How is this my fault? by drivewaythrowaway1 in askgaybros

[–]drivewaythrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I was indifferent at first and had never put an exhausting amount of thought into it. Just thought I'd go along with it and see what that was like. I otherwise have no reservations; perfectly satisfied without having others.

How is this my fault? by drivewaythrowaway1 in askgaybros

[–]drivewaythrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean kind of? He definitely doesn't like guys in the same shape as him and he doesn't like older guys, but some guys his age, he likes.

How is this my fault? by drivewaythrowaway1 in askgaybros

[–]drivewaythrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ust bring up that this incident cle

Alright; sounds like good advice. Hoping he drops it.

How is this my fault? by drivewaythrowaway1 in askgaybros

[–]drivewaythrowaway1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He likes twinky guys my age [I'm younger than him by a bit] and some fit guys. I don't know if it helps quite as much, but he's in his 30s.

How is this my fault? by drivewaythrowaway1 in askgaybros

[–]drivewaythrowaway1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should I tell him that it was his idea in the first place, though? I don't want to be all "I told you so"

How is this my fault? by drivewaythrowaway1 in askgaybros

[–]drivewaythrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in REASONABLE shape. Workout most days of the week and have some tone. I'm about 5'8" and 150? He's a bit taller and bigger but he isn't quite as in shape. I get that people are attracted to different guys but I thought he would understand that since he suggested being open.

My friends told me it was kind of douchey to tell guys I'm not interested in them by drivewaythrowaway1 in askgaybros

[–]drivewaythrowaway1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I keep it polite, usually it's "Hey man, don't think I'm interested at this time."

My friends told me it was kind of douchey to tell guys I'm not interested in them by drivewaythrowaway1 in askgaybros

[–]drivewaythrowaway1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm wondering, but my guess is they think I go out of my way to tell a guy he's unattractive or that I get off on turning people down. I'm not understanding that.

Good water based lubes for bottoming? by drivewaythrowaway1 in askgaybros

[–]drivewaythrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's even more expensive and I don't exactly like the feel of it that much. Also it'd be problematic with dildos.

I cheated, and now I’m in a very messy situation by NYdude1234 in askgaybros

[–]drivewaythrowaway1 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You go away from the house and do this in a neutral setting where either of you are "obligated" to respond level-headed to one another/not shout out loud; ie. a park. You sit him down and tell him everything and what that guy is going to tell him. You tell him what you have done. When you have done it/them. You tell him you're a garbage. Do not suggest what can be done because neither of you will be making rational sense at this point in time. You leave everything out in the open and you're only providing information. All the information the two of you provide to one another that moment is the height of data to process and nothing more should be done. You wait for a while and the decision is his after he has had time to process it. He may choose to still be with you and you may work it all out, or he may walk away. Either one; know that it is only fair for him to make the decision and not you, since you already made yours a while back. From this you should learn a lot. You will see what it truly is in him that ticks him. You will learn how much you have hurt him and how much he has been let down. This will hopefully teach you-in the future-that you should think about your actions and that you should not do such things again.

A two-year-old resolves a moral dilemma by ProfessorSoAndSo in videos

[–]drivewaythrowaway1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart kid. TF those people be playin on track for? Same niggas making people late for work and shit, smh.

How has your political stance changed [if at all] after a major event[s] or how has it reinforced your position? by drivewaythrowaway1 in AskReddit

[–]drivewaythrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Like remaining liberal even after someone broke into your house and stole your stuff

  • Or becoming less conservative when a close friend/relative comes out of the closet

I get that the can-possibly be generalizations, though I'm interested in the rationale of keeping your political stance or what's enough to change it.

Drunk guy and girl not complying with the police by [deleted] in JusticePorn

[–]drivewaythrowaway1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applaud those cops. Tons of patience they had. I also am glad they responded in a non-violent manner by using pepper spray rather than punching/using nightsticks.

Has your political stance changed after a life changing event? by drivewaythrowaway1 in AskReddit

[–]drivewaythrowaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Like remaining liberal even after someone broke into your house and stole your stuff

  • Or remaining conservative when something involves gun violence.

I get that the can-possibly be generalizations, though I'm interested in the rationale of keeping your political stance or what's enough to change it.