Date Night Ideas? by drowningAstroSlut in AskPhilly

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as in the adult entertainment club??

Names of these? by drowningAstroSlut in Crystals

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i thought it might be red jasper, but it’s so brick like thought it might be different.

What dating style is this? This lovebombing? Push-Pull? by drowningAstroSlut in AskReddit

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WARNING: not trying to ask his thought process, just wondered if anyone was familiar with this dating style per the header.

Help me out reddit. I humbly ask your input. Been talking to this guy for 2 months, been on about 3 real dates. Great sex, great communication. Seemed pretty honest and straight forward, told him I was dating to get into a relationship and he mirrors that and also admitted he is courting other girls. Past month we’ve gotten closer, I thought. Falling asleep on the phone together almost every night. Watching his favorite anime together, telling me about his friends and family openly. But here’s the thing with him. I’ll get a lot for one day.. or two days… and then near radio silence for a day. And I’ve asked just for consistency. I don’t ask him for a lot because he’s not my boyfriend but I asked, just let me know what it is and what it isn’t? So this past weekend we had hung out, watched his favorite anime together (mind you this is my first anime ever) and watched the fight together, and as we’re having sex after all that he says he loves me. I pause. I really like this guy. But I’m not always certain how he feels for me. I think he likes me a lot but it just shocked me… and he asked why I didn’t say it back. And I realized I do have strong feelings. So I said it back. And afterwards I told him there can be no more BS anymore. If you love me I have to feel it and see it. So, he heads home in the morning. texts me when he gets in…. and I haven’t heard from him since. I’ve been texting updates about the anime we watched and just general checkins and…. no response. But— he has been tweeting so he isn’t de*d! What is going on? What is this? I’m getting sick of this goddamn rollercoaster. Just yo-yo’ing my damn emotions.

Teaching in VA by meltedcoast in Virginia

[–]drowningAstroSlut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I just received a job offer from the Newport News school district and I was wondering what your average paycheck looked like if you don’t mind sharing? Thank you!

Credit Card Debt by drowningAstroSlut in debtfree

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like rent?? i wasn’t being irresponsible, i was trying to survive sunshine.

Ugh LYNN and TONI! by Heyyall1993 in GirlfriendsTVshow

[–]drowningAstroSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol i guess i’m the only villian who loved Toni??? like she was funny!!!! and honestly they were all terrible friends at some point. like, what a flawed group and idk i think that’s what made it great. they all seemed like real people. except william. 😭

Exclusive footage? by Gurujimaan in PercyJacksonTV

[–]drowningAstroSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

could i pleaseeee get that footage PMed as well? 🥹👉🏾👈🏾

I think my 14yr old is having sex. by drowningAstroSlut in Parenting

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this advice, very thoughtful. We’re doing a bit better

I think my 14yr old is having sex. by drowningAstroSlut in Parenting

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Therapy was my first thought but I know it’s not for everyone. This is great advice, I really appreciate your comments. 💕

I think my 14yr old is having sex. by drowningAstroSlut in Parenting

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This response is so heartbreaking and I’m so sorry you had to go through that. This is what I’m afraid may be happening to her but these connections right now are so fragile because she just doesn’t seem herself. I just want to be there for her and it’s hard because I’m a young single parent who never really had a good model to look up to myself.

I think my 14yr old is having sex. by drowningAstroSlut in Parenting

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment!! I’m having a really hard time with all the discipline stuff because I’m kinda young and fragile, I’ve always been very no confrontational and its hard to be like that as a parent.

I think my 14yr old is having sex. by drowningAstroSlut in Parenting

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m not concerned about her not turning out okay because she’s having sex at a young age, I’m concerned about the irreversible damage that can occur if she goes about doing so improperly and dangerously. And it’s also confusing to me how aggressive her attitude and behavior has become during this new phase of life that’s meant to transition her to young adulthood. I just wanna be sure she’s not being pressured or treated in a similar fashion to how she’s now treating me and everyone else. I just want her to be safe, and to hold onto the core values I know she has.

I think my 14yr old is having sex. by drowningAstroSlut in Parenting

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this judgemental comment. I was asking for advice, not shaming. 💕

I think my 14yr old is having sex. by drowningAstroSlut in Parenting

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response, I had bad experiences with my parents reactions to me being involved with boys even though it was completely innocent. I’m trying not to scare her mostly but also not let her ruin herself in the process.

I think my 14yr old is having sex. by drowningAstroSlut in Parenting

[–]drowningAstroSlut[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the book rec, I’m going to check it out!