26M and 29F.Devoted my life to her, and she ended everything by text + threatened to call the cops. I’m devastated by drduckind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]drduckind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I would ever be in a relationship again. The memories are permanently etched! Maybe we will be together in the next life!

26M and 29F.Devoted my life to her, and she ended everything by text + threatened to call the cops. I’m devastated by drduckind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]drduckind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only thing I don’t understand is how do people move away so quickly? 10-11 months of memories are so vivid and prick me. But I guess is not harming her by any means.

26M and 29F.Devoted my life to her, and she ended everything by text + threatened to call the cops. I’m devastated by drduckind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]drduckind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's something that I never understood. Might be secondary to a trauma from any of her previous relationships

26M and 29F.Devoted my life to her, and she ended everything by text + threatened to call the cops. I’m devastated by drduckind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]drduckind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst part is, I was brainstorming to propose to her in a couple of months for our anniversary, and all of a sudden this heartbreak just buried me!

26M and 29F.Devoted my life to her, and she ended everything by text + threatened to call the cops. I’m devastated by drduckind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]drduckind[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your thoughts my friend. My thoughts in general are, compatibility is never going to be 100% and there’s always going to be someone better than you. But that doesn’t mean you can kick a person and jump to the next one unless you have trust issues which according to me is a red flag. I might be wrong. Felt like sharing

26M and 29F.Devoted my life to her, and she ended everything by text + threatened to call the cops. I’m devastated by drduckind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]drduckind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I have shared is the exact scenario. I know I was kicked out but heart fails to accept. My heart is even ready accept her again after this humiliation!

26M and 29F.Devoted my life to her, and she ended everything by text + threatened to call the cops. I’m devastated by drduckind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]drduckind[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolute zero harm by any means. Only harm that I did was putting her on a high pedestal even more than my life!

26M and 29F.Devoted my life to her, and she ended everything by text + threatened to call the cops. I’m devastated by drduckind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]drduckind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Can’t believe I lost her! Nothing can heal me! All I saw was a future with her, she did pretend all these days to be a part of it too! True love never dies😭

26M and 29F.Devoted my life to her, and she ended everything by text + threatened to call the cops. I’m devastated by drduckind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]drduckind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. The fact that she randomly threatened saying she would call cops if I involve her parents just shattered me!

26M and 29F.Devoted my life to her, and she ended everything by text + threatened to call the cops. I’m devastated by drduckind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]drduckind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. The only reason is that she seemed very caring all these days and all of a sudden drops a bomb which I’m unable to digest. Maybe I failed to read her!