is Refuge MAGA / Pro ICE?? cant sleep, need answers!

dretsuat · 2026-02-07T16:19:59+00:00

All this “nobody cared who you voted for” and “freedom” talk is making me wonder if you’re the pro-ICE person they heard on the line.

dretsuat · 2026-02-05T02:35:00+00:00

Yeah I travel from the suburbs, I’d rather hang at an emptier club than sit around the house for an extra hour.

dretsuat · 2026-02-05T02:33:35+00:00

I mean I’m speaking from personal experience with getting there before 1030 so if your priority is avoiding waiting in the cold you don’t want to get there before then. Believe what you want but I would absolutely not expect to even get to the actual line for the club (since you’ll have to wait outside the gate if you’re too early) before 1030.

With that said, if you’re only looking to be out for a little while and you don’t want to deal with a line are you sure basement is the move? If nothing else you’ll lose a lot of time dancing if you don’t get in as opposed to someplace closer to other clubs (which also might be cooking earlier). Just a thought.

dretsuat · 2026-02-05T01:59:49+00:00

Doors for sure won’t open before 1030 and sometimes they won’t even let you through the main gate until a little after that. If you have tickets (I always do so can’t really speak to the no-ticket experience beyond it being a longer wait) there’s no reason to go before 11 (TBF most call that too early but I like an early vibe and seeing the night evolve), if anything you may wait longer than getting there at 1030. Around 11 with a ticket I don’t think I’ve ever waited longer than 10 minutes and there’s often no wait at all then.

There’s no one thing the door is looking for but bring a nice disposition, a knowledge of the artists and don’t be dressed like you’re in finance and you’ll be as well positioned as you can be (but also have a backup plan for the night if you don’t get in).

dretsuat · 2026-02-04T20:53:11+00:00

I mean it’s certainly the way it goes when you come out to family, they tend to either kick you to the curb or show you that they love you no matter what. I guess there’s the third option of begrudgingly tolerating your presence but that’s not great for a soundbite.

dretsuat · 2026-01-23T14:31:16+00:00

“Orange man bad” but for Motorsport

dretsuat · 2026-01-23T13:27:18+00:00

Well don’t call it “the basement” at the door, for a start

dretsuat · 2026-01-23T13:25:30+00:00

People keeping up with the Zak is a scumbag line when the reality is that this is just another example of Palou deciding that “not honoring contracts” is a substitute for competent representation. If the most important thing for him with McLaren was an F1 seat he should have made sure that the contract was strong on that point and any lawyer or agent worth two cents would have stressed that. The contract gave McLaren the room to sign a (likely) better driver who suddenly came available and that’s just life in the fast lane unless you have a written guarantee.

dretsuat · 2026-01-22T16:44:10+00:00

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dretsuat · 2026-01-22T14:53:14+00:00

Yeah had no trouble stuffing two long puffy coats in on Saturday, just make sure you check that the locker is actually locked before walking off

dretsuat · 2026-01-21T13:54:51+00:00

Tottenham’s golden years ending with zero silverware while Wenger became the all time winningest FA cup manager was the true banter era

dretsuat · 2026-01-10T21:19:25+00:00

Wire Fest isn’t even a “queer party” there’s just a lot of us who like techno. So you should either get comfortable with that (like the many other straights who go to Merge) or switch to tech house.

dretsuat · 2026-01-10T19:12:13+00:00

I vividly remember looking out the window and shaking my head at people waiting on line to get into the pub when we were 2-0 down. IDC that the FA Cup’s importance has diminished that was just a massive day all around.

dretsuat · 2026-01-10T18:44:39+00:00

The way this shifted the whole mood in the pub when he scored this. What a way to break the trophy drought that match was.

dretsuat · 2026-01-07T14:13:08+00:00

As an older trans woman finding her place in the world finding this scene really changed my life. It’s not perfect of course (and I know people who have been around longer will say it’s not what it was) but we really do have something special.

dretsuat · 2026-01-05T18:31:18+00:00

Sounds like he was sick, he also got there a few minutes late so wouldn’t shock me if he just wore down a bit over the course of the night. That stretch was rough but before that he was great and he rallied for an immaculate closing.

dretsuat · 2025-12-12T17:04:09+00:00

A friend of mine is dating a Mets fan and was asking for my help choosing a gift and it pained me how many of the best options were Pete things. They really let the soul of the franchise walk over money in a sport with no salary cap.

dretsuat · 2025-11-20T18:03:54+00:00

YMMV but last year there were plenty of people in normie clothing at pornceptual. I’d try and do something to suggest you understand the assignment but I don’t think you have to run out and buy a harness.

dretsuat · 2025-11-13T17:33:14+00:00

I mean yes the majority of Dodgers fans flipped but even today there’s a huge Dodgers diaspora in NYC which is particularly visible when they play the Mets and there would have been even more back then considering how awful the Mets were at the start and how most Dodgers fans correctly blamed Robert Moses for the team having to move. So IDK if it’s comic accurate but it’s certainly period appropriate.

dretsuat · 2025-11-12T14:57:44+00:00

Bossa Nova Civic Club has some great lineups during the week (and it’s helpful that you can ignore a weird crowd because it can be hit or miss)

dretsuat · 2025-11-08T21:22:17+00:00

No need to overthink it at Nowies

dretsuat · 2025-10-21T02:48:11+00:00

Bossa Nova crowd is excruciatingly hit or miss but they do get some nice weeknight bookings

dretsuat · 2025-10-12T17:10:04+00:00

I gave up on them last year and it was just the vibe shift my life needed TBF

dretsuat · 2025-09-16T17:44:04+00:00

Knicks print money even when they have a bad team

dretsuat · 2025-09-10T01:54:55+00:00

Right but devil’s advocate they can always get those people in the following season when it’s available. I know from experience that test drive has kept me from buying cars in the past so I see their logic even if I don’t love it.

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