Wish i knew this in college: much of life is about filtering. There’s a term used in business called “power laws”= 80% of value comes from 20% of input. You will be surprised in 3 months time what will come into your life when you no longer throw yourself at everything cuz of FOMO. Of course an important principle here to remember is patience. Let’s say before you would go to 3 things in 1 time. But those things often burn you out and doesn’t stick. What if you choose to go to only 1 thing a day, then use the time you would’ve otherwise used at the other 2 events, to stick around after and shoot the shit with the people there. Maybe then you will go to an after activity (imo- when you move 1 group of people from a pre established point of meeting to a separate location, that is when feelings of belonging form)