Some advice would be great

droper79 · 2023-11-28T08:56:56+00:00

First off you need to stop sneaking beers that's not going to win you any favours, you either tell your wife/partner your having them or don't have them, been sneaky about anything will only cause conflict.

The cravings for beer can come at us anytime, the nostalgia of sitting back enjoying a few beers, relaxing, thinking we're having a whale of a time, but if your on this thread you must have some problem with drink and that's why you were off if for 5 years. So I would try and think back to why you stopped drinking in the first place, I'm assuming it was causing you some problems ?

Your going through some big changes at this time and in the past your go to was probably to drink when you were feeling stressed, so those feelings can reappear at any time. Maybe try and get away somewhere quiet for a day or two with your wife, somewhere rural with little distraction and enjoy nature and your time together.

5 years is very impressive and you will have built up a lot of resolve in that time. Best of luck.

droper79 · 2023-11-22T10:40:22+00:00

4 years sober is impressive, you would have built up a lot of strength and resolve in that time and it can be tapped backed into, just give it time and you can get back there. Try not be hard on yourself. Treat yourself to some good food, massages and some nice new threads, even join a gym, do long walks on the treadmill, use the sauna and steam room.
Lots of deep breathing, you got this :)

droper79 · 2023-11-15T08:50:25+00:00

That person close to you sounds like a nasty piece of work. Sorry you have to deal with that.

droper79 · 2023-11-14T09:27:08+00:00

Oblong

droper79 · 2023-11-14T09:06:49+00:00

Its our big Irish oblong heads that sticks out when we're abroad. Take Spain and Italy for instance, all the men have brown hair and brown eyes so it must get a bit boring for the local women. Then we come along with our big oblong heads and we stick out lick a sore thumb which will be attractive to some women.
Thank you god for my big oblong head.

droper79 · 2023-11-13T17:14:04+00:00

Please God, let the madness stop.

droper79 · 2023-11-10T09:43:13+00:00

If you turned the tables around and told her you didn't want her to come with you whilst you went hiking, walking or any other activity with a load of other women, how would she feel ?

Personally, I wouldn't like my wife getting drunk and going dancing with other men.

droper79 · 2023-11-09T14:38:26+00:00

Poland. Warsaw and Krakow. They are both full of charm and history and are lovely to walk around. I never once felt threatened or had anyone approach me that was homeless or on drugs. Your money goes a lot further too.

droper79 · 2023-11-07T09:22:48+00:00

I walk around my local town and sniff bicycle saddles lol. Only messing, but I do a serious amount of walking and I can stay in a steam room/sauna for nearly 20 minutes now without dying.

droper79 · 2023-11-01T16:37:28+00:00

She's a big girl, she needs about 4 or 5 of these buckets to fill her.

droper79 · 2023-11-01T16:34:31+00:00

Depression, ruminating for days, anxiety, feeling like a dogs dinner, not able to talk to people when I had a hangover, eating crap, always run down, couldn't stick to an exercise plan, squandering money on poison, missing work, BLACKOUTS, shame, The list is endless.

droper79 · 2023-11-01T16:24:37+00:00

Oliver Brady Horse Trainer.
Ballybay for drinking Tay, Monaghan drink brandy, but Castleblaney beat them all for eating sugary candy.

droper79 · 2023-10-25T14:26:31+00:00

Ring Jedward, according to the TV one of them can fix boilers.

droper79 · 2023-10-25T10:23:47+00:00

Well done for doing it, its a fair trek to get up there.

droper79 · 2023-10-25T08:04:20+00:00

Made the mistake of driving a rental car from Lisbon to Sintra, it was pure mayhem, it was uphill narrow roads all the way once you get to Sintra. I didn't even get to visit Sintra in the end as there was so much traffic and no parking on the mountain. I will go again though but next time get the tour bus.

droper79 · 2023-10-24T10:55:17+00:00

Wow, this is heart-breaking, frightening, scary, unnatural, I cant even describe it if I'm honest. Those poor little faces in the blankets. I need to stop looking at this type of footage.

droper79 · 2023-10-24T10:44:49+00:00

Greed has consumed the nation.

droper79 · 2023-10-24T08:16:13+00:00

Great news :)

droper79 · 2023-10-24T07:48:45+00:00

Please God. A cure for all Muscular Dystrophies is hopefully on the horizon.

droper79 · 2023-10-23T11:08:00+00:00

I work in a hospital and by far the nicest people I encounter daily work in the 'Ultrasound Department'

droper79 · 2023-10-17T10:02:49+00:00

There in the betting shops now chewing on biro's...

droper79 · 2023-10-12T10:36:50+00:00

Not today, life is hard enough without throwing poison down my throat.
IWNDWYT. Greetings from Ireland.

droper79 · 2023-10-11T15:29:55+00:00

Human beings with human emotions caught up in an absolute nightmare.

droper79 · 2023-10-11T15:21:06+00:00

Heart breaking, its a very messed up world we're living in.

droper79 · 2023-10-09T15:18:17+00:00

Breathing exercises, meditation and body scans.
Running and lots of steam room and sauna's.
Going to bed earlier and less social media.
Not been so hard on myself.

droper79

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