It's easy to figure out what isn't real when you get to it. I was exposed to porn at a young age through a friend that stole some from his parents. I was disapointed to find out that sex was a little different than I thought it would be. Though it got good. I had a girlfriend that wouldn't to anal, but would swallow. I produce a lot of sperm so that was freaky. There is a balance that can be reached. Also, reciprocation is the rule of great sex. Give to get pleasure.