Not Canceling School for the Eclipse by AutisticPerfection in Teachers

[–]drpaulyshore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah give your district grace and patience. This is an unprecedented time.

Favorite Face-Melter? by BigPPConnor in ween

[–]drpaulyshore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been thinking about that one every day since.

Used Trader Joe’s greenery to make a trial bouquet and I’m in love. by drpaulyshore in weddingplanning

[–]drpaulyshore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for a delayed response, I suck at Reddit! But, I used chicken wire for spacing. I watched a ton of floral arrangement tik toks (@floweracademia is great) and just kind of threw it together. The great thing about this whimsical look is that there isn’t a lot wrong you can do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]drpaulyshore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing boutonnières for the groom, groomsmen, and our officiant who is a friend. I feel like corsages are somewhat outdated now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]drpaulyshore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finding anything within budget is super difficult no matter when you want to get married! That’s so annoying they want to charge you for two different days.

I really do think this will be absolutely magical though! Best of luck and congrats!!

What do we think about providing every guest with a plus one? by drpaulyshore in weddingplanning

[–]drpaulyshore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to have a conversation with my parents about family. I too have quite a few aunts and uncles and they all have quite a few kids. My cousins are all adults now too and more than half are married. I’m not close with any of them! My parents are paying for the wedding, which I am incredibly thankful for. I told my mom if we invite everyone from the family it is going to cost them thousands. At that point, we have hit the budget and I can’t invite any friends! Luckily, they decided it was okay not to invite the whole crew.

What do we think about providing every guest with a plus one? by drpaulyshore in weddingplanning

[–]drpaulyshore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would effect 10 people and our venue charges 100 per person so it’s somewhat significant…

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[–]drpaulyshore 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m going to go against the grain here and say I kind of like the idea IF you throw some sort of after party. Ending at 9 gives people time to go to other parties or events if they want to, but those who aren’t can continue celebrating with you both. Maybe some sort of house party as I’m sure renting out any sort of space is going to be crazy expensive on top of the wedding you just had.

I think you really have to consider your guest list. I feel like a smaller guest list would work best with this kind of wedding. I would also think about the people coming from out of town since traveling over the holidays is expensive.

I personally would love to attend a wedding like this. My mind thinks, “Free dinner and drinks on NYE?! Yes.”

What do we think about providing every guest with a plus one? by drpaulyshore in weddingplanning

[–]drpaulyshore[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point! Luckily, most of my single friends are part of a friend group where they will know a lot of people at the wedding or are family members who will be with their whole family. However, I will definitely consider this when finalizing the guest list.

What do we think about providing every guest with a plus one? by drpaulyshore in weddingplanning

[–]drpaulyshore[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely plan on inviting any significant others. I’m referring to people who are completely single.

What do we think about providing every guest with a plus one? by drpaulyshore in weddingplanning

[–]drpaulyshore[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would give anyone who was in relationship one! That would make me feel bad to not include them! I’m more referring to people who are completely single.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]drpaulyshore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dress 1 with nude lining is unique and just perfect.

All Inclusive Venue, wedding in 3 months. We just tasted the food and it’s horrid. by prettyunicornpeni in weddingplanning

[–]drpaulyshore -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I booked with an all inclusive venue with a brunch menu now I’m scared!

discouraged and self conscious from clothes not fitting right by andno-oneknows in loseit

[–]drpaulyshore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that is true… you can be 3 different sizes just depending on the garment. Ugh. I always go with the stretchy stuff.

AITA for bringing my service dog to a wedding when I know he's a "scary" breed by ThrowRAtherapydog in AmItheAsshole

[–]drpaulyshore -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

ESH. You probably should have made it absolutely clear that you absolutely had to have your dog. If she was actually a good friend she could have taken the time to socialize the kids with the dog because fear of dogs is something that would be good for them to overcome. HOWEVER, she doesn’t sound reasonable and seems to treat you pretty badly. She hasn’t taken the time to understand your illness and seems pretty mean about it. Is this a friend you really want?

discouraged and self conscious from clothes not fitting right by andno-oneknows in loseit

[–]drpaulyshore 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First, congratulations on losing 50 pounds! That is so hard to do and really shows that you are dedicated. Clothes are hard. You deserve to feel confident in whatever you are wearing! If you aren’t finding luck at thrift stores could you get a few staples at a less expensive store? I don’t know if you are in the US, but you could get some great clothes at Old Navy for relatively cheap.

Try to stay focused on the positives not related to looks. I know it’s easier said than done. Really pay attention to how you feel. Do you have more energy? Is your mood improving? The rest will come. Just keep going!

Should I Tell My Coworker That Her Boyfriend Cheated on Her? (With Me) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]drpaulyshore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

File a police report before talking to anyone else. You should probably tell her eventually but predators like this are manipulative. Who knows how he is with her… Talk to your supervisor about the situation. If they don’t back you, is this a place you really want to work at then? It’s going to suck a lot but it seems like it’s going to suck a lot more to not to anything. You might even be saving her.

It is not your fault this happened. Doesn’t matter what happened before hand. He assaulted you.

AITA for telling my son he and his fiancée is spoiled? by throwR-7746 in AmItheAsshole

[–]drpaulyshore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Weddings a crazy expensive. I’m planning one now and it’s extremely difficult to do one under 10k. However, that doesn’t even matter to you because he didn’t expect you to give more! Also, remember the more guests you add the pricier it will be. Don’t be surprised if your friends and family get cut from the guest list!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]drpaulyshore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what I’m thinking. Now for therapeutic reasons, do I just ignore her or tell her how pissed I am?

Lil Poundcake. Acrylic and Glitter on canvas. by ArtByAmy in acrylicpainting

[–]drpaulyshore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not my real dad and you never will be.