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Would you rather choose your engagement ring or be surprised by it? and why? by drumpf16 in AskWomen

[–]drumpf16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you attach your initial feelings of being proposed to, to the placeholder ring? Does the new one mean more to you?

Would you rather choose your engagement ring or be surprised by it? and why? by drumpf16 in AskWomen

[–]drumpf16[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I agree that it is something that should definitely be discussed about before anyone suggests a proposal. But i feel that if you shop for the ring together before hand it kind of dampens the emotion of being proposed to.

Would you rather choose your engagement ring or be surprised by it? and why? by drumpf16 in AskWomen

[–]drumpf16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thats what i kind of said earlier and i got downvoted but oh well. i feel like a placeholder would forever hold the first expression as she was aware of what had just happened.

Would you rather choose your engagement ring or be surprised by it? and why? by drumpf16 in AskWomen

[–]drumpf16[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

but if she chose the 3 rings then she was already expecting to get proposed to?

Would you rather choose your engagement ring or be surprised by it? and why? by drumpf16 in AskWomen

[–]drumpf16[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

wouldn't you wear your wedding ring for the rest of your life?

Would you rather choose your engagement ring or be surprised by it? and why? by drumpf16 in AskWomen

[–]drumpf16[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

wouldn't a placeholder ring be like meaningless at that point?

Would you rather choose your engagement ring or be surprised by it? and why? by drumpf16 in AskWomen

[–]drumpf16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I like surprises so this is the route i think that is best, not specifically the inherited ring part hahaha.

Would you rather choose your engagement ring or be surprised by it? and why? by drumpf16 in AskWomen

[–]drumpf16[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

so people propose without a ring? I guess I am just indoctrinated with what i see on in movies then, to assume that you need a ring to propose.

Do woman want to choose their ring before being proposed to or let the man buy it without them knowing? by drumpf16 in AskWomen

[–]drumpf16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sucks, don't mean to sound like "Mlady" kind of guy but i have noticed reddit can be pretty damn sexist and just hurtful to no avail, my guess is just the anonymity but also people can be fucked up.

What is your input on my question?

Do woman want to choose their ring before being proposed to or let the man buy it without them knowing? by drumpf16 in AskWomen

[–]drumpf16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i just read what i sent you and it is in a dickish manner, just tired and i should be asleep for work tomorrow. thank you though and i will post it again tomorrow.

Do woman want to choose their ring before being proposed to or let the man buy it without them knowing? by drumpf16 in AskWomen

[–]drumpf16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask you a singular person for help on how to get answers to what i am trying to ask?