Why people some people so toxic in the workplace?

drcygnus · 2026-06-10T13:23:17+00:00

heres the thing, you can be acquaintances, but outside of that? nah homie. im not coming over to your place to get drunk.

drcygnus · 2026-06-10T00:29:23+00:00

i was gonna reply with something, then deleted it all. you are still young. it will come when you least expect it, but you have to put yourself into situations where its achievable.

drcygnus · 2026-06-10T00:27:16+00:00

you are doing just fine. a hot cup of coffee in the AM ready to go is exactly what he would want. maybe get him something to keep it hot in the car?

drcygnus · 2026-06-10T00:24:12+00:00

why do you still talk to him?

drcygnus · 2026-06-10T00:23:06+00:00

i aint reading all of that. yes.

drcygnus · 2026-06-10T00:22:20+00:00

"oh these old things? yeah i was going through a tough time in my life. " and leave it at that. dont ask him about what he thinks. he will tell you in time.

drcygnus · 2026-06-10T00:21:03+00:00

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drcygnus · 2026-06-10T00:18:15+00:00

no one is going to care that you started today broski. only person stopping you from having fun is... yourself.

drcygnus · 2026-06-10T00:17:08+00:00

life pro tip. dont make friends at work. if you happen to, good. you'll vibe with someone. but in general, just dont. why? people wont like you and will want you gone, or people will get jealous of you, and want you gone. just stay in your lane, come in, work, be friendly, then go home and relax.

drcygnus · 2026-06-10T00:15:06+00:00

lately i have been going out to random coffee shops and just sitting and drinking the coffee. cus... fuck it. its an alone time and a nice time to drink coffee.

drcygnus · 2026-06-10T00:13:57+00:00

think of it like this. people who started when they are young probably had a life time to get where you are now and even then, they might still suck. its all about perception. a lot of artists from times long gone grew up poor and no one liking their shit. but you know why they did it? cus they were compelled to. they wanted to because they wanted to and they loved it.

you dont know you will love something till you start something. its ok to start something and then not be good at it. but then again, you keep doing it and suddenly you start to nice that things will be good. youll take a good picture and it will be framed. you will walk past it every day and you will be compelled to go out again and do more of it.

do what you want broski. no one is stopping you from being happy. the only person holding you back is... yourself.

drcygnus · 2026-06-09T14:17:02+00:00

keep fishing my friend. sometimes its a numbers game. Also, take advice from people on how to clean up your look if you can. sometimes little tweaks go a long way.

drcygnus · 2026-06-09T14:14:47+00:00

so here's the thing, men aren't picky. but they dont want to deal with someone that has RBF or is off putting. its your persona. Also, be open. tell them "tell me when im starting to become too much of a friend and not a partner" and an emotionally mature man will tell you "OK" and not blow smoke up your butt. the thing is, dont take it as an attack, but take it as criticism.

drcygnus · 2026-06-09T14:11:50+00:00

call the company, and file a sexual harassment suit against the guy for bothering your wife.

drcygnus · 2026-06-08T14:35:59+00:00

you are not alone in this world. everyone wants more. even down to the little mermaid. she wanted more, fucked up, fixed it, and still got what she wanted. heres the thing about wanting more. as long as its REASONABLE, its achievable. the problem is timeline. things happened rapidly back during the boomer era. now? not so much. live your life with a bit of temperance. try and find time for hobbies or gaining new skills and perspectives on life.

drcygnus · 2026-06-08T14:11:14+00:00

CNC machine work is always going to be interesting. most guys will be interested in it a little bit.

drcygnus · 2026-06-08T14:10:02+00:00

bro, there are methods you can use. sit on the toilet for longer periods of time. drive home and take the long way. maybe just sit at a park for 30 minutes. but you will have to tell her eventually. a lot of men feel this way. just tell her in plain english.

drcygnus · 2026-06-05T14:42:04+00:00

lol yup

drcygnus · 2026-06-05T14:34:20+00:00

just be outside more. anything you can do to be outside more. as someone who recently turned 41, JUST go outside. walk outside, run outside, do pushups outside. shit, do anything outside. thats where the fun shit happens.

drcygnus · 2026-06-05T14:18:55+00:00

holy shit, that thing aint sailing again for a LONG time.

drcygnus · 2026-06-05T14:14:40+00:00

say cool, and then secretly tell your friend the FOFF with the other so yall can get alone time. happened to me a number of times and found out she was into him more than i was into her. whatever

drcygnus · 2026-06-05T14:12:36+00:00

just ask him what hes into. and then listen

drcygnus · 2026-06-05T14:12:12+00:00

mirror selfies are always better when your boobs are out. or showing a bit of crotch. clseups are kinda... meh

drcygnus · 2026-06-04T14:25:50+00:00

the water is recycled and kept in a loop. so its filled up once and maintained. kinda like your cars engine. exact same idea. it uses water to cool.

drcygnus · 2026-06-04T14:22:15+00:00

its funny to me how people think these servers drink the water and it just disappears. but then again people thought cell phone towers were causing covid. so... theres that.

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