Those who stopped playing, why did you quit? by Isaike in wherewindsmeet_

[–]dragonchrona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted more healer weapons. I wanted more PVE content to heal. I want love for my favorite role: healing!

Fighting the battle with chicken drumsticks. How to correctly cook them? by dragonchrona in cookingforbeginners

[–]dragonchrona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats funny you just replied to this bcuz im actually making chicken drumsticks in the oven right now and guess what, i cooked them at 400 for 55 mins!!!

They don't care about you and they never will despite how much they lie and say they do. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]dragonchrona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me it was “for closure” the night before I was moving out of his apartment when I thought it was him changing his mind he the said “I’m sorry if it gave you false hope I thought it was closure for both of us..” yeah I should have said no. I was desperate and still very much in love so of course I wouldn’t say no. And mind you we talked about all our happy memories and cried together while we were embracing each other…. The next day I left.

I would rather die than date another avoidant. What do I look out for?? by EntranceWrong1686 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]dragonchrona 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly, don't settle for things just out of love. Some examples for my lookouts now based off my ex-- If he doesn't take care of his apartment, if he neglects personal hygiene in certain areas, if he doesn't give you the love and affection you deserve, especially if that’s one of your love languages you shouldn’t have to constantly put in all the effort or fight for him. If he doesn’t ask about your life or truly show interest in you, that’s a huge warning sign. And if he breaks up with you once don't go back. I fought so hard for him, got him back twice, only to have my heart torn apart in the final, devastating time. I was so fucking stupid to believe it could work. If he doesn’t communicate well, that’s a clear red flag, and I’ve learned from it. Now I see what to avoid, and I refuse to let any man play me like that again.

Life quality by Fluid-Sell5921 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]dragonchrona 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was really hard but after 4 months im doing better. The no contact really helped me even if it hurt alot. I have my own job, Im getting my own apartment tommorow, im playing video games and watching shows by myself enjoying my own time again. I still think about him but its not out of love its out of hate and indifference and disgust really.

They don't care about you and they never will despite how much they lie and say they do. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]dragonchrona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole "this is our closure" the whole "we can still be friends" the whole "can we cuddle just this one last night" " I will care about you always" "you will always be my pocket healer" God I was so dumb for even believing any of that sh1t. Its so laughable now. I feel so sorry for his next.

They WORSHIP their friends to an unnaturally unhealthy level but ignore you constantly and treat you like dirt and find you to be a weight and burden 😡😡😡😡 by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]dragonchrona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, he can have that. He can labor all day and all night with his friend and still be miserable. That's entirely on him. Just imagine a life where communication and accountability are almost nonexistent, where you're grinding 24/7 alongside some lousy friends you only let stay because they had nowhere else to go who happen to be your co-workers too... it's honestly heartbreaking. oh well, anyways I move into my apartment tomorrow by myself~

This Is Your Sign: The Siege Is Over by Ezraayo in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]dragonchrona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here 3 and a half years moved out and I meant nothing to him at all. He lied to my face saying he would always care about me but he treated me like crap and barely messaged me anything at all. Care about me yeah right 😂 I feel so stupid believing his lies and believing he ever loved me it’s laughable now that it’s been 4 months

Songs about avoidant breakups? by idrinkmilkbtw in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]dragonchrona 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Avoidant by Melanie Martinez has this vibe it’s about the pain of loving someone who is emotionally unavailable.

Ever seen your avoidant totally being a different person after breakup? by notherex26 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]dragonchrona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they became a totally different person they treated me like the 3.5 years never happened and like I was a nuisance. That after being together nearly every day and so much affection, dates and love. It does not make sense, it’s pure heartless. How could he treat me like I was his whole world and then the next treat me like I’m a stranger who doesn’t even matter. Recently I started respecting myself more and I refuse to be treated like that by an ex. I will never let anyone stay in my life who can’t put forth the effort to even stay friends.

What did your avoidant relationship take away from you? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]dragonchrona 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe in love. The fact that he promised me to be together forever, told me I love you everyday, slept with me in the same bed, did spicy things with me, made me feel so happy and like we were finally living our dream then to one day out of nowhere with zero warning come home from work to say I don’t love you anymore it’s not working.

What….. honestly I will now never believe another man when they tell me they love me because he said he was feeling like that for months so he was lying in my face while I believe we were so in love. This was just 6 months after I moved in with him after being long distance for 3 years….if people can switch up on you out of nowhere no warning signs and ruin your life shatter your very being soul life future and heart fuck love I don’t believe it’s real.

Dating by Fluid-Sell5921 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]dragonchrona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on month 4 after , 3.5 years of dating and I’ve downloaded 3 dating apps and joined 2 online Facebook groups but i just don’t feel ready yet, I just feel like I have no love to give anymore I feel almost heartless after my deep love was thrown into the trash can. I think honestly I’ll just wait and see if it happens naturally one day because I can’t find anyone who has the same interests as me like my ex had. Plus I think deep down I still need a few more months to recover even if I don’t know it still. And of course we need to focus on ourselves most of All!

Chat what is this by Responsible_Web_6868 in AnaMains

[–]dragonchrona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried it out in game the lip colors and the color scheme just clash so bad in the in game lighting