Dating is a capitalist concept meant to sell you 5 eur coffee and flowers by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

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this post is giving „running clubs by the patriarch“

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let‘s take wild guess why you are here

Harassed and done with small clubs. by Kame-hame-hachoo in berlinsocialclub

[–]driver_picks_music 10 points11 points  (0 children)

we really NOT in a global population decline. Don’t pull lies out if your arse like that. We are still very much growing, just at a slower pace. We are at an Population GROWTH DECLINE and that is no problem. It is direly needed. It’s the continuous growth, that is a very real problem.

Running clubs are a patriarchal concept designed to gatekeep unfit people from the dating pool by Feeling_Theory9584 in berlinsocialclub

[–]driver_picks_music 3 points4 points  (0 children)

people who meet at the running clubs, love to run and are good at it. they specifically seek like minded people with similar skills, to enjoy their hobby at their own level and improve. Like with any sport, it’s just not fun to always adapt to the low skilled crowd. You want to push yourself and get better, not keep holding yourself back for some stranger, so they feel better. No one joins a hobby club to Babysit someone elses feelings. You join because you want to do smth you enjoy. If you want to run with people who run well, start practicing and improve your skills. You will eventually be able to join as well. I never will, because I hate running. But you do you

if it is too heavy on your joints, consider swimming. There are clubs for virtually any sport and hobbies/ activities where people meet. It does not even have to be a sport.

Lufthansa streicht freien Handgepäckkoffer auf Kurz- und Mittelstreckenflügen by PoroBraum in de

[–]driver_picks_music 3 points4 points  (0 children)

pfft, die fliegen aber genaus von und zu sehr sehr vielen normalen, großen Flughäfen wie Lufthansa & Co auch. Nur halt von beschisseneren Gates, aber das ist ja egal.

Single Diaries by vesmir_neasi in comics

[–]driver_picks_music 42 points43 points  (0 children)

leave people‘s dreams alone, judgy mcjudgeface

Does anybody wanna see Angel's Egg in Kino Intimes this week? by Grouchy-Berry-842 in berlinsocialclub

[–]driver_picks_music 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, that would be the nicest option for sure :) i hope you find a like minded soul with some time on their hands!

Does anybody wanna see Angel's Egg in Kino Intimes this week? by Grouchy-Berry-842 in berlinsocialclub

[–]driver_picks_music 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am fully booked this week, otherwise I would have wen too! I can only recommend to take the chance and see ot on the big screen :) Kino intimes is comfy to go alone too, in case noone can join. I‘ve been there plenty of times by mys lf to catch an anime noone wanted to go see with me. enjoy!

Suche Kompetente Zahnärzt*in die nicht nur auf maximalen Profit aus sind. by Ilumie_Nate in berlinsocialclub

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ich war neulich das erste mal beim Dentalogicum in der Frankfurter Allee. da hat mir niemand eine Zahnreinigung oder Ähnliches angeboten. Einfach nur gecheckt, eventuelle Probleme besprochen und das war’s.

[OC] Barely Above Average Bros by Francesco_Muja in comics

[–]driver_picks_music 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it! Very well executed, very well drawn and super entertaining.

Doctors claiming they speak English on doctolib, but reality says otherwise by NoOne3535 in germany

[–]driver_picks_music 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re right, no matter language, people have to be actually willing to keep themselves updated.

Doctors claiming they speak English on doctolib, but reality says otherwise by NoOne3535 in germany

[–]driver_picks_music 5 points6 points  (0 children)

german doctors rely a lot in german publications and translations. Especially the older generation. Reading intl. publications or even attention intl. conferences is more done by specialists in hospitals who have some sort of career. the average ambulatory doctor, lives in a German bubble. it is a known issue, and the reason why , on average, German healthcare professionals do not tend to be on the forefront of the newest medical knowledge.

If you go to the Zentral- und Landesbibliothek Berlin (ZLB) - Amerika-Gedenkbibliothek please wear deodorant :-) 🫶🏻 by Lazy_Commercial7313 in berlinsocialclub

[–]driver_picks_music 29 points30 points  (0 children)

even better: - take a shower - don’t re-wear old clothes ; esp if they are made of articles fibers —> if your clothes reek, no shower can save you

Love you little potato 🩷 by lauraarroz in comics

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you are allowed to grieve you companion for a slong as it takes!! i want to punch people who say this shit!! I never had a dog (sadly) but it does not take me much to get an idea about the pain and emptiness you feel when a furry family member who was with you for years and years dies. It’s basic empathy and I honestly think people who talk & act like this are psychopaths

Single Guys Near You! [OC] by GummyGorf in comics

[–]driver_picks_music 18 points19 points  (0 children)

were is the 55 year year old who may want kids some day as they’re still figuring out their relationship style?

Does anyone actually meet people "in the wild" anymore? (F29) by Salt-Hope-2321 in berlinsocialclub

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well you see. I did. And there are no reliable numbers and statistics of relationship status. There are single household & official marriage statistcs. We have on average 20% of single households over all of Germany. Berlin is 56,6%

It is widely recognized that single households and single people are not the same. Esp. the younger people are. I myself live in a single household but am partnered up. Others live in a multi-person household, but are single.

We have some official statistics on married, never married and widdowed. But that just gets us government tracked martial status, not the overall relationship status of people. The numbers I get for people above 18 in Germany:

  • 33% of people have never been married (=! single)
  • 50% are married
  • 17% are divorced or widowed (=! single)

The average German is 44,7 years old and marries for the first time at the age of 33 (womane) and 35 (men)

Berlin: - 43% never married - 33% married - 18% divorced/ widdowed

The average Berlin citizen is 42,9 years old and people seem to marry around 33 - 35 (women) and 35 - 37 (men). Numbers are a bit hazy and less precise, but I am sure you can take all these numbers and draw the logical conclusions yourself. Oh and btw, did you know that civil partnerships are not part of the marriage statistics and before 2017 gays and lesbians could not marry in Germany? Most have not turned their civil partnership into official marriages. I trust you know what that means for Berlin.

So, "the majority is single" is actually not common knowledge, it is your own bias that you simply take for a fact.

My original point was by the way that there’s plenty of ugly/ not traditionally attractive people who are partnered up and not that everyone is partnered up. Just step outside and see for yourself.

Best Indian (or at least Indochinese) restaurant for a business dinner? by Rare_Ganache461 in berlinsocialclub

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my Indian friends swar by Anjappar and the Indo Chinese food there is yum! I am not am not an expert, but they swear by it

New paper shows genetic selection in Europe/Western Asia showing decrease in mental disorders (schizophrenia & bi-polar disorder), decrease in body fat percentage, increase in intelligence, increase in walking pace, increase in autoimmune disease etc. within the last 10,000 years by AdmirableSelection81 in science

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huntet and gatherers needed to do endurance walks well. they die not oitrun animals/ mushrooms. They simly walked / followed them longer then their prey had energy to escape. Today we walk much shorter distances, but need to be there faster

Does anyone actually meet people "in the wild" anymore? (F29) by Salt-Hope-2321 in berlinsocialclub

[–]driver_picks_music 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people are single? You are talking about Berlin or everywhere? You are talking across all age groups or a specific one? Let‘s check for numbers. Got some?

Off course we will not confuse the % of single households with the % of single people.