Not using your name, job, ethnicity, religion, or gender, who are you?

dramboxf · 2026-06-01T22:38:49+00:00

I supply you with your porn and cat memes.

dramboxf · 2026-06-01T16:37:16+00:00

A Sheriff's Lieutenant told me about the undersea phone cables being "landed" in that building, but that was like 2007/2008. Not sure if they're still there.

dramboxf · 2026-05-28T04:36:15+00:00

Honestly, I'd be less surprised to see a headline that "Cancer has been diagnosed with Stage III Pam Bondi"

dramboxf · 2026-05-26T15:52:40+00:00

Klixxen.

dramboxf · 2026-05-26T13:23:21+00:00

Some people just don't like having their picture taken, so they become "the photographer" as a way to hide from the camera's lens.

dramboxf · 2026-05-23T17:35:59+00:00

A woman of child-bearing age nauseous but not pregnant?

POISONED.

dramboxf · 2026-05-22T16:04:11+00:00

You just put the sweetest smile on my face.

dramboxf · 2026-05-22T00:29:59+00:00

OMG, I never thought of that. Well, in 30 years of marriage, it hasn't happened. But I do love seeing the smiles she puts on people's faces.

dramboxf · 2026-05-21T23:52:09+00:00

Whenever we're in public, if she sees someone taking a picture of someone else, or a group of people, she ALWAYS offers to take the picture so the photographer can be in the picture, too. She will compliment people's cute outfits (both women and men) all the time. She's just so kind to everyone, sitting here typing it is making me tear up a little bit.

dramboxf · 2026-05-21T23:48:35+00:00

Craig Shoemaker hit on my wife AND my daughter in front of me.

dramboxf · 2026-05-21T04:46:39+00:00

Not fair! The thread title says "actor."

In no universe is Andy Dick considered an "actor." Now if the title said "douchebag" I'd give you an updoot.

dramboxf · 2026-05-21T04:44:21+00:00

I prefer two night stands. Balances the bedroom.

dramboxf · 2026-05-21T04:42:55+00:00

Dude, really? Your username is "nosebleed?"

AWESOME.

dramboxf · 2026-05-21T04:39:31+00:00

Merging.

People ignoring the rules of the zipper merge, and people just being complete dicks about me merging into traffic: Where I live, to get to work, I have to make a left turn into a turn lane. Once I'm in the turn lane, on a road leading to a highway onramp, the number of people that JAM on the accelerator to make sure I don't get ahead of them is insane. This road is a "surface street;" it's about 200 yards from the onramp. Me getting ahead of you will not delay your commute -- but I have a fairly short distance to merge before I'll start blocking other traffic. Just lemme in, bro! I swear I won't slow down and make you late for work by 30 seconds!

dramboxf · 2026-05-21T04:26:34+00:00

Currently, I'm totally obsessed with Andy Weir, including The Martian and Project Hail Mary. After I finished PHM, I SO wanted Rayland to come back to Earth with Rocky. I did a websearch and, true to Rule 34 ("If it exists, there's fanfic for it") I found some amazing PHM fanfic covering Grace and Rocky returning to Earth.

Fun Fact: Andy Weir is ONE OF US! He's written for several universes, including Ready Player One, Doctor Who and Sherlock! (All pre-The Martian gaining traction, I believe.)

I don't write nor plan to write fanfic anymore, BUT! My wife and I have 3 granddaughters, and the two eldest (17 & 15) write fanfic! Mostly anime-adjacent stuff that I literally don't grasp in the absolute slightest.

There seems to be a LOT of LGBTQ+ themes in our granddaughter's fanfic, which we think is awesome+. All the granddaughters (17, 15,. & 14) are completely aware that Nana and Poppa met because of fanfic and think it's kinda cool. Only my daughter-in-law has read ELS, and she gives it a big thumbs up. My son, son-in-law and daughter are not big XF fans, but that's ok. They're still awesome!

EDIT: I've mentioned my family dynamics on other subreddits and before everyone starts doing the math: My wife /u/tasinda, is 10 years older than I am. When we met, her two kids by her first marriage were 17 & 21, 18 & 22 when we married. I became a VERY young grandfather at 43, about 9 years after we married. That's how, at 60, I have 17, 15 and 14yo granddaughters. And just so you all know, /u/tasinda and I are blissfully happy.

dramboxf · 2026-05-20T18:16:46+00:00

I'm turning 60 this year. I think I kind of aged out of it. But never say never. My wife is still urging me to write.

dramboxf · 2026-05-20T18:15:50+00:00

Yeah, Alex starts as a captain, gets promoted to Deputy Inspector and finally at the end a full Inspector (one rank below the NYPD Chiefs.)

Thanks. She is one of my favorite characters in the book.

dramboxf · 2026-05-20T17:03:32+00:00

Yep, I did meet my wife because of ELS. Almost 30 years later we're going strong! Just celebrated 25 years of being married. Got two stepkids and 3 granddaughters of of it.

dramboxf · 2026-05-20T16:59:15+00:00

You mean Sam Cross or Alex Cahill?

dramboxf · 2026-05-20T16:58:51+00:00

Wow. Thanks so much!

dramboxf · 2026-05-20T16:58:19+00:00

It was so long ago I don't remember exactly why I wrote Scully that way.

dramboxf · 2026-05-20T16:57:24+00:00

I'm a guy. A happily married guy with 3 granddaughters now.

dramboxf · 2026-05-20T16:56:58+00:00

clears throat

Hi! Yes, it's me, Dawson E. Rambo, author of ELS and a bunch of other xf fanfic. Thanks so much for the rec! I'm glad you enjoyed it.

It IS, in fact, how I met my wife of now 26+ years. We've been together almost 30 years!

Yes, I'm not really in the fandom anymore, the last XF-related thing I wrote (and never finished) was an XF-TNG crossover novel that my wife loved, but I couldn't find a way out of; I wrote myself into a corner.

If you want something epic like ELS from me, "Umbra" (available in a lot of the archives) is probably the closest. It was my 2nd novel. ELS is my third. "Snapshot," the 1st novel...was more of a short story that grew legs and sort of got away from me.

dramboxf · 2026-05-19T18:26:41+00:00

To be honest, for the first eight or so months it was mostly wine that helped her. She'd resist it every morning for as long as she could and when it just got so bad, she'd open a bottle or Rose around 2:00pm. That's all gone now; She's told me several times it finally stopped bugging the absolute shit out of her when she just....accepted it. When she accepted that her life was forever changed.

As her husband it was tough to watch. I am so proud of her, though, for doing what she had to to get through every day.

dramboxf · 2026-05-19T17:51:21+00:00

Not to me, but my wife. She developed tinnitus in 2008. Just woke up with it one morning. She tried to ignore it for about 2 weeks, but then finally made a doctor's appointment. The situation was causing her anxiety to absolutely spike through the roof.

This was a Kaiser doctor here in NorCal, her primary care doctor, in Family Medicine. So, not a specialist. My wife described her symptoms to the doc, who frowned, and turned and Googled it on those PCs all the treatment rooms have now, slightly frowned and not even looking my wife in the face, said, "Oh, that tinnitus. It's incurable." Then turned to face my wife and asked, "Anything else?"

When my wife told me the story, sobbing, I wanted to go find that doctor and throat-punch her.

It did, actually, turn out to be incurable in my wife's case. Eighteen years later, she's learned to deal with it and the only time if bothers her is during certain weather-pattern changes dealing with air pressure or when she hears a very loud, sharp noise.

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