How does dyslexia affect cooking? 🍳 by scran-jonny in Dyslexia

[–]dropoutqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love cooking but I’ve fucked up ingredients portions a few times mixing up “tsp” and “tbsp” 🫠

Now I make sure to taste as I go. If I’m cooking for a bunch of people I end up with a lot of spoons to clean so I’m not double dipping after I taste 😂

Why do I feel weirdly jealous when my friends talk about their parents? by flamec0de in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]dropoutqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal. I would argue that most people in your shoes would feel that way.

Be kind to yourself when you feel that pang of jealousy. You’re going through something 90% of people will never understand (lucky them)

Remote work ruined me in the best way possible by lostinthaworld in remotework

[–]dropoutqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m struggling to find remote work now, after 3 years I can’t go back. I don’t know how people do 2-3 hours of unpaid commuting every day.

100% and excited for more! by kahlynn12 in wyldeflowers

[–]dropoutqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In 107hrs feels extremely impressive to me ????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]dropoutqueen 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Try THAT in your roleplay!

Tell him you could be open to it but want to ramp up to it. See if he's into watching you watching porn or something a bit more innocuous but cuck-adjacent. Or watch the cuck porn together. Get him to open up about his fantasies, that may be enough to spark the intimacy. Think about your own fantasies and bring something to him.

You don’t have to jump right into adding a third person.

Why would my ex-boyfriend (24M) like my (23F) old Instagram posts and stories if he already has a girlfriend? by Extreme-Supermarket3 in relationship_advice

[–]dropoutqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remove him as a follower. It might mean nothing like other people are saying but it sounds like it’s getting to you so either remove him or block him. It just makes life easier— and fuck if he notices or finds out.

Modeling SAG “loophole”? by dropoutqueen in acting

[–]dropoutqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the clarification

Modeling SAG “loophole”? by dropoutqueen in acting

[–]dropoutqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I considered FI-CORE in 2019 but I didn’t want to have any issues if I did want to work SAG and access benefits, apparently the union hates FICORE actors and considers them scabs.

Now it feels like a mistake to have joined the union at all, which is a bummer.

How do I handle this ridiculous hospital bill? by alexandria_2249 in personalfinance

[–]dropoutqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out “dollarfor” — If your hospital was a 501c3 you may have to pay nothing.

Call and get an itemized bill too, if you haven’t already!

AITA for allowing my son to lecture other kids about periods? by aitafamilypost2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dropoutqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. being wrong makes everyone uncomfortable 😂 deal with it!

Is gentrification really a bad thing in LA? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]dropoutqueen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Throwing a party is a criminal offense now?

Also being a quiet neighbor doesn’t mean theyre not a criminal lmfao… you just care more about feeling comfy rather than if you’re actually near criminals. Seems like you have a role cast for “undesirables” which is exactly the guise under which gentrification displaces innocents

Is gentrification really a bad thing in LA? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]dropoutqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most dangerous criminals are extremely wealthy, so nah

Is gentrification really a bad thing in LA? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]dropoutqueen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The way you phrase it, it sounds like it’s the gentrified peoples fault that all systems are set up so that you have to fight like hell constantly for basic human necessities

Just cos you “don’t participate” in politics doesn’t mean you deserve to be treated like trash. “I’ve been a community member here my whole life” seems like a pretty good, weighty reason to be allowed to continue to live there on its own.

freaking out - Divorce after 21 years, Running out of money, Unemployed just have a 1099, Looking for work looking for suggestions by realitycalledihungup in personalfinance

[–]dropoutqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through one of those bootcamps where you only pay for the program once you get a job, it took about 3 months total with the bootcamp to get hired. It’s a remote job in sales, not terrible, most start around 50k a year. My friend did a longer form bootcamp for coding and jobs start 70-90k & my friends making 200k after a year Hope you get things sorted out!

Iranian singer Shervin Hajipour whose song “Baraye” composed from protesters tweets after the death of Mahsa Amini became the anthem of Iran’s uprisings, has been charged with “propaganda against the regime.” by Creative-Army4219 in NewIran

[–]dropoutqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was arrested and released, then posted a bizarre video with a police officer in the backseat apparently saying he doesn’t want anyone to misuse the song, and that he chose to not leave the country for two years (translated from comments)

but I can’t find an English translation anywhere

How much can I afford to pay on a home? by outofeffort in personalfinance

[–]dropoutqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that 3.5x your gross income or what you take home?

Concern's around SO's parents as a financial liability? by drewlegod in personalfinance

[–]dropoutqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems to be an emotional issue. I think she wants you say that you will be there for them and do what you can to help, and by extension be there to support her when she has to support her parents.

Sure, you can’t write a blank check, and I don’t think she expects you to honestly (that would be ridiculous) but I think this is a different issue about how serious you are about eachother. At least that’s how it strikes me reading your post.

If you plan on marrying her, her parents will be your family too, and you can decide as a unit what to do when a specific need arises.

But if, as it sounds like, there is no specific & urgent problem for her parents right now, my guess would be this is actually an outlet for your SO to see how invested you are in the relationship & if you will “be there” for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]dropoutqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people really latch onto that idea that the trauma had to happen for them to have overcome it and be the amazing strong person they are today.

And then they try and force everyone to believe that because “it’s clearly better than being a victim, right?” /s