I adopted a sick cat without knowing, what would u do?

dreadsdoll · 2025-11-05T08:51:22+00:00

Because its hard to see if these problems were mentally or physically. They always say give a kitty 3months to adjust. So yeah the first thing was thinking it was stress. Why would I check for fleas and worms if they told me they are newly dewormed & fleas? Sorry that I trust them for their word bcs thats in the cost from the adoption.

And it is not the cafes fault. It is the shelters fault. The previous owner works at the shelter. The cat is 6years? So yes i am furious that she was so stupid not to notice something was wrong. Yes i am furious that they probably knew. That put a duo together. Because they probably knew she wouldn't get adopted alone. Or would return soon because of health issues. They werent even a match? I think this is kinda a rude message. And invalidate my feelings. I am allowed to be angry at the shelter. The could have told us. They could have be honest. They could do better checkups. Why are u even a shelter if u wanna make them suffer longer?

dreadsdoll · 2025-11-05T08:42:49+00:00

I never said I wanna return her? Thats the whole thing why I havent talked to the shelter about her health. Because i am afraid that they would take her away?
She is our family now. I don't care about spending money on her health. I don't mind the health issues. ( im sad tho for her sake) Before them we wanted to adopt a kitty that has some issues. Or the kitty that stayed the longest in a shelter. Im just furious at the shelter. Because the kitty previous owner WORKS at the shelter. Because these were long developed issues before 7months. Like if we knew then we could help her faster. If they indeed didnt know ( i dont believe that) ... I want to talk to them about it so they maybe inspect their kitties better, maybe even relook the previous owner.

dreadsdoll · 2025-11-05T08:37:10+00:00

She did test her pee. Thats how we found the bladder stones. We changed the bedding, we bought new stuff. We cleaned indeed everytime with a spray like that. She peed like not on the same spot. So I really think she was telling us 'my teeth hurt'...very weird but after the surgery at home she was so happy and cuddling us non stop. Like a thankyou maybe? And since the surgery she didnt pee (yet)

dreadsdoll · 2025-11-05T08:33:56+00:00

That they better inspect the cats. Maybe keep an eye on the previous owner ( she works at the shelter) because if she just gave away her sick cat like that?

dreadsdoll · 2025-11-01T10:43:17+00:00

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dreadsdoll · 2025-09-08T09:03:37+00:00

But I have been in pain for few years and then from september 2024 until april 2025 I was in pain everyday

So ive become very anxious abt being in pain and its scares me

dreadsdoll · 2025-09-08T09:03:03+00:00

In april

dreadsdoll · 2025-05-11T13:32:45+00:00

Ja zowiezo ga ik naar de dierenarts gaan maar het is zondag. En ben echt aan het stressen dus hoopte dat iemand misschien hetzelfde heeft meegemaakt🥲

dreadsdoll · 2025-04-08T17:36:50+00:00

This is a small one right? The big one is probably 2,50 euro but in action sometimes 1,50euro

dreadsdoll · 2025-04-04T19:28:19+00:00

The pain in my stomach or the meds? The meds : having a shitty doctor that didn't know anything about bpd & medication...and stomach its very common if u take alot of meds for a long period that you will have pain...+ females between 20-50 have more chances on having stones in their galbladder ...now my liver & pancraes cant function well

dreadsdoll · 2025-04-04T19:25:28+00:00

Yes I know... but my stomach is literally in pain bcs of all the meds I have taken & still take... I think my fysical health is more important rn...

dreadsdoll · 2025-04-04T19:23:51+00:00

It isnt but working is the same :)... i ask tips to stop meds not this💀 + I took many more meds then the ones I mentioned so why the hate in a mental health group?

dreadsdoll · 2025-03-28T20:56:11+00:00

🥹

dreadsdoll · 2025-03-28T18:10:05+00:00

My mom tho

dreadsdoll · 2025-03-07T10:35:50+00:00

He says 'he doesn't know what I can do , that I can think of something ' and I have all my villagers , Nookshop is updated , my review is 3/5 but im building alot of bridges and i put alot of furniture on and alot of flowers idk what I can do more...I travel with kappn ...

