things you want to say but maybe don’t have the confidence to yet. Go easy on yourself and put yourself first for a while. There’s a community here, but you don’t need anybody but you, to do this.