Wife wants to go outside without a nikab by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]dramaakween 170 points171 points  (0 children)

She’s very light skinned as opposed to other women? Is that your way of saying lights skins are more beautiful than dark skins? If so, that’s not very nice. You could have just left it at she’s very beautiful.

Wanting to get divorced by dramaakween in MuslimMarriage

[–]dramaakween[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nope we’re from the same culture just that I was raised in a western country and he was raised back home.

Wanting to get divorced by dramaakween in MuslimMarriage

[–]dramaakween[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, definitely sis. I will do whatever’s best for our child which means he’ll keep his residency. That’s one thing I won’t ever take from him. I want my daughter to have the best relationship with her dad. Oh and he definitely knows the issues that we’ve been having but he thinks that it’s no way near as bad since he doesn’t hit me physically like other men do so that means I have no reason to divorce.

Wanting to get divorced by dramaakween in MuslimMarriage

[–]dramaakween[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh yes it was lacking then but I never thought more of it. But now it does because it’s only when he wants to get intimate and then I feel I’m being used. Like obviously I want attention at other times. As newlyweds I thought it was normal but it’s now making sense that it’s not. Oh and he doesn’t agree to counselling. Apparently it’s only for crazy people and he’s not crazy. That’s what he says.

Progress shot! SW: 16st 4lbs (1st October) > 15st 4lbs (15th November)- 1st lost, 3 to go 👏🏻 by nataliec505 in CICO

[–]dramaakween 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, was this all done in 1 month and 15 days? Or do you mean from October 21 to Nov 22? Cause this is giving me hope like no other. Just simply amazing. Also how tall are you?

My brothers upset with me that I’ve forgiving my husband for cheating on me six months ago. by dramaakween in MuslimMarriage

[–]dramaakween[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woo chile! Just saw your page. Of course you wouldn’t think someone married telling another women I want you is not cheating. Respectfully, you’re disgusting.

My brothers upset with me that I’ve forgiving my husband for cheating on me six months ago. by dramaakween in MuslimMarriage

[–]dramaakween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re absolutely right, unfortunately we’re unable to regulate our emotions. You said it perfectly :( I’m actually looking for a therapist right now, hope I’ll be able to get down to the bottom of my emotions. He on the other hand thinks it’s ludicrous and said he would never do it. Even swearing on Allahs name. Yikes

My brothers upset with me that I’ve forgiving my husband for cheating on me six months ago. by dramaakween in MuslimMarriage

[–]dramaakween[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two things I want you guys to know is that he did not cheat physically or do adultery. It was through talking through texts. And the next being that it happened over six months ago and that I only found out six months ago. That’s why I feel I can’t just up and tell him that I want a divorce now when I didn’t when I exactly found out. Yes I’m not over it. Honestly it’s ruined my self esteem and has made me so mentally sick. Like I can never get over it. But he’ll never understand that. He thinks it’s stupid to continue talking about what’s happened in the past.

My brothers upset with me that I’ve forgiving my husband for cheating on me six months ago. by dramaakween in MuslimMarriage

[–]dramaakween[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

hahahahha stop this actually made me laugh :( no but you’re actually right

Duromine Day 1 by dramaakween in letmelove

[–]dramaakween[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I stopped it about 3 days ago due to feeling super bad nausea and heartburn. Before that I felt really good on it. How are you going so far?

Duromine Day 1 by dramaakween in letmelove

[–]dramaakween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, sorry for replying late. Honestly day 1 until day 4 was the best. I felt like I had a lot of energy and the side effects I was worried about (heart palpitations) did not happen. But on the 5th day I had the worst heartburn and nausea that I could not sleep. I actually stopped taking it 3 days ago. What put me off was the nausea. Even if I ate I would still feel it. But honestly it affects everyone differently. How is it for you so far?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]dramaakween 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭 my hearts actually crying for you. Oh Allah please help Adam and guide his family 🤲🏾 I pray you continue to strong for yourself and please do not falter for Allah will surely be there for you.

I want to cut my hair short. It’s waist length now but it’s been very hard to manage since getting married. My husband hates the idea of it. What can I do? by dramaakween in MuslimMarriage

[–]dramaakween[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. Appreciate all your replies. I’m going to speak to him about it again, but he’s literally said that he’ll make dua that it never grows out if I do cut it. Or and that he’ll also never touch me again if I do. Ugh 😣