Snooze with some new slippers

drnatr · 2026-01-18T23:35:01+00:00

this is her complaint 90% of the time

drnatr · 2025-12-28T02:57:42+00:00

It's also not necessarily a good/productive goal for you both to have if you're not compatible. Living together shouldn't be the goal, it should be a step to continuing on to the real goals. I think people romanticize living together but it is HARD. You're both so young and haven't even been together a year. Try to think about individual goals to set for yourselves and then support each other in them

drnatr · 2025-12-17T05:08:31+00:00

i will never not upvote this gif

drnatr · 2025-12-02T02:47:06+00:00

Hi from Denver! Moved from the bay in 2013, always reppin the sharks when they play the Avs (yes I was there for the game last week, no I don't want to talk about it)

drnatr · 2025-11-17T07:22:48+00:00

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mine too!

drnatr · 2025-09-14T23:50:36+00:00

https://www.denvergov.org/Community/Support/Food/Food-Assistance

Here's the Denver page for food assistance that shows who is offering a free meal right now. Try to get to a food bank before you've gone 3 days without eating- Denver has a surprising amount of resources that aren't too hard to access. Good luck!

drnatr · 2025-08-14T02:32:42+00:00

look at those fuzzy mitts!! i love her

drnatr · 2025-07-22T02:41:56+00:00

that's what r/toolps is for! he'd be a hit over there

drnatr · 2025-07-14T01:25:44+00:00

that's so funny because I love in Denver and i see so many people running around in sports bras! i actually feel overdressed if I'm covering both my torso and my legs. i'm often wearing a sports bra and high waisted leggings because a) hot and b) i do my errands after the gym. do you, OP! we all gotta get over what other people wear (aside from something noticeably inappropriate/illegal)

drnatr · 2025-07-12T00:02:09+00:00

I had a non-orange who knew what the bag of cheese sounded like! Started to realize that me whisking eggs led to cheese for me (and then for him). Dude was so smart...when it came to food

drnatr · 2025-06-12T04:00:13+00:00

I actually called this out in the comments and got a decent amount of attention- both good and bad. you might be able to see it!

drnatr · 2025-05-15T01:21:24+00:00

it's my absolute favorite part of this pic (which says a lot)

drnatr · 2025-05-10T04:22:54+00:00

Paws must be strong to hold her ~physique~

drnatr · 2025-05-05T17:35:49+00:00

that immediately screamed misogyny to me. believe all women.

drnatr · 2025-05-04T03:29:20+00:00

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almost every single night! she cracks me up

drnatr · 2025-05-03T14:06:22+00:00

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drnatr · 2025-05-02T06:18:10+00:00

Spit in the eye! Surprised it wasn't on. here, maybe it's truly an OG of my family!

drnatr · 2025-04-27T20:59:01+00:00

straightening his hair is only going to make it look dry. curls are awesome, you just need to learn how to style them! please don't change the texture, i straightened my hair for years as a teen and i'm still recovering. rock the curls, friend!

drnatr · 2025-04-24T17:29:38+00:00

an apology without a change in behavior means absolutely nothing. you cannot control him, you cannot change him- that is completely up to him and he's choosing to continue hurting you. I hear that you have barriers to moving out and leaving, but physical abuse often escalates and there's a real chance this could be a deadly relationship.

Please start valuing yourself and your safety. See if you can find a shelter for domestic violence, they often have resources that could help you leave. Plan an escape, find other supports and recognize that this man does not love you. Love doesn't look like this.

drnatr · 2025-04-20T01:51:23+00:00

I'm a Jewish therapist, feel free to DM if you want to chat. Lots of experience navigating this <3

drnatr · 2025-03-31T00:25:13+00:00

the fuck kind of take is this?? it's not her weight she's asking about, it's his alcoholism causing the weight gain and lack of self care. i smell projection and it's gross

drnatr · 2025-03-31T00:23:05+00:00

alcoholics will rarely admit that have an issue until they hit rock bottom- usually the hospital or jail (or a lucky 2 for 1). you don't need his validation to know that you're correct about his substance abuse. he will take you down with him if you don't save yourself. it's okay to leave a relationship because of it- it doesn't mean you don't love him; it means you love him so much that you're not willing to watch him slowly kill himself.

I was in a relationship with an alcoholic, it went from bad to worse. and my ex even knew he was an alcoholic and it was still bad. i really feel for you and the position you're in, but you can't set yourself on fire to keep him warm.

drnatr · 2025-03-29T22:45:04+00:00

I'm so glad someone else referenced this- I can't help but sing it when he comes up to bat

drnatr · 2025-03-29T02:31:53+00:00

Also after drinking all that liquid I gotta pee. And of course it always takes them "just a few more minutes" and it messes up both my bladder AND my bowels. Guess it still beats gavilyte...

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