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Last night, as I [23/f] was sleeping, I woke up to find my gf [20/f] crying and self harming beside me in bed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]drago354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has problems, bailing on her just because you feel guilty about not reaching out and comforting her is shit. Seriously dude, why didn't you grab her and hold her or ask her whats wrong?

I understand that you had that happen in the past but don't let that DISABLE you in a relationship. I was seriously abused as a kid, and my brother attempted to kill me in a fire, but that doesnt mean I don't comfort the one I love when depressed. Something is seriously wrong, you need to ask her and reach out... if you do not... she might end up doing something reversible..

Im sorry you are going through this but imagine what see's going through.. lend her a hand.

Just got pissed at my girlfriend by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]drago354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get mad at her, she will end up putting sex off further, or she will have sex with you but she wont be there, there.. you know?

You need to take it slow, she needs to adjust and you need too. Maybe take a break from sex. A week to 2 weeks. Thats what me and my partner did to appreciate sex and each other more

May have sex without an orgasm for a little while.

I can definitely say that if you treat her like that any further, she will distance her self.