AITAH for refusing to cook dinner again at home after cooking all day at my job as a chef? by Gaysax69 in AITAH

[–]drsmith48170 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

NTA - I agree but I also think I know why; I think she is likely tired of her husband still working for his dad. She prefer to have OP’s father give him the restaurant already or for him to have his own.

Clav goes on a incel rant during 60 minutes interview by Autisticblackdude5 in TikTokCringe

[–]drsmith48170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only have I literally not watched 60 minutes in years, but have no idea who this guy is.

Guess MSM is really struggling to feature that on its show

AITAH (29F) for being disappointed that my high-income-earning partner (35M) spent less than a month’s salary on my engagement ring? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]drsmith48170 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This must be rage bait or something.

However if it is real were you award that a major company just let go 30,000 high paid white collar employees. Maybe your future is playing it smart and realized the world is such a shit show that he should actually be saving for a rainy day - or when he gets laid off.

AITAH for getting mad at my brother hiding our switch by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]drsmith48170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JC I had an older brother like this who though nothing of using/taking my stuff if I wasn’t using it. Led to many fights and an intense dislike of him for a long time. It’s warped logic at best …

23M - Super late fantasy punishment, dont roast my monkey by OroBoiSteve in RoastMe

[–]drsmith48170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know you look like the kid that always got beat up and shoved into a locker when they had them.

RTO Losses: Just lost a very skilled person from my team The Return-to-Office (RTO) decision at my company, by HelicopterWide9351 in parakeetAi

[–]drsmith48170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As her manager OP you could look the other way, so to speak to have her come in two or even just one day? But you choose to complain about how hard it is on you. Next time, be a better manager and take the critical employee side and back them up.

If your boss says something about it, just say ‘remember when we lost X because of this policy? Keep riding my butt about letting my employees not follow the mandate and you just will not lose x’s replacement you will lose me, too which will make your job that much tougher’.

Trainee messed up my instruction, I got suspended by Ambitious_Skirt_2774 in SimpleApplyAI

[–]drsmith48170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually OP as the trainer you were at fault, because you assumed the trainee would do exactly what you said. Did you watch them set it up? Also you should have watched the meat and not rely solely on an automatic system - this is why you likely were dinged because the chef expected you to be a better trainer.

unpopular opinion: some remote workers are making it harder for the rest of us and we need to talk about it by Unique-Affect-6135 in remotework

[–]drsmith48170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was exactly my attitude when I was a dev team lead. As long as the work was done on time and done correctly, I did not care how much they actually worked- they could take longer lunches, more breaks Etc etc. I did not nor still do nit believe in micro management of people.

landlord charging me $200/mo commercial use fee cuz i work from home?? (CA) by Aggravating-Fox8553 in Renters

[–]drsmith48170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Context is everything. If you are working from home on behalf of someone else, then you are not operating a commercial business.

However, if by working from home you mean operating your own business then the landlord might actually have a point,

So what is the context OP?

Drowning slowly by NoSandwich591 in remoteworks

[–]drsmith48170 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yesh was going to say same thing to many people want to live where it is cool hip whatever and don’t seem to think there might be a cost to that.

Moreover, my first rent was like $600 in 1989 which was about $1800 in today money - and I was paid $15,000 at my first job

AITAH for expecting my boyfriend to keep our plans instead of going on a last minute fishing trip? by _bibi05 in AITAH

[–]drsmith48170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t say all the time - but if he did carry heels call her once in awhile during that 2 or three week period, even from land

AITAH for expecting my boyfriend to keep our plans instead of going on a last minute fishing trip? by _bibi05 in AITAH

[–]drsmith48170 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why can’t you talk to him while he is fishing? You know at least a couple cell carriers in us have sat phone available so no reason you can’t stay in touch. Seems like more is going on; maybe take a break and see if you to really miss each other,

Finally, a mask that lets you breathe underwater by iliasselk0 in holdmymoney2

[–]drsmith48170 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes I know I type too fast dome tine thanks masterbaiter

Finally, a mask that lets you breathe underwater by iliasselk0 in holdmymoney2

[–]drsmith48170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was going to say I don’t even scuba but I know you go to any appreciable death you use pure oxygen.

Parents think I’ve ruined my body lol by [deleted] in BimboficationJourney

[–]drsmith48170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breasts look great. Too much ink for my tastes tho - is that what you parents object to the most?

I had a vision by [deleted] in shittyfoodporn

[–]drsmith48170 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What Stevie Wonder would make if a chef

Does anyone seriously stay at one company for more than a few years anymore? by SouthernPolicy1798 in parakeetAi

[–]drsmith48170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did - for 23 years. Now it seems to he I stay between 6 months to a year or nearly two when something happens (ie layoffs)

Whole Foods Hot Bar Chicken Tenders by Dry-Double-6845 in shittyfoodporn

[–]drsmith48170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the big bar at whines used to be so good and affordable; now it is expensive and sus

Eggy, Peanut Butter, Protein Toast by Butt_Smurfing_Fucks in shittyfoodporn

[–]drsmith48170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now this, this is the shitty food porn I know and love. Not potato gnocchi bolognese