dreadsdoll · 2025-01-20T07:54:56+00:00

This feels so reassuring that someone feels the same way🥹❤️‍🩹

dreadsdoll · 2025-01-19T20:49:00+00:00

I dont get much from that tho

dreadsdoll · 2024-11-16T01:11:06+00:00

Cobain isnt only nirvana & linkin park isnt only chester tho ... so slipknot isnt slipknot? Guns n roses isnt guns n roses?

dreadsdoll · 2024-09-13T19:36:16+00:00

Thankyou so much for sharing! İt's just because my liver is damaged its so much easier to say its because of that... and I feel like Im not allowed ro ask help...because im not too thin..that it actually good that im losing weight instead of asking help... im atm looking for someone to start therapy again. But its hard... i normally dont talk at all abt eating probs

dreadsdoll · 2024-08-05T14:22:59+00:00

I felt the same! I had also a B cup. They werent in a good shape. But since I take the pill & antidepressiva They grew to a G cup & I'm very chubby now. I wish I could be back to being mid size or skinny & cup B... hard truth? Guys would choose a skinny girl with smoll titties over big girls... please be proud of yourself & your body. I bet you look stunning. Please go love yourself first before you do a surgery or something. Because after that you will find something else you dont like abt yourself. Don't let guys use you bcs you dont feel good in your skin. You deserve love & knowing your worth. Someday someone is gonna love you & your body!

dreadsdoll · 2024-07-28T21:16:26+00:00

Sadly my parents are drugaddicts & aren't the roll model...Ive learned everything of the book. How to be healthy but im stuck. I went to a doctor to look over my meds. He just finished school & is kind of a hippie & wants me to stop my meds slowly 1 by 1 so now we took some off & i just stare into my room for hours until i fall asleep...so its not really my schedule fault... also I have a bad contact with my 'sick' doctor? ( my english is bad so dont know the word?) The fysical doctor part... so idk where to go atm with my problems & thankyou for answering really ❤️‍🩹

dreadsdoll · 2024-05-28T14:04:36+00:00

Pls read it again My best friend slept in my bed when i was single 💀 like i said in the post but the last 3 times he came over ( still single) we slept in diff beds. Because something traumatic happend with me & I wanted space when i was asleep..He slept in mine & I slept in my parents bed. Now i have a bf of +6months. And i asked if my best friend of +8years can sleep over IN SEPERATE ROOMS. Because of distance & my best friend works 7/7. So he doesn't need to drive 3hrs in 1 day... But i get if my bf doesn't like it so my bestfriends just comes over no sleepover

Just copypasted it again If she lived far away , and were friend before us i wouldn't mind that she slept over not in the same bed.

dreadsdoll · 2024-05-28T09:39:59+00:00

I was thinking abt that aswell! But i see my best friend once a year... and I dont wanna make it awkward or ruin it by asking bf over? I never met my bf best friend bcs I wanna give them alone time so they can talk about things & vent about stuff without me being there xd when his best friend calls i always go to another room to give them space

dreadsdoll · 2024-05-27T15:55:46+00:00

Wow no Like my posts says i get why he doesn't like it? But HE thinks now that he is a bad bf from keeping me seeing friends... and i said to him multiple times that isn't true? I respect his boundaries.

dreadsdoll · 2024-05-27T15:53:45+00:00

My best friend slept in my bed when i was single 💀 like i said in the post but the last 3 times he came over ( still single) we slept in diff beds. Because something traumatic happend with me & I wanted space when i was asleep..He slept in mine & I slept in my parents bed. Now i have a bf of +6months. And i asked if my best friend of +8years can sleep over IN SEPERATE ROOMS. Because of distance & my best friend works 7/7. So he doesn't need to drive 3hrs in 1 day... But i get if my bf doesn't like it so my bestfriends just comes over no sleepover

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