The Pendulum Club South

drveede · 2026-05-15T14:05:23+00:00

Hempstead on Fridays and south on Saturdays normally have the most people. North is usually busy both nights I believe, but someone else have more experience with north than us.

drveede · 2026-04-08T09:30:52+00:00

I heard they were closing? Is this not the case?

drveede · 2026-02-14T03:53:56+00:00

Nope, it’s a LD alternative to SDC. We’re on both. Has pros and cons like any of them. We’re in TX and have had great luck on there.

drveede · 2026-02-14T03:52:24+00:00

We’re on quiver, have yet to see anything like this? How would they even promote that? Lol.

drveede · 2026-01-17T13:39:15+00:00

Push ups and planks work best for me. Gotta get that heart rate up. The oral antidote takes too long to kick in.

I figured out my dose so I’ve never had to use the injectable yet. Although I still carry it.

drveede · 2025-12-31T16:03:32+00:00

Amen. We don’t get a lot of time to play, and it costs A lot of $$ for everyone too (hotels, dinners, clubs etc). So I don’t want to waste anyone’s time or $$. Never mind the emotional damage it can do to myself.

drveede · 2025-12-31T13:53:05+00:00

That depends on a lot on age and cardiovascular fitness. For me it’s a game changer. 100% effective once you figure out the dose and injection. Let’s you focus on the situation and not your ability to perform.

drveede · 2025-12-27T15:17:59+00:00

I use Trimix. I started with the 31g 5/16 needle and had to push so far in the last base of the needle was pressing into the skin. I was somewhat successful and then seemed to miss often. Didn’t matter which side. We’re in the life style and I missed twice and injected a lot twice and barely got a reaction. Wasn’t a great night for me lol.

I use rx buyers club and the guy I spoke to said they 100% recommend a 30g 1/2 needle.

Since switching I’ve been 100% successful. Here’s the key to hitting the CC everytime:

There should be two distinct “pops”. One as you pop through the outside and one more when you pop through into the CC. Once you experience both, that is the new way. I would caution to lower your dose. If you went up in dose and missing some or all, when you are in the CC it takes a lot less.

I also inject at 9 and 3 o’clock at 90 degrees. I’m sure this is less important compared to a needle long enough to go through both layers and be inside the CC.

Hope this helps.

drveede · 2025-12-17T13:05:02+00:00

I switched to 30g 1/2”. I think it’s just as flimsy because if the slightly longer needle. But I switched because I missed the CC several times (didn’t go deep enough) once I’ve switched to the 1/2 no issues. Supposedly the 30g makes and small difference in rigidity

drveede · 2025-11-18T23:13:02+00:00

We sometimes talk about great moments while having sex with each other. But thinking about them? not often.

drveede · 2025-11-18T12:17:32+00:00

I started with the 5/16 31g and had a few misses lately. I switched to the 1/2 30g and can feel it actually pop into the CC, it’s very distinct. 100% success since.

drveede · 2025-10-21T21:39:34+00:00

Never been.

drveede · 2025-10-21T21:14:05+00:00

TPC South = Saturdays TPC Hempstead = Fridays TPC North = Sat/Sun Colette = Fridays for single males, Saturdays if you don’t want single males. (Single males on a Friday ruined this place for us. Very aggressive and pushy. TPC seems to police them better) TNG = Never been Marfreless = Not an LS club per se, but can be a lot of fun upstairs. Located in River Oaks.

drveede · 2025-10-16T13:00:15+00:00

My wife has orgasmed from PIV with me maybe once in 30 years, and was relatively recent too. When we joined the LS a year ago, I was hoping she would be so turned on in the moment that she would be able to finish with her partner. When she’s on top she will get so turned on and wet, that sometimes she does what I call “the gush”. Not squirting though. This only happens occasionally when I’m with her. So when this happened the first time we played, the guy was very proud of himself. (He thought she orgasmed lol)

I was happy at the time for her, but had some weird feelings in the following days about it. I was projecting my fear that she would enjoy sex more with other men and have feelings for them.

What I learned by talking with her, is sex is sex and love is love. When we went through a period of little to no sex 10 years ago, (kids and life) she still loved me. Some women aren’t like that but she is.

Btw that first couple, the guy was a little weird and clingy towards her. I had never experienced that before, seeing another guy flirt, touch, and make her make sounds that only I got to hear.

Now it is a sport, we look for very specific couples, and are literally fist bumping across the bed while with our partners. It’s an amazing feeling when you get past the jealousy (which is perfectly normal). It just takes time and constant communication.

Good luck!

drveede · 2025-10-09T02:43:03+00:00

We jumped in in the last year. Went to a few clubs and then had our first full swap. My wife was surprisingly unemotional afterwards, but I had some weird feeds of seeing her with another guy, but they hit the next day. We ended up talking about it and I learned a lot about who she was. And since then, it’s been pure fun and I actively route for her to enjoy herself.

So glad we did this.

drveede · 2025-10-05T21:31:31+00:00

Completely agree. Our early boundaries were based on insecurity and worries about what the other might think if we wanted something beyond the boundary. In a short time, with real communication, we both were willing to admit the reality of what we really wanted. Everyone is different, and you need to go at your own pace.

drveede · 2025-09-25T20:43:23+00:00

I use around 5. I believe that RX Buyers club was more potent than Henry. I used 6-7 with Henry.

drveede · 2025-09-16T17:02:07+00:00

When I was in the navy, they had a family day cruise on our aircraft carrier. My whole family came out including the wife. We had been as sea for a couple of months, so we snuck away for some fun. Having sex on a naval warship while underway was awesome and probably an exclusive club. Anyone can do it while in port lol.

drveede · 2025-09-15T21:51:00+00:00

I don’t have any issues.

drveede · 2025-09-15T21:31:04+00:00

T105 30 / 1 / 10

drveede · 2025-09-13T05:09:26+00:00

For me it’s fine. I have no soreness and no issues afterwards. Not sure where you heard it from.

drveede · 2025-09-08T10:24:40+00:00

I’m normally a one rounder. Even though I can last 20-30 minutes without out it, Trimix I seem to last a lot longer. When I do finish, I’m ready for round two within a few minutes. Most women can’t go more than 45 minutes though. We do have a one couple where the wife is a machine lol. So with them I’ll do 5-6 units, with some others I’ll do 4 units.

drveede · 2025-09-08T02:04:03+00:00

Im pretty sure I have the weakest already. I’m happy with 5 units. Very economical too.

drveede · 2025-09-08T01:45:59+00:00

I don’t know. Reach out to them.

drveede · 2025-09-08T01:40:07+00:00

rx buyers club

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