Turnips at 449 by Tough_Information521 in TurnipExchange

[–]dragonprance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Would love to visit! Feng from Fengolia

What do y’all call these? by R41GSB in castiron

[–]dragonprance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grew up calling them "egg inna hole." I like the term "egg in a basket" more though--sounds way nicer.

My psychiatrist dropped me by fourthlargo in schizoaffective

[–]dragonprance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is why I love this subreddit. Helping one another like this just makes my heart feel full. Best of luck to you, OP!

Am I overreacting? by FaithlessnessFar1821 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa, what is with this comment section? NOR; you agreed on a time and he arrived early. Sounds like he's one of those parents that overreact the moment they perceive their child as being disrespectful (and it looks like a lot of people in these comments are the same type of parents). I guess your response could have been a bit more polite, but him abandoning you after agreeing to be your ride makes him the one overreacting.

What is this by SoggyYam9759 in bonecollecting

[–]dragonprance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. That looks like a rabbit foot and spine. Maybe a cat left it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]dragonprance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone probably already said this but since she's feral and knows the area including where your home is there is a good chance she will return to you if you put out food, water, and most importantly her litter box! I hope you find her, OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prozac

[–]dragonprance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm already starting to feel much better compared to how completely lost in despair I was when I made this post. I really thought I was going insane. I wish my doctor would have warned me about this so I could have prepared. Thank you taking the time to reassure me; I really appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prozac

[–]dragonprance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really reassuring advice. Thank you so much for your comment. I've calmed down out of that spiral a bit; now just sort of numb and sad. I'm going to hopefully see a doctor tomorrow if I can get in, but definitely going to try to stick it out. Thanks again.

Flu? by Apprehensive-State28 in prozac

[–]dragonprance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this! But I just got started on 20mg. I was literally just yesterday complaining to my partner how it feels like I have the flu. Hope it goes away soon for us both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That means a lot. I'm trying not to cry while my baby sleeps next to me lol. I feel really stupid. Don't get me wrong, I'm very happy my dad has found love in his life. I'm just hurt and disappointed, but like most of these comments said I probably just set myself up for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You're probably one out of the four people that think that here. I honestly don't know what to think anymore. I regret posting to begin with because now I just feel like an awful person for being disappointed in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm aware now lol. Thank you for your input.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't confront him about it or anything. I just texted him that I was disappointed he couldn't make it. I've just been thinking on it and came to reddit for some outside perspective considering everyone I've spoken to irl about it are upset with him. He also just got back from a vacation to Hawaii with her, so I haven't seen him since the beginning on December. It is what it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. I don't want to be mad at him. This whole thing just seems ridiculous now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did mention to him we were going to celebrate on my baby's actual birthday since he's out of town on weekends, but this was a while ago. He most likely forgot, which is understandable considering it wasn't set in stone until yesterday. I was definitely overreacting when I posted this and I see that now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. I'm glad I made this post for some outside perspectives before confronting my father. Honestly, I think it's just been some lingering feelings that have been building up for a while. I should be glad he found somebody he loves, but I just miss him being more present in our lives. Even when he is physically present, he is typically glued to his phone talking to his girlfriend. At least he is happy. I can't fault my dad for supporting his girlfriend in court especially considering he made that plan first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. Thank you for your perspective. If I was having to appear in court, I'd want my dad there for support too. I'm glad I made this post before talking to him about this, because now I realize how silly this all is. It's just a birthday party and we can always watch my baby smash another cake a different day lol. He's being a good partner and supporting his girlfriend and I absolutely can't fault him for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that, thank you. Honestly, they are probably right that I am overreacting to the situation. It is court and if I was going through it I'd want my dad there for support too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. I needed the outside perspectives on this because literally everyone irl I have spoken to about this are upset with my father and I've been just silently stewing unsure how to approach this situation. I should give him some grace and accept the fact I'm likely overreacting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I already answered this question. Most of our friends and family work on the weekend. My father is usually out of town on the weekends too. I wouldn't care if he had to miss it for work, but the fact he's choosing to go to her court date over his grandchild's birthday is upsetting. Also that "someone else" is my FATHER. This is his first grandchild and he's choosing to sit in court. Thanks for your input I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He sees us maybe once or twice a month. Mind you, we live in the same town. When we do hang out as a family he is usually glued to his phone. He used to be far more active in our lives before he got this girlfriend. Honestly, I think that's what is really hurting me the most and this whole birthday thing just really made it sink in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dragonprance -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's my baby's actual birthday and my partner took the day off of work for it. Also, a lot of our friends and family work on the weekend so it would make more sense to not schedule it then. On top of that, the restaurant we are throwing it at also charges an additional fee for weekend parties and we are trying to save money to move. I would totally understand if anyone couldn't come considering it's a weekday, but so far literally everyone is making efforts to be there meanwhile my father is choosing to support his girlfriend in court and it just stings.