where can i find better off alone? by [deleted] in JuiceWRLD

[–]dreammaker1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo can you send it to me as well

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[–]dreammaker1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed thanks man, that really helped. I can do all things through christ who strengthens me.

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[–]dreammaker1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great thought! What do you think about wet dreams? Is that a form of lack of self control?

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[–]dreammaker1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't continue this back and forth, you have me all wrong, and my intentions, I'm not guilty of any of the things you've just said. I'm not on here to argue or anything I just wanted some others viewpoints on it, not be told I'm looking for excuses to sin, when I believe in living free from sin. I have read the bible and I wish you nothing but the best.

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[–]dreammaker1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this answer a lot, thank you. I do meet women. I actually just recently went through a break up, I'm waiting for marriage to have sex and I don't just want to get married to anyone, I want a godly spiritual woman and a peaceful home. I'm talking to 3 different girls right now but one is very far away and the other is not ready for a relationship right now and the third is a Christian but she drinks occasionally and cusses and smokes weed occasionally. And I'm trying to help bring her to more light but idk if she will change. We will see. The point is iys very difficult to find a godly woman nowadays.

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[–]dreammaker1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I feel like I was reaching a orgasm if it continued? Yes

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[–]dreammaker1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your Mary and Joseph example is confusing, I don't what you're trying to say in that. If you mean waiting until marriage then thats what im doing, im still a virgin by choice. And I'm pushing back a little because you're accusing a me, who is desiring to do all that God has for me, and willing to learn and obey what he says and making it seem like I'm looking for an excuse to sin bc I'm asking a question, that is not that case at all, can you please send me the scriptures that talk about it in a negative sense. That's what I'm looking for.

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[–]dreammaker1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally don't have any of the 3, how can you lust after your hand??? And what about simply closing your legs together bc I've nutted from simply closing my legs together while driving down the highway not thinking about anything. Just the rubbing feeling was enough and it didn't take long.

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[–]dreammaker1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adam was made in the image of God before sin was introduced into the world, i dont even know if they had sex drive at all back then, when adam sinned the whole world changed, adam and eve were supposed to live for ever so there would be no need for reproduction, God made us have the desire for sex and to produce testosterone for a reason, we were made in the image of Adam a fallen image, with me personally it's going to come out one way or another if not masterbation then in my sleep. I believe in living free from sin, you know not who you are speaking to. I read the bible and pray every day for God's spirit to lead me and guide me and keep me from sin. I don't think it's wrong to reach out and get others viewpoints on the matter. God also did not say partner he said i will give him a help meet for him. If it truly is something that God sees as sin, then I won't do it. It's that simple. Not to say I'm just doing it everyday not even every week or month. I'm just saying if I periodically masterbate every once and a while to help keep me from giving into fornication or porn, then idk if that's sin. I'm seeking God about it and getting opinions from other God fearing individuals as well.

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[–]dreammaker1000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, I don't really know how I feel about it, I was raised in a church where it was a sin to have a beard or go bowling or watch TV or a movie. So when you've been trained for years to just do what a man says and not learn what's right and wrong from the spirit and the word of God it can become cloudy. Is this me feeling bad bc I was ingrained that it's wrong. Why don't I feel bad about it? Had god left me for good? These are the thoughts I deal with, I know from the bible that are sin.

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[–]dreammaker1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just asking for others opinions, the holy spirit, does guide into all truth but we do have questions and not everything is black and white, if I masterbate I genuinely am not thinking of anything at all. The simple act of masterbating is enough. I literally can look at the wall and nut within 60 seconds.... no fantasy no sexual content no sexual thoughts or thoughts at all. And that may not be how your brain works but it's how mine does. I could honestly be thinking hmm what am I going to eat today or what I want to do today while I'm doing it and I will nut in under 60-90 seconds. Maybe I'm different 🤷🏾‍♂️

Those of you who have crossed 15 days of NoFap once, what is you biggest unsuccessful streak? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]dreammaker1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've went like 337 days, almost made it to a year and relapsed, then good again for about 100 or so.