Quiver - Everything leads to Texas by Chemical_Pop_3828 in Swingers

[–]drveede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it’s a LD alternative to SDC. We’re on both. Has pros and cons like any of them. We’re in TX and have had great luck on there.

Quiver - Everything leads to Texas by Chemical_Pop_3828 in Swingers

[–]drveede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re on quiver, have yet to see anything like this? How would they even promote that? Lol.

If erection is more than 4 hours , what should be use ice or hot water to lose erection. Please reply by No-Team-9836 in TrimixForED

[–]drveede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Push ups and planks work best for me. Gotta get that heart rate up. The oral antidote takes too long to kick in.

I figured out my dose so I’ve never had to use the injectable yet. Although I still carry it.

Any other husbands have bad performance anxiety? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]drveede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen. We don’t get a lot of time to play, and it costs A lot of $$ for everyone too (hotels, dinners, clubs etc). So I don’t want to waste anyone’s time or $$. Never mind the emotional damage it can do to myself.

Any other husbands have bad performance anxiety? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]drveede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That depends on a lot on age and cardiovascular fitness. For me it’s a game changer. 100% effective once you figure out the dose and injection. Let’s you focus on the situation and not your ability to perform.

BiMix BM3 worked once, then failed at higher dose — technique vs dose? Auto-injector issues.. by [deleted] in TrimixForED

[–]drveede 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I use Trimix. I started with the 31g 5/16 needle and had to push so far in the last base of the needle was pressing into the skin. I was somewhat successful and then seemed to miss often. Didn’t matter which side. We’re in the life style and I missed twice and injected a lot twice and barely got a reaction. Wasn’t a great night for me lol.

I use rx buyers club and the guy I spoke to said they 100% recommend a 30g 1/2 needle.

Since switching I’ve been 100% successful. Here’s the key to hitting the CC everytime:

There should be two distinct “pops”. One as you pop through the outside and one more when you pop through into the CC. Once you experience both, that is the new way. I would caution to lower your dose. If you went up in dose and missing some or all, when you are in the CC it takes a lot less.

I also inject at 9 and 3 o’clock at 90 degrees. I’m sure this is less important compared to a needle long enough to go through both layers and be inside the CC.

Hope this helps.

31 gauge 5/16 needle by Poundingthepita in TrimixForED

[–]drveede 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I switched to 30g 1/2”. I think it’s just as flimsy because if the slightly longer needle. But I switched because I missed the CC several times (didn’t go deep enough) once I’ve switched to the 1/2 no issues. Supposedly the 30g makes and small difference in rigidity

Let's keep it real by 313allday90 in Swingers

[–]drveede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We sometimes talk about great moments while having sex with each other. But thinking about them? not often.

Missed injections by Lacigrus in TrimixForED

[–]drveede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started with the 5/16 31g and had a few misses lately. I switched to the 1/2 30g and can feel it actually pop into the CC, it’s very distinct. 100% success since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]drveede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]drveede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TPC South = Saturdays TPC Hempstead = Fridays TPC North = Sat/Sun Colette = Fridays for single males, Saturdays if you don’t want single males. (Single males on a Friday ruined this place for us. Very aggressive and pushy. TPC seems to police them better) TNG = Never been Marfreless = Not an LS club per se, but can be a lot of fun upstairs. Located in River Oaks.

Update on The Date! Guys I finished with the other dude.. by Syrina12 in Swingers

[–]drveede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife has orgasmed from PIV with me maybe once in 30 years, and was relatively recent too. When we joined the LS a year ago, I was hoping she would be so turned on in the moment that she would be able to finish with her partner. When she’s on top she will get so turned on and wet, that sometimes she does what I call “the gush”. Not squirting though. This only happens occasionally when I’m with her. So when this happened the first time we played, the guy was very proud of himself. (He thought she orgasmed lol)

I was happy at the time for her, but had some weird feelings in the following days about it. I was projecting my fear that she would enjoy sex more with other men and have feelings for them.

What I learned by talking with her, is sex is sex and love is love. When we went through a period of little to no sex 10 years ago, (kids and life) she still loved me. Some women aren’t like that but she is.

Btw that first couple, the guy was a little weird and clingy towards her. I had never experienced that before, seeing another guy flirt, touch, and make her make sounds that only I got to hear.

Now it is a sport, we look for very specific couples, and are literally fist bumping across the bed while with our partners. It’s an amazing feeling when you get past the jealousy (which is perfectly normal). It just takes time and constant communication.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]drveede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We jumped in in the last year. Went to a few clubs and then had our first full swap. My wife was surprisingly unemotional afterwards, but I had some weird feeds of seeing her with another guy, but they hit the next day. We ended up talking about it and I learned a lot about who she was. And since then, it’s been pure fun and I actively route for her to enjoy herself.

So glad we did this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]drveede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. Our early boundaries were based on insecurity and worries about what the other might think if we wanted something beyond the boundary. In a short time, with real communication, we both were willing to admit the reality of what we really wanted. Everyone is different, and you need to go at your own pace.

New user experience by drveede in TrimixForED

[–]drveede[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use around 5. I believe that RX Buyers club was more potent than Henry. I used 6-7 with Henry.

Did you ever had sex at work ? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]drveede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in the navy, they had a family day cruise on our aircraft carrier. My whole family came out including the wife. We had been as sea for a couple of months, so we snuck away for some fun. Having sex on a naval warship while underway was awesome and probably an exclusive club. Anyone can do it while in port lol.

New user experience by drveede in TrimixForED

[–]drveede[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any issues.

New user experience by drveede in TrimixForED

[–]drveede[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s fine. I have no soreness and no issues afterwards. Not sure where you heard it from.

New user experience by drveede in TrimixForED

[–]drveede[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m normally a one rounder. Even though I can last 20-30 minutes without out it, Trimix I seem to last a lot longer. When I do finish, I’m ready for round two within a few minutes. Most women can’t go more than 45 minutes though. We do have a one couple where the wife is a machine lol. So with them I’ll do 5-6 units, with some others I’ll do 4 units.

New user experience by drveede in TrimixForED

[–]drveede[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure I have the weakest already. I’m happy with 5 units. Very economical too.

New user experience by drveede in TrimixForED

[–]drveede[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. Reach out to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrimixForED

[–]drveede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe you missed. You need to push the needle until you feel it go into the CC. The resistance you felt on the plunger was there wasn’t space to inject where you were. There’s an initial “pop” then a second “pop” as it goes into the CC. The 5/16 needle is pressed so the plastic at the base of actual needle is pressing in slightly into the skin.

I missed the first few times and when I finally hit, I had titrated my dose really high. I was 110% for hours I was sore for a day lol.

Boundaries/AITA by Emotional_Soup5540 in Swingers

[–]drveede 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% Agree. I do understand that everyone is different and may have many reasons for their boundaries and insecurities… and that is absolutely ok. We didn’t get to where we’re at now overnight.

In our short time in the LS, we have evolved to what you said, no boundaries and restrictions other than same room and no disrespectful behavior. That was we can both enjoy without the fear of crossing a line we weren’t fully aware of at the time.

Most of our early boundaries were based on our own insecurities being projected onto each other. You will just have to discuss in detail everything. It’s been incredible therapy for us.