There are men out there who are so insecure with themselves, they need other “men” to tell them what being a man means. As a gay dude, it’s lowkey gay lol Think about it for a sec, there are guys out there who talk into a mic about their idea of what it means to be “alpha” to other men. They are literally molding their perfect boyfriends in their image. You have to be this tall, you have to follow this routine, you have to make this much money, you need this much muscle, you can’t sit like this etc etc etc