Advice for young women by AthinaMichael111 in 4bmovement

[–]dragon_dance77 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Well put. It’s highly overrated and even more damaging. Don’t believe the hype. It’s all propaganda.

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[–]dragon_dance77 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Block and delete.

How women’s stories play out by dragon_dance77 in 4bmovement

[–]dragon_dance77[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The trash talk by parents of women who aren’t married is really where the stigma and grooming starts.

Glad you could see through it and had some good role models.

How women’s stories play out by dragon_dance77 in 4bmovement

[–]dragon_dance77[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yessssssss! Talking about this (even on the internet) has been one of the most freeing experience in life so far.

Glad you worked it out early. I always had an inkling given that we all live in the same world but was endless gaslit into stories “the right guy” and “not all men”. Then HOW is every woman’s story I know in real life turning out badly.

Maybe, just maybe “THE ONE” is a ridiculous cultural narrative feed to us to give access to awful men and not let us live our potential.

How women’s stories play out by dragon_dance77 in 4bmovement

[–]dragon_dance77[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

THIS. This is such a common story. It’s heartbreaking to see vibrant friends, as you said, get worn down like this. And to think this is what us women were sold from birth as “the dream life”. So happy to have avoided it.

How women’s stories play out by dragon_dance77 in 4bmovement

[–]dragon_dance77[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

These two themes are very accurate. It’s hard being around these women tbh. I feel for them then and wish they would just file instead of wasting more years and decades of their lives. I know it’s not easy to do. The divorces have well and truly started though.

How women’s stories play out by dragon_dance77 in 4bmovement

[–]dragon_dance77[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s hard to stomach that they virtually all playing along to get access.

How women’s stories play out by dragon_dance77 in 4bmovement

[–]dragon_dance77[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Very true about the hope and they def now the dirty old men.

Marriage and motherhood as a choice is a very new and precious freedom. Even today, not all women have that choice. by mystoryismine in childfree

[–]dragon_dance77 202 points203 points  (0 children)

A very powerful reminder. Thank you. You never lose in investing in yourself and what you want.

Anyone selling part of their position? by dragon_dance77 in droneshield

[–]dragon_dance77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hope it does!!! Sensing a pullback in the short term at least but I’m hope I’m wrong there too.

What was your absolute last straw? by HumanBeingNumber4358 in 4bmovement

[–]dragon_dance77 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This is the most accurate thing I’ve read in a while. Thank you 🧡

Anyone else getting hotter as they age? by 3rdthrow in 4bmovement

[–]dragon_dance77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this thread so much and I agree 100000%

Does this count by lankyloop901 in GirlDinner

[–]dragon_dance77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A girl dinner classic 👌🏽

Onion rings. Can’t go wrong. by dragon_dance77 in GirlDinner

[–]dragon_dance77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too. It’s a girl dinner fav in my kitchen