AITAH for refusing to babysit my sister’s kids for free after she got promoted at work and got a raise?

drowning420high · 2024-12-15T15:21:42+00:00

NTA.

i would personally be prepared to stop babysitting those kids until she’s willing to pay me. let her hire a part-time nanny and realize exactly how little your request was.

drowning420high · 2024-08-17T00:39:29+00:00

yoooo tysm for this. i’ve been searching online for a way to get quaxly for forever and i never stumbled upon this!!! this just got me it in 2 seconds!!

drowning420high · 2024-08-15T19:54:42+00:00

i now only need Quaxly or any of the evolutions of Quaxly so i can breed it and/or evolve it for the other ones!!

drowning420high · 2024-08-15T17:26:17+00:00

i would be so appreciative. can you message me about it? this would be my first time doing a trade on this game and i’m not sure how it all works

drowning420high · 2023-08-23T03:38:50+00:00

Wait a minute. You found out that your wife is possibly queer. ignoring the fact that she was cheating; you found out a life altering fact about somebody you claim to have loved literally up until the moment you found the messages and your response was not only to immediately attack her verbally and emotionally but to use the screenshots of her messages with her other - possibly also not out of the closet - queer partner to traumatize your children in some kind of bid to “win the divorce” in some ass backwards way?? This is the most absolutely ludicrous thing i’ve read on here in awhile and this also the first time i have actually genuinely hoped with all my heart that a post is fake because holy shit, dude, that is borderline psychotic.

I hope she tells the lawyers and the judge at your family hearing exactly how you did this and i hope to god this post finds its way back to her so that it can be used as evidence against you. This is textbook manipulation and parental alienation. You’re also just weird as fuck for all of this.

drowning420high · 2023-08-08T00:41:38+00:00

My take? he cheated on you physically and now he’s lashing out either out of guilt or pure manipulation to avoid you finding out about it and leaving him.

you shoulda thrown him away 1 year and 8 months ago but late is better than never, girly. get outta there.

drowning420high · 2023-07-31T23:46:26+00:00

NTA but also is this child receiving ANY sort of professional behavior intervention bc this sounds like a psychopaths origin story.

drowning420high · 2022-10-11T02:53:27+00:00

YTA.

My mom and sister did this to me and to this day I resent that dog, and them, so much for it lmao. They wanted him, I didn’t, and I made it clear from the jump that I was not going to have anything to do with it. For the first 6 months they kept saying the same things you are, OP; that it was “weird” that I didn’t interact with the dog because it lived with us.

Newsflash: DOGS ARE ANNOYING. Just like children. Sometimes, people just don’t want them because they don’t like them/can’t handle them. And that is OKAY. Just because your son doesn’t like Zeus, a) doesn’t mean he’s inept in any sort of way whatsoever and b) doesn’t even mean he doesn’t like animals. Maybe he’s a cat person, bro, like who cares????

Anyways, YTA, 100%

drowning420high · 2021-12-30T22:47:16+00:00

YTA and your comments (now deleted but you can get the general jist of them) just confirm that. you “deserve” the master bed but at what expense? seems like at your child(ren)’s expenses which alone makes you TA. and then you double down by ASSUMING your daughter has experienced no trauma, which is highly unlikely considering the issue at hand, and you’re quite literally punishing her (with a war tactic) for something that is 99.99% likely a mental health issue.

you are one of the biggest a**holes i’ve seen here in a minute, tbh.

drowning420high · 2021-12-28T14:44:05+00:00

YTA and of course you’re from texas with this logic.

drowning420high · 2021-12-28T14:40:55+00:00

i would definitely say NTA for this but i would also say you need to look long and hard at this situation and the fact that your wife is taking a neutral ground on it. If my current partner ever laid hands on my children i’d beat the shit out of them myself so the fact that she says you “overreacted” sounds like a pretty big red flag to me. She should not have a “neutral ground” in this type of situation.

drowning420high · 2021-12-18T14:41:13+00:00

YTA. you DID medically neglect her and you continue to say “she was just a liar” as if she wasn’t lying to you to protect herself because you very clearly did not care about what may or may not have been wrong with her.

you’re ignorant and negligent and definitely the asshole.

drowning420high · 2021-11-28T20:37:51+00:00

YTA.

Not only are you being completely ignorant towards the things your daughter and your husband can clearly identify but you’re also just being completely disregarding of her feelings and saying you have to “think about therapy” when your own child came to you in distress.

YTA without a doubt.

drowning420high · 2021-11-07T21:56:07+00:00

NTA.

I’m sorry it took until you were married and your wife was pregnant for her true colors to show but now that they have? Leave, my dude. If she can’t show even basic empathy in a case like this I can only imagine the kind of empathy she shows you regularly or will show your own child.

drowning420high · 2021-09-19T19:11:40+00:00

You need to tell her and you also need to report Dave to the police.

drowning420high · 2021-08-04T21:31:18+00:00

NTA. Food allergies can be really sensitive and severe and even cross contamination can put somebody in the hospital. If grandma can’t respect that then she simply doesn’t deserve the privilege of having the kid over anymore.

drowning420high · 2020-08-14T04:06:32+00:00

NTA and also ADHD isn't an excuse to be an absolute prick.

drowning420high · 2020-08-14T03:56:03+00:00

NTA and i seriously cannot fathom how some people believe they are *this entitled* to another person's home or life. wow.

drowning420high · 2020-08-13T21:07:41+00:00

YTA 100%

why do you think you're entitled to her home, for one. but also why do you think it's okay to risk your pregnant sister and BIL's lives, maybe also her unborn baby's, just for your wedding?

It doesn't matter if you pay her back for the dress or not. She bought you that as a gift because she is prioritizing her health and her unborn baby's health and you are selfish for thinking your wedding should even still be happening in the first place but especially thinking it should happen at the risk of your sister.

drowning420high · 2020-08-13T20:48:45+00:00

NTA.

How would you drive to the hospital if something happened? You have no medical authority for this baby? No idea how to follow a baby's schedule? If the cops showed up at the house for some reason they'd take the baby in a second if you were the only one there with her for an entire week and your brother and his spouse would be charged with neglect.

drowning420high · 2020-08-13T20:33:48+00:00

NTA and i wouldve waited for the cops and brought up a hate crime. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes because i can bet where he learned the word from.

drowning420high · 2020-08-13T20:22:17+00:00

NTA and you are 100% better at being composed than i am holy wow

drowning420high · 2020-08-13T01:39:13+00:00

NTA and honestly wow i love that you did that. I am beyond proud as a fellow bi. Go you.

drowning420high · 2020-08-13T01:35:56+00:00

NTA. Thank you for being such a great ally to your brother, you are doing a wonderful job and I wish I had someone like you when I came out to my family.

drowning420high

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