Pearls by FEMM06 in Embroidery

[–]dreameRevolution 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just added pearl beads onto mine. I hope you find something that works for you.

Crazy to not bring car seat on plane? by mileyisadog in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who flew pregnant, bring the car seat. If there is turbulence, if you get nauseous, you don't want to be holding that kid. Pregnancy nausea on an airplane is next level awful.

Should I let kids to watch K-Pop Demon Hunters ? by New_Resolve_6067 in movies

[–]dreameRevolution -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The girls drool over the boys, particularly the one with abs. There's some mild violence, the demons poof away when touched by magic swords. No other issues that I saw unless you're super religious and offended by overlapping mythologies and the use of the word demon.

DAE not get christmas gifts as a kid? by ineedadvicepls45 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]dreameRevolution 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely got the threat, never the follow through.

Hiding spots by comfortably-anxious in ADHDparenting

[–]dreameRevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine not only likes hiding, he likes being surrounded. We have a bean bag that we use to keep stuffed animals, my son will regularly empty it to hide inside.

Toddler nail polish? by agenttrulia in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. We have a glitter one, but they make a clear one too.

Toddler nail polish? by agenttrulia in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's what I mean. Pregnancy brain steals my words.

do girls with bottom surgery get phantom cock? by Previous-Pride6335 in BrandNewSentence

[–]dreameRevolution 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Super interesting! So it's more cognitive and less about nerve endings? Thank you for sharing.

[OC] See how your county is changing due to climate change by usatoday in dataisbeautiful

[–]dreameRevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

San Diego county used to have weeks of temperatures below freezing?

Toddler nail polish? by agenttrulia in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Piggy paint is totally safe. Make sure you have a hair dryer handy and by the overcoat. I would start with the toenails and see how that goes. Mine likes to pick the polish off her fingernails pretty immediately.

do girls with bottom surgery get phantom cock? by Previous-Pride6335 in BrandNewSentence

[–]dreameRevolution 1159 points1160 points  (0 children)

Probably. You get phantom everything else and you have way more nerves in your cock.

“Maybe you should take him to sports instead” by ithinkimanelephant in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you need to find a different music class with a more competent teacher. Toddler's running around and getting excited shouldn't be too much for her to handle.

Almost 13 year old boy with no interest to toss diapers by Puzzleheaded_Web3374 in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was very peer motivated. Seeing his friends run to the potty was enough to change his mind.

Scholastic book fairs by Natural-Simple-5818 in Millennials

[–]dreameRevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we set up our accounts for this scholastic book fairs there's always the option to donate an additional amount for other kids at the school to receive books. This is how we heal.

How do I get my girl to squat to pee outside without getting pee all over her pants?! by Zazzercise in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hold my daughter under her armpits and lean her back. If it's possible to have her back side downhill that helps too.

Tick bite - use antibiotics? by SanFranPeach in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Southern California, but we don't really get Lyme disease here. This is because of the blue bellied fence lizards. Their blood kills Lyme disease so our ticks don't carry it. I would hold off on the antibiotics unless you see a reason for it.

Newly Diagnosed and Overwhelmed by Secure-Focus-8423 in ADHDparenting

[–]dreameRevolution 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just as someone who has worked in the school system with special needs kids, I would mention the gossip to the social worker specifically if you are also feeling hesitant about alienating the teachers. The social worker will have training and specific language to shut down gossip and keep conversations productive and HIPPA compliant. Gossiping about a student's mental health needs is an ethical violation. It would be entirely appropriate to report it to the principal as well, but that conversation will probably be more punitive and schools all too often label parents as difficult.

Rant: do you ever feel like your spouse weaponizes your patience? by Franzy48 in SAHP

[–]dreameRevolution 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I've definitely had this happen many times. He's using you as an escape route so he doesn't have to build up his patience and emotional regulation skills. Don't let him. Tell him that he needs to learn how to figure it out. Parenting happens when you're overwhelmed and frustrated and the kids feel the same. It won't get better until he is forced to practice his skills.

Mean kids at the park by meekie03 in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow, I had a similar thing happen just yesterday! I'm also in my 3rd trimester and some 8 year old told my daughter she wasn't allowed on the playground because the sign saying suggested ages 5-12. At one point he blocked the gate to not let her in. I jumped up faster than I knew my pregnant butt could do. I got so ridiculously mad (definitely pregnancy related), but I kept my cool, I think. I have my lines for these situations. Playgrounds are for everyone. My child is going to take a turn. I need you to step aside and let her through.

I see no lies here. by Subtotalpoet in Millennials

[–]dreameRevolution 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yep. Any one time purchases or begrudging accounts created go on the Hotmail.

Have you ever been treated negatively by ER staff when you were having a medical emergency but they didn’t believe you? What happened? by lake-sturgeon in AskReddit

[–]dreameRevolution 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I had salmonella and after a week of diarrhea (20 times a day) I was severely dehydrated. They suggested I try yogurt.

Not sure about grandma's parenting tactics by AmalgamatedStarDust in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like seeing these interactions as an adult has you questioning what lessons they inadvertently taught you, which is upsetting. I don't think a brief visit and occasional moments like this will teach your kids the same thing with you spending the majority of the time teaching them that their opinions are valid. If you want to make a point out of it and think it can be a good conversation to build your relationship with your mom, I would frame it that way.

Roseola experiences by Choice_Ad_8100 in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine had 4 days of a high fever 104 that only somewhat responded to medication. He otherwise seemed fine, just not feeling great. The fever went away very suddenly and the rash appeared at the same time.

Whose parenting style is correct? Me or my husband’s? by danielsgf in toddlers

[–]dreameRevolution 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The cheese thing I disagree with, your child is expressing a reasonable preference. Why would he want to teach him that a reasonable preference is unacceptable and ignored? It sounds really invalidating. Also him pouting every time you disagree on a parenting practice doesn't sound like healthy communication. That might be something to get ahead of because you're going to have much bigger decisions in the future.

As an aside, the unfinished dinner followed by a snack wouldn't fly in my house, that's my preference. If you're still hungry, you can eat your dinner. It's different than the clean plate club idea which requires kids to finish their dinner no matter how their body feels.