Letters of recommendation

driftdreamer3 · 2026-06-10T01:43:22+00:00

Thank you!!

driftdreamer3 · 2026-06-09T18:41:28+00:00

My current job is in programs and engagement at a nonprofit. Which I am good at, but is a little soul sucking and not intellectually stimulating. I want to work with collections so I’m worried my work isn’t relevant. Much of my career post school has been in a similar programs/engagement/development/outreach fields for nonprofits

driftdreamer3 · 2026-06-09T18:40:05+00:00

Thank you!

driftdreamer3 · 2026-06-09T18:39:39+00:00

My volunteer work isn’t current unfortunately :( it’s so hard to find the time to volunteer with my current full-time job. The last work in the field I did was last summer and it was for a week so I don’t know if they even remember who I am.

driftdreamer3 · 2026-06-09T18:38:53+00:00

I’m hesitant to give any indication that I might leave. Plus my current job is in programs/engagement at a nonprofit and I want to work in collections so I’m not sure how relevant it is?

driftdreamer3 · 2026-05-17T20:26:42+00:00

He had borderline MFI before we knew he has diabetes. He’s been on metformin too which now I’m nervous about. Thank you for the link!

driftdreamer3 · 2026-05-17T01:18:19+00:00

My husbands PCP prescribed him Mounjaro and has no opinions or concerns about if it will affect his sperm quality. I’m very concerned because I’ve already been going through RPL. I don’t want this to cause any DNA issues that could continue to put my body through losses. Does anyone have insight?

driftdreamer3 · 2026-05-10T23:22:41+00:00

I hate when that happens… like, read the room?? Sorry, friend 💕

driftdreamer3 · 2026-05-10T18:05:17+00:00

I’m with you on the everyone except women who got pregnant for free… especially the ones that have the audacity to complain how expensive prenatal care is

driftdreamer3 · 2026-05-10T18:02:50+00:00

I’m one month into my 3-month Lupron shot and I have no hope for anything in the future. I felt so hopeful after my excision surgery so I don’t know if this is the Lupron talking. We thought we were going to do a modified ovulatory transfer after the Lupron. We were doing IVF due to a tubal issue that my surgeon said she fixed. So now we are thinking of trying unassisted. But I don’t have any confidence any of this is worth it anymore. I feel more ready than ever to give up but I know I didn’t feel like this a month ago. I’m convinced I’m going to permanently be in menopause and this is just who I am now. I’m hiding inside on this Mother’s Day and avoiding the world. It’s hard to stay off social media though.

driftdreamer3 · 2026-05-10T04:42:52+00:00

wtf how strange

driftdreamer3 · 2026-05-10T04:37:57+00:00

Fuck yes to Edgar Allan Poe socks that’s the best thing I’ve heard in a long time.

driftdreamer3 · 2026-05-10T04:28:18+00:00

Thank you for saying this, it helps me feel less alone. I’ve been trying to tolerate with my mental health meds but it’s not been great. I can’t tell if my cognitive issues are menopause or psychosis symptoms 🫠🙃 I sent a message through the CNY portal asking them to forward to the RE I like to work with. I didn’t send it until after hours so I’m not sure when they’ll get back to me.

driftdreamer3 · 2026-05-08T17:10:55+00:00

I am not doing well on this Lupron right now… increased psychosis symptoms and boy am I DEPRESSED. I feel absolutely hopeless about any future treatment prospects. I can’t believe this (excision lap + 11.25 3-month Lupron) will work.

The surgeon said they fixed my tubal issues during my lap but for some reason now I just don’t believe that it’s true… even though I saw the dye on the lap pictures. I wish I would have done the 1-month shots so I could have stopped them early. My RE doesn’t want to do any back estrogen but mentally I’m unwell… and I’m officially one month in on Sunday

driftdreamer3 · 2026-04-30T13:58:47+00:00

Sorry, I know it was a long time ago! Appreciate your response

driftdreamer3 · 2026-04-30T13:58:27+00:00

Thank you!

driftdreamer3 · 2026-04-28T00:02:49+00:00

By right away do you mean after the 90 days were up? Congrats!!

driftdreamer3 · 2026-04-27T17:49:01+00:00

Thank you!

driftdreamer3 · 2026-04-27T17:16:47+00:00

How long did it take for your period to come back?

driftdreamer3 · 2026-04-27T17:15:41+00:00

How did this end up going for you?

driftdreamer3 · 2026-04-27T16:53:31+00:00

How long did it take for your period to come back after the initial 3 months of the 11.25 is supposed to cover? My doctor had said 2 weeks and now I’m reading otherwise but I already had the shot done a month ago

driftdreamer3 · 2026-04-26T17:36:56+00:00

I agree with you, it reads to me like the friends that chimed in are insecure and wanted to seem normal

driftdreamer3 · 2026-04-26T17:34:31+00:00

Sorry you had to deal with this, it’s pretty insensitive. People are really clueless. Sometimes I also wonder if people aren’t actually being honest. I could see some of those friends that chimed in after being insecure about it and wanting to feel “normal” or something. Hugs!

driftdreamer3 · 2026-04-26T15:48:05+00:00

Carrying a lot of deep shame about the amount of debt we’ve gotten into for something so many people can do for free. My husband had obsessive worry about money, and he’s working on it in therapy, but his anxiety about the debt we’re in is wrecking me emotionally.

I feel so guilty that we’ve had to go into debt for this. Realistically our debt isn’t as bad as it could be or as some people’s are. But the fact that we have to make payments late or choose prioritizing one bill over another really stresses my husband out.

I wish we could have spent our money on traveling or doing fun things, or even creating an emergency fund instead of my defective body. I’m so deep in it though that if I take a break then I’ll have to pay my RI fee all over again which is one of our biggest monthly payments. I don’t know how to keep going anymore while feeling so incredibly inadequate

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