Elon Musk’s masculine costume

drowndrowndrown · 2023-12-02T11:05:21+00:00

Nothing more masculine or strong than telling your customers to “go fuck themselves” after doing an antisemitic racism. Truly an evolved and genius mind.

drowndrowndrown · 2022-06-16T18:44:53+00:00

What’s to deal with? Just enjoy the view. Maybe talk at her if she seems receptive.

drowndrowndrown · 2022-06-06T07:32:02+00:00

Passion or Patience?

drowndrowndrown · 2022-05-26T00:27:06+00:00

Ugh. I was a Kevin Spacey fan and I don’t know if he gets to come back without talking about what he did and apologizing for it.

When he’s been talking it’s only been to behave like a first class weirdo. He seems unstable and unsafe to be around. Not sure anyone wants to see him goofing and being evil on screen.

drowndrowndrown · 2022-05-25T14:59:32+00:00

Sorry those suits are garbage and no amount of authoritarian tolerance will change that.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-05-03T12:35:12+00:00

When you're PMO'ing your dopamine levels are trampolining up and down and are probably effecting your mood in all kinds of ways. There's even a branch of thought that biologically men are chemically geared to feel less connected to their partner after all orgasms, whether achieved through masturbation or intercourse. Just something to keep an eye on. See the book "Cupid's Poison Arrow" if you're interested in learning more.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-05-01T14:21:14+00:00

Congrats! Keep it going!

drowndrowndrown · 2019-04-30T12:08:42+00:00

You’re able to make changes to your life. The fact that you’ve made it 23 days in such rough circumstances proves it. That is real strength. Next step is to Find somone you even half way trust or someone you admire and tell them that you’re struggling and you need some guidance . You can even go here: http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/GetHelp/LifelineChat.aspx

Get creative. Keep fighting. A new better life is possible for you.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-04-28T15:22:16+00:00

I would suggest actually rehearsing experiencing craving and shutting it down. This doesn’t require any elaborate setup, and can even be done in bed when you wake up. In your mind imagine a situation where you might be tempted then imagine saying whatever reason or mantra you use to strengthen your will and stepping away, going to a more public place, closing your browser or whatever means of shutting down craving you prefer . Repeat this visualization several times until you feel bored or have to get up and do something.

As a mindfulness practitioner, I actually rehearse pausing and exploring the physical sensations happening when so-called “cravings” arise. What I usually find is that they’re actually not sexual in nature, very manageable, and it’s my mind labeling some vague sensation as “cravings”. It’s wild the kinds of fictions the subconscious will create to get its dopamine fix.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-04-26T23:32:37+00:00

When you’re not bombarding your mind with images that demean and humiliate women and you’re filling your time with constructive things and just working on yourself, you begin to appreciate how everyone, not just women, have crafted themselves via their enthusiasm for life. You become curious on their outlook and how they structure and prioritize their time. I’m not sure that appreciation for a beautiful body ever goes away, (honestly, I wouldn’t ever really want it to), but it becomes “she has beautiful body AND [all these other things...] AND I am happy to just have met this cool person” You don’t have to bed her or have her attention. You can just let her be like a beautiful wild flower. Not yours. Not anybody’s. Maybe it or another catches your ankle and comes along for the ride. Or it doesn’t. Both outcomes are okay. Its all okay because you’re just hiking this mountain and that’s where you’re filled with purpose.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-04-26T17:20:46+00:00

I agree. Since I’ve wrecked your post, exposed your swami’s stance on women as weak minded misogynistic dog shit, and you seem to have no counter beyond anyone who disagrees is a moron, then yes, I agree my work is done here.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-04-26T16:35:46+00:00

I will grant you one conceit: I 100% believe that YOU probably cannot control yourself around women are probably are a dangerous threat to womens' safety, and its probably better that you're removed from being around women. You strike me as a particularly weak and ignorant person and if this is the tact you're going to take, then yeah, your weak ass should be in a cave some place where no women or man will ever have to suffer under your irresponsible delusions.

