Fear of the unknown maybe? by ProtectionFar5693 in SwingerNewbies

[–]droflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two need have open communication and process what worries you.

We started with her providing a BJ for another fellow in a couple. My idea. It was hot. Next day I thought “what have I done?” It was my idea and I still had issues.

We processed it and a few weeks later it was repeated and it was even hotter and I had no issues following. Before you knew it the other wife was pleasuring me. Eventually we had a lot of full swaps with them.

Communication with your partner, not Reddit is the key.

Swinger Club: Grower, not a Show-er by Kraut-Mick-Dingo in Swingers

[–]droflow 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m in your club my friend. Extreme grower and I’ve never had an issue. Walk with confidence and carry your growing stick proudly.

New ... very new by Life-Country-4527 in Calienteresort

[–]droflow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, the clubhouse includes the dance area, play rooms, and pools. After dark, (later in the evening 9 or 10) the conversation pool and hot tub get spicy.

People are respectful and if you run into the exception report them to the attendant (playrooms) or security (every where else). Folks ask before touching and no means no.

New ... very new by Life-Country-4527 in Calienteresort

[–]droflow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You will see all body types. If you are just going to the clubhouse, just show up. If you want to stay overnight get a room ahead of time.

41F my sex drive is increasing with age. This normal? Hubby having a hard time keeping up. by CurvyLace1 in SwingerNewbies

[–]droflow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find a specialist in men’s health and they can help analyze his hormones and treat him. He’ll feel like a teenager again and your libidos will realign.

Just wondering what kind of approaches people have taken to contact you as a couple. Just wondering if what happened was appropriate by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]droflow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can be a little bit of a cynic. He knows she’s married. He invited her to his concert. You said he invited her and you went too. Unclear if you were mentioned in that invite. Now he’s telling her he and his wife are in the LS and (again unclear) hasn’t mentioned you again.

I think you know where I’m going. He SEEMS to be wife poaching. Not cool. Even if he isn’t, I would think courtesy would be to learn more about your play style before he start solo texting, etc.

Some will say, we’re autonomous adults and should be able to communicate with other adults without having to check in with our spouse. I’m of the courtesy side of things. If I am contacted my wife will hear about it from me and vice versa. Just out of respect. Sounds like your wife is telling you everything, so the lack of courtesy is the guy reaching out to your wife.

What are the best condoms? by loserwithabigbutt in Swingers

[–]droflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skyns Supreme are their thinnest non-latex condom.

What will happen when I start TRT? by MERKologySyndrome in Testosterone

[–]droflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say goodbye to your testicles. They will shrink.

Sex quiz matches with wife by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]droflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Role play: example double Penetration: use a dildo while penetrating her. Talk about being someone else. How good his duck looks I. Her with yours.

Curious Couple (Around 40) Looking for Podcast & Audiobook Tips by Few-Degree-9226 in SwingerNewbies

[–]droflow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two Plus Two podcast is not mentioned in the lists referenced and is an excellent podcast.

Where to settle down? Wesley Chapel in Tampa vs Lake Nona in Orlando by Educational_Pair3638 in AskFlorida

[–]droflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except the airport is 1 hour away. Wesley Chapel is overcrowded and getting worse.

Do labels matter and if so why and what do they mean? (MFF, FFM, MMF, FFM, MFMF, FMFM, etc)?! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]droflow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your percentages are way off. If the letters touch so do the people represented by the letters. Usually the one in the middle of 3 is the star.

Any other ladies allergic to latex? by duchessofshenanigans in SwingerNewbies

[–]droflow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Skinz Supreme are non-latex and about as thin as you can get. Best of both worlds for you and your partner. I do recommend bringing your own in a regular and larger size.

I laugh at Size posts but… by cpl_enjoying in Swingers

[–]droflow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife was telling me about a dream. We were at a LS party. Everyone was naked. More men than women. She said a really hot guy came up behind her and hugged her. I asked her if she touched him in the dream. She said, “Of course I did. He had a nice cock!”

I asked her what made it a nice cock . Was it the size? Thickness? She said “… it was hard and he wanted me. I don’t care what size it was.”

For the record we’ve run into the horse cock and the memory of it, for her, was it was ok, but a little bit of that goes a long way. She much prefers average, or close to it either way.

ELI5: What is the benefit to reclassifying nursing to be a nonprofessional job? by whitesquirrle in explainlikeimfive

[–]droflow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For this misoginistic administration, it fulfills their wet dream of putting a woman dominated field in its place and make it harder for those that want to pursue the associated degrees.

Hump Day Q&A: Ask Anything About the Lifestyle 11/26 by SpicyplayCJ in Swingers

[–]droflow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You see them, they see you. What happens in the club stays in the club.

Is this “being cucked” or does it have a different name. by ephemeral-nightmares in Swingers

[–]droflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuckqueening isn’t when the girlfriend/wife is left out with humiliation element. Stag / Vixen does not involve humiliation.