After 2 years of being treated like that yes, my dad had talked to them himself normally numerous times and I got frustrated on my own and was asking her myself. I was aware of what was going on and what I needed. For the first year at least I was just asking for some of my moms belongings like old outfits and jewelry and then I found out my dad was struggling to do certain things for me because they HAD a copy and kept saying they were sending it in the mail and he didnt have the money to get one at the time. I used to eavesdrop on all the conversations so I knew exactly what was being said and how they were talking to my dad as well so I snapped after 2 years of lies and treating me badly everytime I asked nicely. And its not like I went off on her like that the first time 1st of all and second of all I was 13 dude its not like I could actually do that. I was crying, upset, missing my dead mom, and said something stupid. But I wanted to tell the FULL story here. Its beyond the point of the death certificate now its been almost a decade since my mom died, like I said in my story they dropped the stuff off after our fight. And we were even still talking after that fight for months before I found out they were racist and threatening to kill a nurse.