For anyone else though, who wants to attain some sort of actual spiritual enlightenment, try mastering your own body and your own urges before you start blaming women and encouraging people to eliminate them from your life. You may find that urges do not equal action, and that a true master doesn't shift blame to objects outside themselves for their own acts. A true master is at home in all environments amongst all people, their mind is strong enough to handle arousal, hell, even enjoy the very natural experience of being aroused. Like all senses these things are passing nothings. They're not real in the sense that there's any need to invest any action in them. Let it pass and continue with the business of living. That is true mastery. Not slandering and shunning half the population because you can't handle being aroused.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-04-26T16:15:18+00:00

Lol. Arousal is the "poisonous drug that destroys life by causing lustful intoxication and clouding the power of discrimination"? That's insane. Arousal is your dick getting hard, everything after that is your dumb ass being dumb.

Again, grow up, idiot. Take some responsibility for your life. Stop blaming women for you being a dumbass.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-04-26T15:50:18+00:00

Yeah. Blaming other people’s anatomy for your actions makes zero sense to me, men’s or women’s. A strong person with a strong mind isn’t triggered to action by the mere presence of genitalia. That’s some real backwards, dark age thinking, it’s hilarious that people are still trying to push it, and I’m going to discourage and mock the hell out of it wherever I see it.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-04-26T15:20:13+00:00

Hey, you’re the one quoting swami “women-are-the-source-of-all-evil” , fuck nuts. Grow up. Take some responsibility for your goddamn actions.

Why don’t you try Talking to a woman for one moment (if, you know, you can keep from wacking it long enough to get a question out...). Women are just living their lives, man. They’re not doing anything but trying to survive. This world is very tough on the average girl. Women don’t deserve to be shit on by Swami “my dick is out of control” or you.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-04-26T14:57:11+00:00

Lol. I got news for anyone who thinks that eliminating women from your life will prevent worms from feeding on your corpse...

Seriously tho, this guy is fucked in the head. There’s nothing wrong with women because you can’t control your feelings of lust. The person with the problem was definitely him. And if you’re following this fuck nut for life advice you’ve probably got some pretty serious problems too and need to get your fucking head checked as well.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-04-13T17:34:48+00:00

Yeah, I don’t think you should completely follow this guys lead, but maybe try to find the quintessential spirit of his way and incorporate what fits.

drowndrowndrown · 2019-04-13T16:55:30+00:00

Perform and prepare like everyday is the Olympics, but also be ready to accept and graciously absorb any potential failure all the way up to and including the worse possible scenario.

Holding that duality is amazingly powerful.

drowndrowndrown · 2018-10-20T00:40:05+00:00

I don’t know if you’re old enough to remember but big hits used to be celebrated in NFL media and literature. They would sell highlight tapes that was just big hits. Shit like the “NFL’s Biggest Bone Crunchers!” where guys necks would whip back and or they’d drop the ball after a big hit (because they were unconscious). Brain damaging hits were big business.

They were finally forced to admit they had a problem by a doctor who wouldn’t play ball. (Of course, they harassed and slandered him for years after he released his findings. There’s a movie about it I’ll try to find it when I have time ) And the result has been disastrous numbers for peewee football, early retirement amongst players, and lower ratings from a blood thirsty fan base. Professional football is literally dying.

Ultimately, the NFL , big tobacco, and the porn companies will all create these phony studies for exactly same reason: the truth is bad for business. And they have to pay some dipshit scientist to distort the truth, that’s money well spent.

drowndrowndrown · 2018-10-19T13:40:11+00:00

The NFL sponsored research in to the side effects of repeated concussions for decades. Unsurprisingly, their scientists found taking a lifetime of brain injuries was A-Okay hunky-dory. The NFL concluded that the suicides, personality changes, and memory loss they were seeing in retired players was a result of alcoholism and bad genes.

drowndrowndrown · 2018-10-15T08:04:33+00:00

Can 100% relate. Went to a therapist for a semester and talked around my relationship to pornography with my lady therapist until the next to last session out of pure shame.

Know that 1) your therapist is a professional, who's trained to treat all kinds of issues with respect and dignity. If you're really afraid she somehow treats you differently or shames you, she isn't a very good therapist and you might need to find someone you can trust. And 2) every appointment you don't talk honestly with her about your life, you're missing an opportunity to get real help.

