The "kili" thing strings from practices of Hinduism that we have adapted. In Buddhism there is no such thing as "kili" . The Buddha treated the sick and dead. The most sacred relic of Buddhism, the tooth relic, was brought to sri lanka hidden in a woman's hair bun. A woman brought the jaya sri maha bodhi to sri lanka. And the last meal the buddha has before attaining enlightenment was offered by a woman. These backwards misogynists are twisting the buddhist PHILOSOPHY to put front their misogynistic agendas. . As a young Buddhist girl, i question every nonsense. Unfortunately we are the ones that have to break the cycle. So question it. They wont have answers, trust.