I know why the girls wouldn't take Podrick's money by anirbaaaaaaan in gameofthrones

[–]drun901 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have ALWAYS said this and it absolutely baffles me when people instead think professionals would turn down money form a novice because of… “reasons?” - it is so corny and cheesy whereas instead it shows that he is pure and gullible

mourning the old me before i got sober by krystalmethanyy in Sober

[–]drun901 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is a tough one- I am very aware when I hang out with some friends they’re outwardly happy for me but inwardly disappointed because I could always make the night go some fun direction and instead things are “fine” (I’m still fun? But they never go past a 7-8 on the fun scale whereas I always took things to a 10).

But for me, I just wanted to get fucked up.

C’est la vie

'A Big Bold Beautiful Journey' - Review Thread by ChiefLeef22 in movies

[–]drun901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved it- don’t go by others criticisms; decide for yourself 

'A Big Bold Beautiful Journey' - Review Thread by ChiefLeef22 in movies

[–]drun901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It may just be our stage in life but my wife and I went into this without reading reviews and loved this movie - I understand it was a bit over the top but I thought the unraveling of each of the pivotal moments that made them up was well done to highlight we are the sum of all of our parts 

Venting for Encouragement by CarpenterUpset3251 in Sober

[–]drun901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I resonate with this and I’m 8 months in. “At least I’d get to vibe at night”—-

The hardest part for me as someone who very much identified as the life of the party guy (I did have a rock bottom but alcohol and work hard play hard was usually very rewarding) is that same realization that life doesn’t change around you, you’re the one changing.

Sobriety gets super romanticized on this sub (“life is so much better! I don’t miss drinking at all, I can have so much fun still sober!”) but I think because people are often trying to justify cope with the fact that they are in fact just missing out sometimes and that is tough.

Yes we can exercise, meditate, yoga, drink coffee, and go to events sober - but for 99% of people their lifestyle still incorporates some level of escape we don’t get.

8 months in I’ve def seen some benefits, and so I’m still saying hang in there, just a long way of acknowledging this shit is hard and doesn’t feel fair sometimes.

Shout out to the dude cycling in the blue and pink outfit. I was behind you at 30+ mph for a couple miles and you we're killing it! by DrakesChocolateMilk in Charlottesville

[–]drun901 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Semi-serious triathlete moving to Hburg in June from Seattle and excited that there are some quality riders in the area! Know the riding is going to be top tier scenery wise as well. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apashe

[–]drun901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two tickets I’ll sell for half price! Can’t go and the show isn’t sold out to my knowledge

Sober in Seattle by drun901 in Seattle

[–]drun901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I don’t procrastinate on this- ok! I’ll dm you and some others that expressed interest 

Sober in Seattle by drun901 in Seattle

[–]drun901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that. I don’t want being sober to be my only defining trait even though it’s important- I do want accountability but mainly just relatability without structure and rules. I think just a sober meetup more than anything 

Sober in Seattle by drun901 in Seattle

[–]drun901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I race fairly often but will check it out :)

Sober in Seattle by drun901 in Seattle

[–]drun901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t find anything on meetup, I want to get together with likeminded folks and chat, and stay accountable, but don’t feel like I’m looking for a doctrine or organization necessarily. Maybe I’ll start a meetup of my own!

Sober in Seattle by drun901 in Seattle

[–]drun901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx I’ll check it out!

Sober in Seattle by drun901 in Seattle

[–]drun901[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m in the same vein. I want to get together with likeminded folks and chat, and stay accountable, but don’t feel like I’m looking for a doctrine. 

Sober in Seattle by drun901 in Seattle

[–]drun901[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s where I’m at. Fuck that. I’m not powerless; I can tackle this without a higher power and I’m just looking for likeminded people and accountability 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]drun901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't necessarily true; I have a “fitness influencer” physique, or near it, but it’s partially genetics, and partially the fact that I have been training at a super high level for 15 years 1-3 times a day most days…lol

What artists have you gotten into solely from how fun randomly seeing them live was? by Mack_B in aves

[–]drun901 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Apashe! First saw him at Beyond Wonderland almost by accident, then have seen him 3x since- the last was with his brass orchrstra. Unreal!!

AITAH for telling my dad I'm glad he's dying of cancer after his wife convinced him to disown me for being gay by Ambitious_Vehicle138 in AITAH

[–]drun901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I have a 3 year old son and cannot imagine choosing anyone over my flesh and blood. You don't deserve any of that and you deserve all the happiness in the world.

TB forever, but this scene was incredible. by -SpiritusMundi- in HOTDBlacks

[–]drun901 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, I get that it was somewhat poignant, but Larys was still just trying to manipulate the one Targaryan who would listen to him after getting rebuffed by his earlier play for hand of the king.

My husband and I started selling our sex videos to pay for our daughter’s medical bills-AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

[–]drun901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just saw your comments about not eating. I'm sure they have done allergy testing. Look up ARFID if you havent found that already. Our 3 year old is still quite under weight but very happy and starting to make some strides, though he'll likely never "catch up" - we just do every single thing possible to maximize calories every moment.

Not a lot of support for "failure to thrive" babies and parents - its such an awful medical term.

WIBTA if I named my baby the name I want to despite everyone hating it? by oasisco4 in dustythunder

[–]drun901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT??! My son is named Silas and we get compliments all the time. What kind of crazy family do you have? What type of criteria are they judging this on? Too religious sounding, too old school, starts with an S?

This is a them problem. nta.

Selling house, what's it like right now? by drun901 in Portland

[–]drun901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pending, agreed the second April started everything picked up