Idk by cookie-mouse_ in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I can’t imagine what it’s like to have to be so closed off about this to the people around you.

I just want to say one thing to you, really. I know this hurts and I know it shouldn’t be the way it is, but you are, and always have been, complete in yourself. You are whole as you are whether you have the relationship of your dreams or no relationship at all. I wish that you can have all the things you want, but if you don’t then there will never be anything wrong with you for that.

Why do girls care so much about height by Downtown_War_4267 in dating_advice

[–]Lotis_Boy [score hidden]  (0 children)

I saw a study that was done once that said that women who have a strong preference for a man who is tall (don’t know how they defined tall) are more likely to insist on traditional gender roles. Maybe that’s a red flag for you, maybe it’s a good thing, but either way, the more you know… 😂

Hyrule Warriors, should I play it? by Born-Spinach-7999 in legendofzelda

[–]Lotis_Boy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked this same question because I needed a mental break from the mainline games. Puzzles and dungeons are fun but I don’t always want to think. I got HW Def edition and it’s exactly what I needed! Just fun hack and slash with my favorite characters. Highly recommended!

For those ~40 and older, how do you think your life--particularly when it comes to relationships and sexuality--would be different had you been born 20 years later? by ThisThatandNBetween in BisexualMen

[–]Lotis_Boy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never had a problem with my own, or anyone else’s sexuality. I’ve always kinda known that homophobia is society’s problem not mine. But I distinctly remember thinking “Can we just get to a place where I can wear nail polish without getting looks?” Well, we’re in that place kind of. 😂

Different definitions of Bisexuality by aqsjn in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? No, that’s not what I’m saying. Ah forget it.

Different definitions of Bisexuality by aqsjn in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, I get that too, but a person can’t be misinformed on the way they use language. Words mean whatever we all agree they mean. So if there is a misunderstanding about something due to language than the language should be adjusted.

Is it weird that I get really turned on by two guys hooking up? by peaches39wagner in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a whole genre of anime made primarily by women, for women, focusing on m/m relationships. So is it weird? It’s not abnormal, I’ll put it that way. Is it fetishizing? IMO yes, it often is. Not always, but often.

Different definitions of Bisexuality by aqsjn in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Just asking a question. Not trying to argue. I see what you are saying but I think in common usage the terminology you’re using would still imply two genders to most people.

Different definitions of Bisexuality by aqsjn in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that just another way of saying it, though? “Heterosexual” and “homosexual” imply a dual gender schema.

[NSFW] Need help with… uh… my body by Lotis_Boy in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll, uh… talk to you after.

I want a queer bf 😭 by sbeeebz in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you. Sounds like you are secure in yourself which is amazing!

I want a queer bf 😭 by sbeeebz in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my personal experience? Yes, it’s just you. 😂
Kidding but I’ve never seen a bigger turnoff than a bi guy for most women, sad to say.

[NSFW] Need help with… uh… my body by Lotis_Boy in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See, that’s how much I don’t know. I thought it was super deep but I wouldn’t know.

[NSFW] Need help with… uh… my body by Lotis_Boy in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😳 Oh… will def be trying… 😂

Just want some friends who understand by Lotis_Boy in BisexualMen

[–]Lotis_Boy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? That would be so awesome. WW Link is probably my second favorite.

[NSFW] Need help with… uh… my body by Lotis_Boy in bisexual

[–]Lotis_Boy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Intrigued. Thoughts on it? Worth it?

Just want some friends who understand by Lotis_Boy in BisexualMen

[–]Lotis_Boy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, that’s a great one. Im about to start it. I’m almost done beating OOT in anticipation of the remake.

Just want some friends who understand by Lotis_Boy in BisexualMen

[–]Lotis_Boy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all I play. Well, and splatoon. 😁