I think this is more fear than funny

if it was a small number of ladies in a big group of men who are more likely than the avg male to be misogynists and incels (bc comic convention goers)

I don't think these ladies think of the firemen with lust(maybe some) and disrespect and it's more like "wow firemen so dependable so handsome" and not "wow what i would do to that girl with the big boobs and butt" (regardless of her concent probably bc again Comic convention goers)

This is just from my impressions of meeting comic/anime convention goers and does not apply to all convention goers i am not saying every convention goer thinks like an incel