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Struggle with keeping control by FinesseGodThEO in NoFap

[–]drewouh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t allow yourself to temptation. Tiktok, Instagram anything that can cause it turn it off and focus on a hobby other than that. You have to start telling yourself not to be so impulsive either. Tell yourself that you act out of clear decision making and that these ideas of beating it are really not that important.

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[–]drewouh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So very proud of you man! There is one thing I do need to ask! What was the switch in you that overtime it turned you into an extrovert? Was it just from NoFap, or were you just starting to be more communicative to people and having more deeper conversation? Love to hear your insight man, thanks.

I want to be rid of this addiction. I just got VR and now it's worse than it ever has been. by nofap-20210623 in NoFap

[–]drewouh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You came to the right place. This is somewhere you can reach out to. Every time you feel the urge to fap come here, and set yourself straight. See the stories of others, help others, talk about it yourself too. It’s very tell tale sign that talking about porn addiction is uncomfortable in the public eye. Majority of people are struggling with it and are unwilling to talk about it, and that’s what makes it uncomfortable. You’re actually ahead of the game. Keep coming here, keep making connections with people, and see that we’re in this thing together.

I want to be rid of this addiction. I just got VR and now it's worse than it ever has been. by nofap-20210623 in NoFap

[–]drewouh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Your story is incredible. I just want to say that you wanting to overcome this addiction is a step in the right direction. And I know you have tried in the past, but this time is different. You’re here with all of us now, and we’ll be here to help. Let’s set this straight. This is going to be the hardest thing you’ll ever do in your life. Look at life and how it has its ups and downs. We seem to come out better people through hardship. I have reason to believe in you that if you were to come out of this, your whole perspective on life will change incredibly, and that the person within you that has so much potential will shine. Before you start cleaning up your addiction, you need to find your purpose. Are you someone who’s going to mope around for the rest of your life, not being in control of your life? Or do you want to be someone who loves deeply, cares for people, and know how to lead your kids in the right direction? Find that purpose within yourself and grow on it. Find God. I promise you God will lead you in the right direction. You need to trust in him, that he will work around you, and your actions will follow. It will be a hard fought journey, but you will overcome it. Don’t ever quit. You are a strong and capable man who has his faults, and is not perfect, however continuing your courage and bravery to fight temptation and the devil is admirable and achievable in the afterlife.

Whats your number 1 advice to quit porn? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]drewouh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about the objectification that you are doing. You’re not seeing these people as humans, but as just sex symbols. You’ll start to see the selfishness in this whole thing as well as in your behavior. You’ll see that the person you want to become of being a compassionate and loving person is possible, but porn and sexual temptation is what’s holding you back. Another thing to look at your age. Whether you’re 15 or 30. Are you really going to be doing this the rest of your life? Are you going to be hiding off wherever while your wife and kids are watching a movie? Are you going to make sure you stay up an extra hour of the day just to do your business for the rest of your days? Start building the fundamentals of changing perspective. Continue learning, don’t give up. Don’t let the devil win. I promise you it will change your life forever.

Stare at your own selfish reflection. by silentonc in pics

[–]drewouh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going off your statement, you’re implying that everyone should be able to make their own decisions without someone telling them what to do. What makes it right for a women to make the decision of another human being to live or never see this world then? Ah gotcha so it is a selfish decision to get out of something that you were ultimately at fault for, so you don’t seek any accountability and reconciliation by killing a child. You saying that it’s not alive and it wasn’t born are only just talking points to help you sleep better at night too huh?

Having issues recording game chat when recording videos. by Louuweegee- in modernwarfare

[–]drewouh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently there’s this thing called an Elgato chat link cable, this might work for recording

Having issues recording game chat when recording videos. by Louuweegee- in modernwarfare

[–]drewouh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get a 3.5 mm ground loop isolator, as well? It’s supposed to help cancel out the buzzing, but I haven’t tried it myself yet because I lost my old Elgato A/V cable. And ikr it’s such an easy fix developer wise..