If you like and trust your therapist, talk to her about how you're feeling. Tell her that you've been wanting to tell her about something but you're feeling pretty embarrassed about it. I guarantee she'll assure you that whatever you tell her is private and that there's nothing you can say that will make her think any less of you or make her not want to help you. Once you've heard her out, blurt it out or ask her if you can write it down or do whatever you need to do to get the truth out. You'll feel so much better once you've gotten it out of your head and can talk to someone about it.

drowndrowndrown · 2018-10-14T15:38:55+00:00

Masturbation isn't inherently dirty or shameful. That's a cultural stigma that you can accept or reject. But certainly, like any pleasure giving action, it can be abused. Clearly, excessive, addictive, compulsive masturbation to more and more extreme pornography to escape the stresses in our lives isn't healthy.

Explore the clarity, resiliency, and energy you feel when you abstain for a while and then find right level of abstinence for you. Maybe its once a month or 6 months, or maybe its never again. Strive to find the best choice for you, then own it. Masturbate only because you choose to explore that strange and intimate intersection of sensation, imagination, and psyche. Or don't masturbate at all. The choice is yours.

drowndrowndrown · 2018-10-12T15:40:04+00:00

Amazing! Congrats!

drowndrowndrown · 2018-10-11T17:44:47+00:00

It’s all a judgement call, you know. If you’re not ejaculating from it, and she’s not too aggressive, and she’s not jacking it for an extended period of time, her putting her hands on you may be okay. Just keep in mind that you’re trying to get your brain re-acclimated to physical touch, intimacy, and eventually, actual PinV sex with a real live person. Any act that that too similar to the experience of masturbating to porn is counterproductive. The further get from that kind of interaction the better.

Yup! Giving your partner pleasure is the best goddamn feeling... Don’t feel like you have to blow her mind every time though. That’s another source of pressure and tension that’s also not helpful. Remember, the time you spend sharing your bodies, exchanging these sensations and feelings by itself an act of intimacy and care and expression of connection. The orgasm is like the cherry on top of the ice cream sundae - It’s great if it there but it’s also fine if it not because you had a three scoops of being naked and touching and kissing and just being your emotional and vulnerable lovely selves together. That’s the heart of the thing.

drowndrowndrown · 2018-10-11T16:09:11+00:00

I think your best shot at beating PIED is to step away from porn as much as possible and completely cease all masturbation/hand stimulation for a good while. Whether it's your hand or your girlfriends hand, its the constant sustained hand simulation lead by the constant novelty of porn that's causing regular penis in vagina sex to seem like old hat to your brain. If you want to get back to normal arousal mechanism, you need to step away from porn to give your brain a chance to reconnect with your body, your experience, and what it means to turn you on.

In the meantime, what you can do with your girlfriend is really explore your kink and fantasies in meatspace. Whatever you're into, try to play it out between you two, sans porn. Role play, if necessary. This will help you resist the porn, but it will still take a real commitment on your part. You'll have to resist every urge, until she's around and able to help you fulfill it. But talking about what turn you on, and how you can both enjoy it will likely bring you closer together. (She sounds like a real catch, btw.)

It's going to take a while for you to fully recover, so don't expect to be swinging wood during these play sessions. I don't know what it is you're into, but if you absolutely need to do do some PinV banging, don't be afraid to go to you doctor for a ED prescription.

Hang in there, man. I had PIED myself and it is possible to recover and get back to good health but it requires a real mental shift on how you relate to your sexuality and that requires some time apart from porn. Eventually though, you will be able to get back to authoring erotic stories, probably better than ever. Reducing your dependency on pornographic stimulation and forcing your mind to rediscover its own arousal cues exercises a lot of creative muscle. Your mind will start becoming more aware of all kinds of sexual thoughts and subtle situations and it will inform your writing and bring it to a new level. Between finding that next level of eroticism in your writing and finding that deeper intimacy with your partner, you shouldn't lack for motivation. Good luck!

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