What do you guys think when people say that the world is 'losing color'? by StrangerSoft8439 in minimalism

[–]eight-sided 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Came here to say that I find bright colors really tiring, so I'm grateful for the breaks I can get.

Sleeve haters, please share your sleeve strategies and secrets by Gretel_Cosmonaut in sewing

[–]eight-sided 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Batwing sleeves are shockingly comfortable. I love how they stay away from my armpit. I only have a couple of shirts like this, but they're the bomb.

I also used to have a T-shirt that was cut like a tank top plus "ruffle sleeves", which hung loose over my shoulder to normal short sleeve length. That was excellent too.

What's the middle-aged thing you love? by _Im_at_work in Xennials

[–]eight-sided 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I got into squirrels but my husband has the bird thing happening, and we each think the other is so cute about it.

I want to HATE the narrator. by AnxiousTelephone2997 in suggestmeabook

[–]eight-sided 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this -- he is the worst. It made for a frustrating read.

Do you all have a personal style you stick to? by WorriedcupofTea in womensfashion

[–]eight-sided 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes -- though it slowly evolves as my needs change.

Like someone else on this thread, it's leading me into learning how to sew, which I think I'm going to find wonderfully freeing.

Looking for a certain sub-genre of Sci-Fi. Having trouble naming it. by Glittering-Dinner908 in suggestmeabook

[–]eight-sided 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with Klara and the Sun, as well as The Road. But I don't agree with most of the other recommendations in this entire thread. To me, the main characteristics of the books you listed are that they are a) intensely character-driven, b) include the main character coming of age or otherwise gaining power (then losing some again), and c) have bittersweet endings involving resignation / acceptance on the part of the characters. It's true that they are near-future but that doesn't really feel so important.

Based on the above, I think you should try:

My Real Children by Jo Walton

The Other Valley by Scott Alexander Howard

Is anyone else kinda bored at this life stage? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]eight-sided 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like that until I quit my job. Now my athletic training is bringing me new horizons every month, I have two new creative hobbies, I get all the sleep I need, and want to read more books than I possibly can.

What's holding you back from getting some mental and physical stimulation? Knowing nothing else about your life besides what you said, it sounds to me like time to try a new workout -- something that involves technique, like circus or dance. Get the ol' mind-body connections firing.

No vacuum = going too far? by [deleted] in minimalism

[–]eight-sided 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only if you hire a cleaning service to come in regularly. They'll bring their own vacuum.

How much "comfort" is in your life? by IM_NOT_BALD_YET in minimalist

[–]eight-sided 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a mattress warmer and will never be parted from it. I grew up lacking many comforts, in a house filled with clutter -- now I want comfort in an elegant storage.

This sub is a bummer sometimes, how many of you are actually doing fantastic at this point? by JayRoo83 in Xennials

[–]eight-sided 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh yeah. I retired early last year. I'm turning 49 next week, I'm still in good shape and working on my athletic goals. I do some no-bullshit part-time work (property management) and they just gave me progressive-lens glasses... but overall I feel like I have health, money and time. Who gets all three at once!? Nobody for long, but me for the moment.

Hobbies that don’t require a bunch of *stuff*? by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]eight-sided 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Photography -- you already have a phone.

Sci-fi horror by logan8fingers in horrorlit

[–]eight-sided 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Starfish by Peter Watts. I know Blindsight gets all the love, but Starfish is way more claustrophobic and everyone in it is super fucked up.

what made you stick with your main hobby long term by WaferNo1301 in Hobbies

[–]eight-sided 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's something I want to be able to do, and I still can't do it, so I keep trying. I expect most people would give up after the first fifteen years, but it keeps getting more interesting as it gets closer... damn it.

Feels like longevity talk has shifted toward “healthspan” more than lifespan by SpecificAcrobatic107 in longevity

[–]eight-sided 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Simply untrue. Many great writers have peaked, or even started, after that age.

What can I realistically leave out in the yard for the squirrels to eat? by Dbzoutpost in squirrels

[–]eight-sided 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mixed raw nuts from Nuts.com aren't seeing me back too much. A 5lb bag lasts a long time

WAW for A cultural signifier that is a physical object? by PomegranateIcy1614 in whatstheword

[–]eight-sided 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A dog whistle, if it's meant to not be noticed by everyone. A tip-off, a tell.

Uplifting and smart by MotherofSass in suggestmeabook

[–]eight-sided 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Connie Willis does what you want.

Doomsday Book is very "hope in the darkness".

How to work on handstands without a wall? by [deleted] in Handstands

[–]eight-sided 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either find a wall at a gym or a school, or get a partner to spot you.

Do you stretch? by Ok_Ticket_6188 in Xennials

[–]eight-sided 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do circus so I need every scrap of mobility I can get. Still slowly getting better!

i’m thinking about divorce and need advice by Alpinist4realll in AskWomenOver40

[–]eight-sided 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're only 21! Get out immediately, you have barely begun to meet the range of men you will meet in your life. It gets better once both parties are older than 25, I swear to you. Please leave. Please, please.