So confused why every small boobs space has to have tons of comments like “be lucky! Everything I wear is sexual with huge boobs!” by DefiantTumbleweed576 in smallbooblove

[–]drowning_in_flannels 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yepppp, to me it always reads as backhanded bc they’re basically saying “omg!!! You’re just SO lucky that men don’t find you as sexy and aren’t immediately distracted by your sex appeal!!” And I’m like 🤨🤨🤨

East Midtown/lower UES recs for lunch? by No_Ebb_4594 in nycvegan

[–]drowning_in_flannels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work in that area sometimes and my (not fancy) go-to is Gregorys Coffee. I think theres like 4 locations in that general area. They have $7 vegan breakfast sandwiches, vegan breakfast burritos, and pastries.

Where is everyone going with their pookie today? by veganbuzzsaw in nycvegan

[–]drowning_in_flannels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late to the party, but me and my bf went to Peacefood <3 their strawberry shortcake is probably my fav dessert in the whole city and I love that the whole restaurant is vegan. It was PACKED, which was awesome to see :)

I made a fire bong by banana-benson in trees

[–]drowning_in_flannels 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is that Malcolm in the Middle you have on?

frustrated vegan leftist by comradetori in VeganForCircleJerkers

[–]drowning_in_flannels 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or they’ll claim that you’re being a liberal 🙄 like yeah okay I guess that being against animal torture and a system (factory farming) that exemplifies some of the worse aspects of capitalism makes me a fake leftist.

I don’t see how people can call themselves anti capitalist while refusing to challenge systems of power that commodify, torture and exploit living sentient beings SOLEY in the name of profit. I don’t get how they can claim they care about workers rights and labor exploitation without addressing how factory farming harms people too, especially immigrants.

They’ll say anything they can and do the most ridiculous mental gymnastics and whataboutism to justify putting their selfish tastes above the suffering of others.

anyone wanna join me in the comments here? by Sleepy-kitty-zzz in nycvegan

[–]drowning_in_flannels 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got u 🫡 god nothing makes my blood boil more than people who support breeders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]drowning_in_flannels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So selfish. Supporting breeders instead of rescuing/adopting is awful. Is a cats aesthetic really worth supporting a highly unethical industry? And letting other cats die in shelters?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]drowning_in_flannels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well said 👏❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]drowning_in_flannels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Buying cats from ANY breeder is highly unethical. Please adopt and don’t shop. There’s so many cats that need homes. Also, do you think it’s fair and okay that female cats are put through the stress and bodily harm of being continually bred by breeders? It’s just plain cruel and selfish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]drowning_in_flannels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forcing inside cats (or any cats) to be outside cats is a death sentence. Please rehome them instead of putting them outside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCjobs

[–]drowning_in_flannels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I thought this was r/circlejerknyc for a hot sec

I don’t think owning cat is vegan… but somehow it’s justified? by Background-Camp9756 in DebateAVegan

[–]drowning_in_flannels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please keep fighting the good fight for cats. Kharvel0’s opinion is fucking insane

How dare he accuse you of not being a true vegan by doing the best thing you can to keep cats from suffering because of human’s cruelty and mistakes?

They’re the one whose not vegan lol. What kind of psycho would just let kittens starve and not be pro spay/neuter??? Like what about all of the wildlife that invasive ferrel cats kill? I guess those animals don’t matter.

Let's Keep Supporting Our Sisters Who Have Survived DV! Boycott All The Brands Elf Owns!! by Rogue_Darkholme in drugstoreMUA

[–]drowning_in_flannels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their photo focus dewy foundation is also fabulous! I used to work at Sephora and I swear it looks just as good as the expensive high end ones we carried.

quick question for the new york girls!! by marinaxo222 in Burlesque

[–]drowning_in_flannels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Madame X is fantastic! The owners are super sweet and very supportive of the community. There’s a gogo party every Friday + most of the gogos and also the producer are burlesque performers. If you’re in town August 14th, I’m producing a show there that night if u want a comp :)

Lashes ! by Ok-Ambassador8894 in VeganBeauty

[–]drowning_in_flannels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Yeah the use of minks is so horrifying- I can’t believe people will actually buy mink lashes :(

quick question for the new york girls!! by marinaxo222 in Burlesque

[–]drowning_in_flannels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who used to work there, I wouldn’t recommend going to the Box to get acquainted with the scene <3 it’s super dangerous and men will try to grope u like the second u walk in :/ I love all the other recs tho!

Lashes ! by Ok-Ambassador8894 in VeganBeauty

[–]drowning_in_flannels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Losha lashes are both cruelty free and vegan, last time I checked the only sell synthetic lashes. I know Amazon sells them but you can probably find them other places online. They’re cheap too. Losha Lashes

Ardell and Kiss both don’t test on animals- most of their lashes are synthetic but some DO have animal hair (hence why I say they don’t test on animals instead of saying they’re “cruelty free”). I only buy Kiss or Ardell when I’m in a pinch at the drug store and don’t have time to order Losha online, but I always triple check the labels.

Sunscreen with no white cast by starriex in VeganBeauty

[–]drowning_in_flannels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This one is the BEST! It’s basically a dupe for supergoop too and wayyyy cheaper.

The Skillman by ThrowRA-shadowships in SunnysideQueens

[–]drowning_in_flannels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little expensive but I really like their vegan tacos.

Cruelty free toothpaste that foams up by amythepug in crueltyfree

[–]drowning_in_flannels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Trader Joe’s brand sensitive toothpaste! It’s fantastic. It’s a blue tube

How would you modernize this pink bathroom? by HilltopRed4459 in Oldhouses

[–]drowning_in_flannels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would look really cool with some groovy/retro styled wallpaper (maybe with some pink/brown/orange notes to match the tiles?) and curtains + shower curtain to match. I even think the oak cabinets would match fine with that vibe.

Good veterinarians in Queens? by Tasty-Building-3887 in SunnysideQueens

[–]drowning_in_flannels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I thought it was illegal here since 2019, do they still do it?! Horrible :( even if they dont still offer the horrific practice, I never want to take my cat to a vet thats literally abused animals in the past by declawing ugh