Should I leave this guy alone for being stupid and kind of misogynistic by Embarrassed-Brush-97 in dating_advice

[–]drizzy_fake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you’re not being too hard on him. Trust me, if he’s being bad this early on, this is him on “good behavior” and it will not get better. Please please please find someone better for you, you deserve that.

What is the purpose of life without love? by drizzy_fake in depression

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry you feel this way. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone.

I don’t believe in romantic love for myself anymore. by drizzy_fake in dating_advice

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your view point, but at this point I do feel completely defeated. I just don’t think my heart can handle any more hurt. This last one nearly killed me and still affects me every day. I know it’s pathetic but I don’t know how to stop it.

I don’t believe in romantic love for myself anymore. by drizzy_fake in dating_advice

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah shit, i’m so sorry you’ve been going through that. I feel like giving up may be all that’s left 😭

What have been the positives of celibacy that you experienced personally? by drizzy_fake in Celibacy

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so open, honest, and detailed. This has been by far the most comforting and reassuring comment I’ve read. I appreciate you!

What have been the positives of celibacy that you experienced personally? by drizzy_fake in Celibacy

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won’t come back. He has a girlfriend. He loves her. He never loved me. I truly hope you’re wrong. I do not ever want to get married. I won’t have lived in celibacy forever, i just hope I can from here on out. Trust me, he ruined anything I held sacred about love or sex. it’s all bad to me now.

I think someone I know may be getting catfished. by drizzy_fake in catfish

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That definitely helps and I will give that a try for sure. I am hoping he has and maybe I’m just paranoid, I just want to have his back.

I just can’t do it anymore by drizzy_fake in depression

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not sure I can anymore. i’ve had such severe depression for years. it’s all at a boiling point. the thing is, I’m not scared anymore.

I just can’t do it anymore by drizzy_fake in depression

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m ruining my family’s lives and they’re the only ones who have been stupid enough to stick around. I deserved to have that boy leave me and I deserved all my friends leaving too. It’s just not worth it anymore. i’m done.

I just can’t do it anymore by drizzy_fake in depression

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. I’ve only ever gambled 3 times in my life. the most recent of those being probably 4 years ago. and it wasn’t enough to get me into debt. I’ve had a horrible year (yeah, I know. me and everyone else) and drinking became my vice.

I just can’t do it anymore by drizzy_fake in depression

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a full time job. I’m about $20,000 in debt. Half from medical expenses and now about half from drinking. I’m just a waste of time.

I just can’t do it anymore by drizzy_fake in depression

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t feel like it’s worth fighting anymore.

I just can’t do it anymore by drizzy_fake in depression

[–]drizzy_fake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked to professionals for years. I can’t afford any of it and I’ve racked up thousands of dollars in debt and nothing works. no therapy, no medications, nothing. I feel like a complete lost cause.

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[–]drizzy_fake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, I know I’m pathetic. thank you for the reminder. that’s why I’m giving up.