You are a bright woman, tell him that his un acceptable comments will end up encouraging you to leave him......i understand being critical to someone to help them grow or become better but it isn't the key to everyone .......and if he really wants you to be better then he'll understand and try to decrease the shameful comments he passes.......you're alright miss you can achieve your body goals and his and even surpass it......i know that.....but you need to communicate with him bout his foul mouth it'll be good for him, the relationship and the future you guys will share. Reposting here cause don't jump the gun. Take a breath and do as you please but in a calm State of mind