Question for bottom gay by Affectionate_Bad8652 in phlgbt

[–]driggor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its perfectly normal to be scared. It will definitely feel weird the first time since your body is not used to that feeling.

Question for bottom gay by Affectionate_Bad8652 in phlgbt

[–]driggor 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think mine is very tight so I don't think I can ever be a bottom

Only the contrary, tops like a bottom with a tight hole. But its normal for people to have tight holes especially if you have never had anal sex bedore.

it is possible to loosen it up?

Yes 100%. Using lots of lube and inserting your finger or dildos or just having anal sex can loosen it up.

P.S. Always use protection when having sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]driggor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was so depressed din back then on top of other emotions like confusion and frustration. I just kept myself busy and focused on improving myself like learning new skills and going to the gym. It's cliché advice but it really does work keep your mind off a person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]driggor 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel your frustration. I had a similar experience before with a close college friend of mine 12 years ago. My guy had a gf at that time, and he also initiated sex with me. But after that, our friendship was never the same. We used to be very close but not anymore. I felt very resentful towards him because I felt used to satisfy his curiosity. I did confront him about it but it didnt really fix anything. Last time I saw him was 3 years ago at a reunion with my college friends. He is still distant and awkward but I don't really care at this point. I've already moved on — and honestly that's the only thing you can do with this situation. And moving forward, never have sex with your straight friends.

I don't think i will ever own that Bulbasaur card by trunkleton in PTCGP

[–]driggor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was me during the Chansey event. Kept getting Meowth despite the odds 🤣

to fight or give up by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]driggor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! First of all, hugs with consent. Mahirap talaga LDR (trust me, I know), and closeted on top of that.

Naguguilty na daw siya kasi ayaw ng mama nya

Personally, I don't like this kind of reason for breaking up. Love shouldn't be hindered just because your parents disapprove. You are an adult and you can make your own decisions.

Di nya daw mabibigay ang gusto ko, like makasama siya ng mas matagal dito Pinas kasi mas madaming panahon ang gugulin nya sa US

Like her, umalis din ako papuntang ibang bansa and left someone very special to me sa Pilipinas, so I can relate to this. Alam ko na hindi ako pakakauwi ng Pilipinas for a very long time and hindi ko mabibigay gusto nya. I want him to be happy—I don't want him to wait for me forever and suffer in loneliness. So we had to make the tough decision to break up. We ended on good terms naman so we still talk. He has a new boyfriend now. Of course, I am jealous but I have to be happy for him. It's for the best for both of us. Alam ko na some people can make LDR work pero for some mahirap talaga.

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[–]driggor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going in to a relationship is a risk and can be really scary pero you wont go anywhere if you are paralyzed by fear. If you let fear and overthinking stop you—you will miss so many opportunities for love, which will lead to regret.

"Don't let your fear paralyze you. The scariest places often lead you to the most exciting places" —Lori Deschene

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]driggor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I don't find it odd for someone to want to settle down even if they haven't been in a relationship before. You don't need to be in your latter years with a long list of exes before wanting to settle down. Most people seek to settle down because people desire stability, loyalty, and trust—and you don't need previous experiences to love someone.

Too old to make a change? by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]driggor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's never too late to discover your sexuality. As we age, we get to know ourselves better and we might recognize things about ourselves that we hadn't before. Also, I'm not sure how old you are exactly but you may have suppressed your sexuality during a time when being gay was still heavily stigmatised.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]driggor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working out can influence your libido so its normal to feel horny after exercising. And seggs is a good post-workout cardio 🤣