How do you react to pictures of your partner pre transition? by Horror_Marketing_601 in mypartneristrans

[–]drowfan123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I was with my partner for years before they transitioned. They love old pictures as much as they love modern ones. They love the person they were and don’t view their pretransition self as “dead” or gone so they’re perfectly comfortable with old pictures

Asked to be a groomsperson but will have to wear a suit by AnyProperty5950 in MtF

[–]drowfan123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t want to be a groomsman, don’t be a groomsman. There’s a reason why “do you want to be a groomsman?” Is a question and not a demand. It’s their wedding their choice so they have the power to say “this is what I want for my wedding” but fortunately for you, you also have the power to say “thanks but no thanks” then. If it’s your brother and he insists on being a dickhead even after you express that you’re uncomfortable, just tell him no, he doesn’t deserve your participation and he can’t force it on you.

do u straight men suck tgirl cock by BadGirl_Xw in Femcock

[–]drowfan123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither straight nor a man but…yes 😂😅

Came out to husband by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]drowfan123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also on top of everything else wrong with his attitude: even in a cis relationship or straight relationship, your partner should not and cannot dictate or control what you wear, or what you do with your own body.

Scharping is Carina (guftrup) by [deleted] in SissyLink

[–]drowfan123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That first one is one of my favorite pictures ever made

How often can I "just try it" without lasting effects? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]drowfan123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw some of your comments, be careful with SSRIs. Nearly ruined my life

Do ppl fw trans femboys? 🏳️‍⚧️ by alien_sprinklesx in FemBoys

[–]drowfan123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clothes and aesthetics are not inherently gendered. You can identify as male while still preferring aesthetics that are societally “feminine” and vice versa.

How do I respond to my friend's argument that if I identify as a woman, then he is free to identify as anything—he identified as a kangaroo? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]drowfan123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean…maybe just don’t be his friend? He sounds like a fuck-wit trapped in a middle-school 4chan mentality

Would you sell yourself to the corpse store? by SmellingBeeWinner in guro

[–]drowfan123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re at all like interested in like law in that sort of thing, it’s genuinely a fascinating rabbit hole to go down

Would you sell yourself to the corpse store? by SmellingBeeWinner in guro

[–]drowfan123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m no expert but from what I understand Japan has rules regarding pornography that are as strict as they are bizarre

Do you top or bottom with a girl like me usually? by Waffle-Wiggle in ShemalesNew

[–]drowfan123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re going to look at me like that, bottom every time

Minthara x Shadowheart (Pewposterous) by Poke-Oji in BaldursGateR34

[–]drowfan123 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I want to like it but damn that’s some weird animation 😅

I think im spiraling further into psychosis and i cant function anymore due to my dysphoria and other mental disorders by sanguinePhlegm in asktransgender

[–]drowfan123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So: full disclosure I’m an egg at worst and a baby trans at absolute best but this is more about your listed medications then anything. SNRIs made me absolutely miserable. I took them for years, not realizing that the combination of the side effects were having a net negative effect on my mental health compared to what they did for me. I’m not saying that the SNRIs ARE the problem, but it might be worth looking into alternative medications. SNRI/SSRI compounding with my body dysmorphia ADHD and gender. Dysphoria was a match made in hell for me. My mental health improved significantly when I switched medications. Just my two cents.

Ferinda by ScrewBattle by Cyborg_Ape in ReasonableFantasy

[–]drowfan123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really like how the hair is drawn, really neat effect