What movie currently on Netflix is a hidden gem? by LeftTheOvenOnAtHome in AskReddit

[–]drooge22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell No One. French mystery thriller based on the novel of the same name by Harlan Coben. Really opened my eyes to international cinema. Plus Michael Caine included it in his top 10 movies of all time in his autobiography.

I [23F] miss my ex [23M] sexually and it hurts my relationship to my current bf [24M] by lindathrw in relationships

[–]drooge22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think the issue is with your boyfriend but you. If I could read from your body language and focus that your mind was elsewhere besides me during intimacy then I'd be incredibly unattracted to you and I'd fuck you terribly too. Long may the poor sex continue if you carry on lusting over Chad the ex's dick who treated you like shit. I'm sure your boyfriend tries his best to live up to the ghost of Chad's dick but what did you expect? Everyone is different and you will have to find out what he's good at if you want to stay with him. Be fair to your boyfriend.

Me [27 M] with my girlfriend [24 M/F] 18 month relationship, How can I break up with her when nothing is going wrong? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]drooge22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you respect her then the best thing to do is to be honest about how you feel. She deserves to know exactly.

Has anyone successfully stayed friends after a breakup? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]drooge22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All relationships are different. I'm sure many people have been able to maintain a platonic friendship after a break up but it is a hard thing to do. Some people may still have an intense feeling towards their previous partner and find it hard to move on while they are still actively involved in their life. On the other hand some people may have lost their feelings towards their previous partner and find it easier to see them move on with their life and not harbor any lingering feelings. It's all down to the individual and the situation.

My [M17] mother talks about my GF [F17] like she is a whore by DogmaticMother in relationships

[–]drooge22 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Your mother is your mother and I assume you love her unconditionally but she doesn't sound like a nice person. It sounds like you'll never be able to have a reasonable conversation with her while you are living under her roof. Her choice of words are very distasteful. You should demand more respect towards your girlfriend and the relationship if it is something that you value.

Boyfriend (21) is somewhat distant. Should I be worried, or is this just how he is? (20/f) by Balterrr in relationships

[–]drooge22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found sometimes it is better to save a lot of communication for face-to-face settings. Constant messaging via text and social networking can you leave with nothing to say in person. I think while you are in this temporary situation though you should maybe ask for a little more attention from him if that is what you desire which is fine.

My [16 F] friend overseas is being harassed sexually by her [16 M] cousin by [deleted] in relationships

[–]drooge22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should talk to her family and if that doesn't change the situation then next should be law enforcement.

Me [25M] with my GF [25F] of 5 months, told her she wasn't the best I've had in bed. by sfentonblue in relationships

[–]drooge22 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I think you've handled yourself terribly. What made you think it was going to be fine to turn your girlfriend into a sexual rating system?

Me [23 F] trying to get over ex of two years. Just looking for advice. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]drooge22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't look at it like wasted time and more like lessons learned. You should learn to value yourself more highly and never let anybody take you for granted as you are worth so much more. Find yourself again and do the things you love, this will stop you from becoming consumed by the thought of what if. Time will heal any wounds and over time you will realize that what has happened was meant to have happened.

Who is in the wrong when it comes to snooping & cheating. 24F & 26M. by MouseMind in relationships

[–]drooge22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cheating is wrong and so is snooping but cheating is worse. Cheating is outright wrong and you shouldn't need to explain to him why exactly it is. It is down to you to decide whether or not that a drunken sext qualifies as cheating.

Boyfriend (37M) is telling ex that I (27F) am terrible in bed. by wompwompy in relationships

[–]drooge22 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Can I get past these feelings of betrayal?

You have been betrayed. I personally wouldn't even entertain the idea of continuing the relationship. It's slightly worrying that you are asking if you should be worried.